Questions about penis size, wet dreams, masturbation and ejaculation ? -
I have some doubts that makes me very worried about myself and that makes me to feel very ashamed. I-m asking these questions respectfully and very seriously, and I don-t have the intention of offending anyone.The first thing that I have to make clear is that I-m virgin and I-m 18 years old. My penis size is about only 4 inches when it is erected. I-m extremely worried about my penis size because I feel very ashamed of it, and I think that girls will reject me because of this small size... Is this size normal or my penis will not be efficient to please a woman because it is very tiny ??? This is a problem to my future sexual life ??? Women will accept this ???
The other question that I want to ask is about wet dreams... I began the masturbation -late- (specifically when I was 16 years old). I usually masturbate one or two times per week. My worry is that I never had, before I was 16 years old, a wet dream; and now, that I am 18 years old, I am beginning to have them. Usually, I have wet dreams when I don-t masturbate for a week.. This is normal or I-m too -old- to have wet dreams ???
The other question about masturbation is that I -come- (ejaculate) too quickly... What is the normal time to -resist- the ejaculation ??? Is a serious problem to ejaculate quickly ??? What can I do to -last- more time ??? Is true that women hate when men ejaculate too quickly ???
***I will be very grateful if you help me with these doubts and I hope you understood everything I wanted to say, because English is not my primary language and I am not so good writing it. Let me know if I wrote incorrectly, because it will help me a lot. Thanks ; ) ***
You-re only about an inch under the average adult male penis, but you can still grow, depending on when you began puberty. The average adult male penis size is about 3-4 inches flaccid, 5-7 inches erect and about 4.5-5.5 inches in girth (circumference). Males don-t usually begin puberty until about ages 12-13 and end around ages 18-21, depending on when you began. If you began late, then you-ll most likely end around 21 or sometimes later. Don-t worry about your size, for you-re who you are and should be proud. If you plan to have sex later in life and the girl laughs at your size, then obviously she doesn-t love you for you. A true girlfriend/wife will not care about size.
It-s completely normal for a male of your age and even older to have Nocturnal Emissions (Wet Dreams). All a Nocturnal Emission is, is the emission of semen during the sleep because the body needs to release it. Age really doesn-t matter at all, because the body will release semen whenever need be.
There really is no normal time to be able to last before orgasming, for every male is differing. As your body-s PC muscles (Muscles that control ejaculation) strengthen, you-ll last longer during Sexual Intercourse. You can do Kegel exercises to strengthen these muscles. Below I will list a site and they have the best way for males to do it. It-s simple and requires no medication. Again, it depends on the female. If the female loves you for you, she-ll be able to help you learn to control your ejaculation.
Feel free to research on any of the above topic if you-d like more information in depth. Your body is still growing. Be confident in who you are and don-t let any female change that. Hope this helps.
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Normal. Except, how is it that you only masturbate 2-3 times a week???? I mean, I-m 30 and I sometimes still masturbate 1-2 times daily!
You are just a very late developer, with some differences.
Good writing, I know many people with English as their primary language, and they do not write as well.
you are ok in every regard.
Well the average penis is 6- whether thats soft or hard I-m not sure. Honestly there are man women who believe sex is all about the size but honestly it is really important how you work it. You could have a 9- penis but if you don-t know how to move it to where it pleases a women it isn-t going to matter so my advice to you is learn how to work it.Your probably having wet dreams now because your ready to lose your virginity. Dreams are a way of your unconcious mind speaking to you. So without you even realizing it you want to have sex. And no you are not to old to have wet dreams. It is true that women do not like someone who ejaculates quickly because we get pissed of if we don-t have an orgasm. You probably ejaculate quickly because your not sexually active and you don-t masturbate often. The more often you masturbate the longer it will take for you to ejaculae.
The thing about cocks is that they-re just happy to be there. It doest matter the size.... get over it and go for it.
As to the masturbation and wet dreams. you-re fine. Stop worrying.
And your lasting power when doing it yourself is no measure of actually being there. Everyone is MUCH faster doing it themselves. I mean you know what you-re doing and have a mission. I mean, it would suck if it took forever.
Of course, like with everyone, the first times with people always go fast. Relax. You-re fine.
Well you shouldn-t be ashamed of your penis size be proud of yourself and who you are, woman love confident men, I-m sure you can please a woman with a 4 in penis just focus on foreplay more and there is nothing wrong with being a 18 year old virgin. As for your -wet dreams- its just because you haven-t jacked off for a week and you have lots pent up sexual energy. The first times you have sex you will probably ejaculate quickly, most guys do, just explain to your partner that it-s your first time and she will understand you will get better at holding it in the more experience you have.
Sex is all about fun, when you can make your woman happy before penetration and the real intercourse that-s how you can divert her attention from noticing your size and all, once she gets to know that you are a good partner in giving her pleasure during sex (including foreplay, teasing etc) she will never care about your size, quick ejaculation and stuff. keep masturbating and if you-re too concerned about this issue use techniques to enlarge your penis or refer to medication. from my side, you are perfectly alright.
U r all rite....... Me too started masturbating only at the age of 16 nd now i am 21 i hav no prob.... Size doesnt matter man....... Me too had the same prob regarding size a few weeks back...... but now i am out of it... thanks to yahoo answers....... you need not worry abt ur size at all... only style matters..... and abt wet dreams not its not a prob as far as i know..... If u do masturbate regularly u can get rid out of it.....