How to stop premature ejaculation? -
First things first....I am a virgin and masturbate regularly.Now that that-s out of the way (lol), I am serously concerned about p.e. I-m not so concerned about vaginal intercouse (not sure why), more about oral sex when it comes to p.e. There are many jokes that state p.e. is very common during ones -first time- or -first times.- Is p.e. something that men just figure out how to control eventually? What precautions or steps can I take now that will help reduce the risk when sex does occur?
Plug it with a fine wine cork.
Edging, dude. Practice feeling the sensations then stop. It works and is fun too.
The first step to cure premature ejaculation is to become aware of your own levels of arousal. Experiment, take your time and give yourself a very real self-loving exploration, not just a quick masturbatory release. Notice how your penis moves through distinct changes before orgasm and ejaculation, he-s not just soft and then hard and spewing. There are four defined stages of erection: lengthening and filling; swelling; full erection; rigid erection. The fourth stage, rigid erection, characterized by a penis that-s very stiff (a *****) and very hot, signifies ejaculation is close at hand. Through attentive self-arousal and the playful hands of your sweetheart you can learn how to stay for longer periods of time in the exciting, but less explosive, third stage of firm erection. When you feel yourself moving into the hard, hot level stop stimulation, relax and pay attention to your breathing. Breathe slowly and deeply.
The Power of Breath
Conscious breathing is a key for extended lovemaking. Rapid breathing excites and arouses you. Slow, controlled breathing, way down into your belly, calms you and helps delay ejaculation. Focusing on your breath takes your attention away from your genitals. Synchronizing your breathing rhythm with your partner-s strengthens your connection with each other.
Adding sound to your breathing can also help you ride the edge of pleasure. As you exhale send out a deep lion roar. Feel the sound come from your scrotum, up through your belly and lungs and out your mouth as a powerful release of the orgasmic tension building inside you.
It does happen, and Most guys have experienced it, But it really isnt as much as you hear. Guys just get too excited thinking about what is happening to them. Just try to relax and be comfortable. It probably wont even happen. Some guys even go the other direction, and cant orgasm. Thats probably even more rare, but Thats how I was when I was young. I could last for hours, even though I didnt want to. But I learned to relax, too and some kind girls helped me. Now its all good.
jerk off before you are going to have sex... that way you are less likely to *** quick