I have premature ejaculation..i need help! what should i do? -
Pls,give me some advice,who can help me? i-m from manila in philippines.
does mentioning where you came from help us answer you question?
Hi,
First of all you should understand the reasons of premature ejaculation...There are several reasons of it:
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psychological factors (depression, stress, feeling of guilt, low self-rating, excessive nervousness owing to sex)
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diseases (problems with thyroid gland, prostate infective diseases, changing of level of particular hormones and substances produced by brain).
Premature ejaculation of young people is connected with inexperience (they do not know yet their body very well). Some men have premature ejaculation as a result of erectile dysfunction.
The main method of treatment is psychological, sexual, pharmacological therapy. In some cases helps the only one way of treatment, in other cases it necessary to use them in complex.
Psychological therapy.
Speaking with psychologist often can be very useful. Patient can come to consult the doctor along with his partner. Specialist will help to release stress and to improve quality of sexual life.
Sexual therapy.
There are some exercises that help to learn to delay ejaculation, that can be done alone or with the partner.
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Compression method. Partner stimulates your penis with her hand until his erection. When she feels that ejaculation is coming she compresses penis head for several seconds. Erection is coming down partially. In 30 seconds partner stimulates penis again. It should be repeated several times and finally ends with ejaculation.
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Interrupter method. Partner stimulates penis until ejaculation. At this moment she stops stimulation and waits until the man cools down. Then again she starts to eat penis with her hands. It repeats until ejaculation.
Pharmacological therapy.
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Antidepressants. Drug side effect of some medicines belonging to that group (paroxetine, flouxetine) is orgasm delay. That is why they can be used on doctor’s orders to treat premature ejaculation. If those medicines do not help then doctor prescribes another type of antidepressant called clomipramine.
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Creams containing local anesthetic (for example, lidocaine) are used for many years to treat premature ejaculation. Cream application on head of penis opiates sensation and delays ejaculation. Before sex cream should be washed off to avoid its contact with woman’s genital organs.
Slow down, take it easy - enjoy the feelings. You can purchase a tube of desensitizing cream - rub it onto Junior to delay blastoff.
learn to relax and slow down.when your ready to c u m stop, relax for a bit and then start again, keep doing this until you can-t hold off.
shouldnt you go talk to your local doctor if its that much of an issue for you? just wondering what does stating your location help?