Premature Ejaculation? -
I am 20 years old and have always only had to masterbate for like 4-8 minutes before I ***. Sometimes less than that... I-ve been dating this girl that I care about alot and don-t want to screw things up with. We have started getting intimate. The problem is when she goes to give me oral it takes less than a minute for me to ***. I don-t know why this is happening, but its very embarrassing. Mainly, when we are foolin around, I am concentrating on making her pleasure. But one time she did make me *** twice within a two hour period, each time didnt take long for me to ***. The second time, a little longer than the first. But, then she gave me oral ask I got another erection after the the second time, and I never had the feeling of cumming during it. I would like to be that way the first time though...Your getting very excited so you *** much faster.
You-re still young and if you really haven-t had much sexual experience then you-re not going to last long at first. When you feel an orgasm impending, stop stimulation to the penis for a few moments until it fades away a little, then continue. As you do this, the PC muscles (muscles that control ejaculation) will strengthen thus your lasting longer. The reason you don-t feel like you have to ejaculate the third time is because the more you ejaculate, the longer it takes your body to reach orgasm. Hope this helps.
When you find that you are getting too excited too fast, have her squeeze the head of your penis and wait til the urgent feeling goes away, then start again. If she continues to do that, then you will be able to go longer and longer before climaxing. That-s something that sex therapists recommend.
if u enjoy oral have her give u oral before you have sex or even to get u tuned on. that way ur not already so into ir ur going to *** right away. use it maybe as a 4 play for your relationsip. so it still gives you plesure but u have a lil longer for it to last
Try withdrawing and interruption at planned intervals of 3 minutes. That will train your response to be more patient.
the more excited you are, the faster it comes out.
There are three reasons why you may be suffering from premature ejaculation.
One reason could be, that as an adolescent, the masturbation habits you developed may have led to this. Typically adolescents masturbate with the intention of reaching orgasm quickly, thus premature ejaculation has been “grooved” into your system.
Now for the second reason, let’s face it we’d all like to be able to make love for hours. There’s one problem though. The body sees sex as a means to reproduce. That said your body is going to try and reproduce as fast and efficiently as possible. This is why premature ejaculation mostly affects men in their teens and 20’s.The catch is, now you have to learn how to control it.
3.The third cause of premature ejaculation is the inability to handle and control intense arousal and sexual stimulation. Once arousal reaches a certain tipping point it becomes almost impossible to hold back ejaculation.
In your pelvic region, various muscles come into play during the ejaculation process. If you can identify those particular muscles and if you can use exercises to develop control over them then you can attain total ejaculation control. For controlling premature ejaculation focus on various emotions, thoughts and perceptions that are proven to cause premature ejaculation.
There are some techniques like heart rate technique, breathing technique, training of glans, masturbation and sex techniques. You may find the detail on fwebsite given in source.
the first orgasm will be like that, try jacking off before you have sex because the second time will normally take longer because you have released already. The more you have sex the more you will be able to last, it happens to us all, the first time I had sex, well the fist few times I had sex it was real quick and yes embarresing, but we live and learn, it does get better, and if she is understanding she wont make you feel bad about it, sometimes how a woman responds to it can either make you or break you, a good woman will be willing to work with you and be patient, if not kick her to the curb.