Premature ejaculation? -
selfish or a real problem? I think that guys should try harder not to *** to soon, it is very annoying, nothing worse than climbing on top and a mintute later u have to slow down, stop or change positions.yeah i hate that it makes me angry and makes me feel like if i been treated like some sort of slu t...
You just described 99% of men on the planet. Here is the solution. Dont let him stop when he has an orgasam, just keep going. He will stay hard, and the next one will take ALOT longer to get there. If that isnt long enough for you, keep him going again. I guarantee #3 will be a long time comming. Remamber, this only works if the action doesnt stop or even slow down during and after his orgasim.
It-s a real problem, a form of impotence which statistics say every man has or will expirience at some time in his life.
Would you prefer that he can-t get excited by you at all?
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Try some foreplay, and have some sexy fun, you sound like a sack of potatoes, if so you-ll always be the annoying selfish one.
Sweetheart, it is really different for all men, some can perform intercourse for up to twenty minutes before they ejaculate, probably the majority of men last up to five to seven minutes before ejaculation.
That is why foreplay is so impotent, if you need multiple orgasms then your partner must caress your gene ital area with fingers to achieve also performing oral sex while caressing your g Spot will help achieve a climax several times
It happens to men once or a few times in their lives. Its annoying to female partners and its unexpected and embarrassing also to the man but its not always the mans fault. The fact that he arrives at climax much earlier than you doesn-t mean he-s selfish, unless of course if he-s not bothered by it at all. He-s probably all stimulated by your feel and touch and his potential is rapidly peaked. You have to understand him, give him a few minutes or more and let him try again. The subsequent sessions will usually be much longer. Take your time, don-t rush.
A simple training technique which helps(but not always) is to try masturbating him and then let go before he comes(don-t let him come), then continue until he-s almost there then let go again without letting him release. Keep repeating this for as long as you can manage then let him have you. Do this as often as possible. Happy love-making!
with some its a real problem, prostate problems can cause this also. You will know he-s selfish if when all is done you are put to one side -so to speak-. Then the solution to that is talk about it, and if that doesn-t help maybe the relationship isn-t right for you or him.
PE is a psychological problem in 99 percent cases.Anxiety,lack of confidence,ignorance etc are reasons.If you read Casanova or see porno video,you will think that sex lasts for hours.It is all editted shows.Real sex lasts only few minutes,2 to 7 minutes,the average being 3 minutes.If you think that you have no capacity to satisfy woman,you are finished.Best thing to prevent PE is having confidence.Even size of penis does not matter.If you want to improve time you dont RUSH,be slow initially and incease speed and impact gradually.Keep mind pre occupied(chewing gum good).Oil or gelly will help to some extent.Kegel exercise is another solution.The herbal tablets(formulation) CONFIDO (Himalaya Pharmaceuticals) may be helpful.
PE the maximum complaint of men all over the world.
Who is the selfish one here?
mintute is spelled minute.
Why don-t you try for round 2? Or if that takes the fun out of it for you, then let him take care of himself before he is ready for you. I don-t think it-s selfish, I-m sure if he could control it, he would....he-s probably very embarrassed.
help your guy out and coach him in this area! maybe you-re just that good. just be more patient with him and that should extend your round(s).
you sound like a bit of a slappa to me sweetheart
for years i have been trying to perform the art of premature ejaculation now i think i got it down to a least 25 seconds. mainly so i can go to sleep or have a smoke lol
some men can make up to 5 rounds... change your partner!
For some men it is a real problem, if the penis is ultra sensitive to stimulation the slightest thing can make it go off! some men don-t even get as far as penetration before they spurt, try pinching it at the base between two fingers that can delay the inevitable for a while, also after he-s come for the first time, give him a few minutes - try a bit of oral stimulation to get him going again, second time round should last a bit longer!
Contemplate on foreplay, and oral stuff, encourage your guy on the repetitive rather than the negatives! My lucky GF normally comes a least thrice or more during our orals, thats well before penetrating, just my d**k knocking on her -heaven door- causes her to -tsunami-....Learn to synchronise and you-d enjoy....
Aww bless the best thing to do to try and solve this problem is to actually gently but firmly pull his balls downwards. it will stop him coming so fast. Or just stop if he feels he is close and let him give you oral. if you love him though you can just laugh with him about it, it-s not the most important thing!
lol good luck and have fun!
have you ever thought that you might just be so hot!! in bed that the poor sod cant help it. strap a photo of he-s mom on your ****......that should slow things down a bit.
It is a real problem. Nasal delivery technology is supposed to work. I feel ya sista. If they can try not to touch themselves for a while and have more regular sex, they can be trained. Good luck.
you-re too sexy for him that he can-t control himself to ejaculate too soon. The 2nd around is much more longer for him to ejaculate. The 3rd is much better and so forth, depends on his energy.
Men can control their ejaculation to certain extend.. but they dont have full control...
I thing ther probelm when u have sex is u go too fast - make him ejaculate...
Take it slow baby.. its not a sports car...that goes vrooom...
Anyway if u man ejacutaed to fast... tell me not to be selfish - make u orgasm thru oral .. - maybe go for another round after some time...when he gets his penis up and running...