Is there a cure for premature ejaculation? -
I am 26 i have been married to my wonderful wife for almost to years now. She has only had one vaginal orgasm in her life and i did not give it to her. The problem is i cant last long enough to take her there. This is really depressing me as i want her to enjoy sex as much as I do, yet i always fall way short of any fire works. I have made her orgasm orally and with other techniques. I need help last longer!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELPThe reason you come too quickly when you suffer from premature ejaculation is because there��s too much friction on your penis. The stimulation gets too intense and your climax is triggered. So, what can you do to stop this from happening? You can increase the lubrication. One common way to do this is to use shop-bought lube, like KY jelly or something. This is okay, but it��s not great. You have to keep applying it, which is annoying for you and your partner. A much better way is to pleasure your partner so much before and during sex that she becomes and stays soaking wet herself, without the aid of artificial lube. This is a good idea for two reasons. First, it keeps things slick, so the friction is lessened and your sexual performance is extended and second, you break up sexual intercourse with other pleasurable activities which not only keep your partner wet, but also keep her turned on and enjoying the sex like crazy. Here a few ways to do this. Remember: make foreplay last at least 10 minutes and make sure your partner is very, very wet before you start penetrative sex and also, remember to use non-penetrative techniques between sex positions to give your penis the break from stimulation it needs.
Here��s how to get your partner soaking wet:
Even before starting foreplay, you need to turn your partner on. You do this by getting her in the mood. You should know how to do this already, because you know your partner better than anybody, but you can try: talking slowly and descriptively about how horny and turned on you feel and how sexy and tempting she looks. Don��t randomly start doing this in the middle of the street. Wait until the scene and mood is right. Build it slowly and make it genuine. Begin slowly touching her, but NOT on her most sexual areas, like her breasts and between her legs. Softly touch her neck and slide your fingertips up and down her bare arms. You get the idea. Be smooth and sensual. Dedicate lots of time to teasing your partner before making oral or manual contact with her vagina. You want her to be gagging for your mouth and fingers before she gets them. Start foreplay using your mouth and fingers. If you know you aren��t very good with oral, get practising! Read up on good techniques and use them on your girl. During oral or other foreplay, check how wet she is getting by inserting your fingers into her vagina. Keep pleasing her until she��s really wet and, well, almost sticky down there. When you start penetration, she will be really wet, so don��t dry her up by pumping her hard and fast straight away. Start really slow and steady. This will get her even wetter and will also allow you to keep your stimulation levels under control.
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It has some great techniques in it and what-s important is that... It really works for me :)
desensitizers Like -man delay- May help slow you down a little, You might also try having a couple glasses of wine, its stronger then beers and might also help slow you down, desensitize you Dont get stupid drunk, but enough to nearly get a buzz and wine doesn-t stink like beer does and she may want to partake too.. Your young but try to develop a taste for it before a little candle light and wine makes her feel your trying to be romantic too...another thing to work on is trying to get back in the game if you do go off early, asap she-s your love work to make her happy is part of the gig.. even if it means going 200%..lol
A couple of things.
There are some products that will desensitize your penis... like numbing baby-s gums when teething. The teething gel is probably cheaper than the stuff they sell for your penis... but the idea is the same.
Here-s another. Use Viagra or similar drug. If you ejaculate fine, but you can continue having sex with the Viagra-s help.
If you are masturbating, try to stop... it gets us too used to a fast ejaculation.
Or... have her help you with jacking as foreplay... then with some of the blue pill-s help go for it a second time. Often the second one is harder for you to get off... and with some -V- you last... could be great!
Good luck... we will be pulling for you. Uh... well, you will be pulling on your self, but you... oh, never mind!
:-)
it takes practice. u can google -male kegel muscle exercises- and that may help. but it takes time and practice. an easier way might be to get off first and then have sex after an hour or so. i find the second orgasm takes longer. have her be on top. its easier for many women to come when they are on top. my bf always distracts himself from coming by kissing my breasts and focusing on that instead; he says it helps alot... good luck :)
*chuckle* leave it to a 16 year old boy to tell u that -size matters-
*rolls eyes* (ya it matters if u are hung like a squirrel)
i-m a 38 yr old woman and have seen a couple on the smaller side and there was no lack in sensation.
seriously, instead of making this a quick fix and taking a pill, i strongly suggest looking at the muscle exercises i mentioned earlier. this may even strengthen the bond u have with your wife and can be a fun exercise u do together. (women have the same muscles)
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http://www.biggerloads.com/penis-size/ke��
well ummm size can help but you should try masturbation 2 or 3 time during the hours before sex ive hear that works
ive never had that prob
but im only sixteen so yeah just try the masterbating thing