My lover has pre-ejaculation, bad? help please.? -
1) he IS experienced and in mid-20s- had 2 long term relationships and other non-relationship parters2) he is uncircumsiced
When we first started dating he would literally last under a minute. he was terribly embarrassed but said it happened when it was -new- with someone and would go away. Well it IS a little better now, but he can-t thrust fast for more than literally....5-7 seconds so i am getting very frustrated not being satisfied. [i need more friction..slow doesn-t do it for me] I don-t understand....he is very comfortable with me but he says he just gets very excited by me. [yes i am flattered]. He still has this problem even after we-ve had sex a couple times in the morning and then go for a 3rd round...he-s still sensitive! its driving me crazy. the odd thing is it doesn-t happen when i-m giving him a bj..and he loves bj-s.
why is this happening? i-ve heard guys have this prob if they j** off too much.. or is it cuz he isn-t circumsized?
can someone please give advice? we love each other so much but it is getting frustrating in the bedroom.
It happens because he is way to excited with you in the bed having sex.
He needs to practice :Edging.
He must jerk himself of till the point that he almost climaxes.Then stop and divert his mind from coming.Then continue again etc etc He can repeat this for a long time,
He ,after he practiced this will last way longer with applying the same technique,
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You may want to try being on top lying flat. You will have to do all the work but, he can keep both hands busy and plenty of kissing. The benefit could be- you can control the thrusting and keep it short.
The BIG benefit may be - the heavy pressure placed on your most sensitive area. It should help you and keep him subdued longer.
As time goes on - he will have to work at it but, he should be able to control himself better. Un-cut is very - very sensitive.
If he-s jacking too much the results would be opposite of your thinking. If he-s presently wearing a condom try to find one that-s not so thin. If he-s not wearing a condom get him to try one and see what happens. Also, there-s a topical desensitizer he can use. Not being circumcised can or can not play a part in this issue.
I cannot explain the -mechanics- of this because I-m not an expert (but you-ll get a lot of info from 12 year old -experts- here...)
The only thing I can tell you is that your boyfriend is one of millions and millions of men, who has this -problem.- Have him consult a doctor. Not all the problems in life can be solved on the Net.
Look up Kegal exercises on Google. Swear to God if this dude does the exercises right you will notice a big difference. Women Can do them to and it will make their Orgasm more powerful.
you must be pretty sexy for him to *** so fast. go to the adult bookstore and get him a cock ring. it will hold him back.
maybe he is having reactions to his enzyte pill