Premature ejaculation? -
Hi i am 18 and i have recently started having sex, and at first i got off REALLY fast. It has started to last a bit longer but not much(maybe 1.5 mins) and i have had sex about 15 times. Will i start to last longer? Or will i stay at this. thanx
I don-t think you have premature ejaculation as it can take some time for a young adult to last longer, especially if he just started having sex. You can practice by masturbating, and right before you climax you stop, then repeat. This teaches you to control your orgasm.
And about your girlfriend, getting mad will only get her nervous and make her less likely to climax. My boyfriend can only get me to come by manual stimulation, and sometimes it can take up to 45 minutes. So patience is a virtue in this case!
practice
Try the stop start method it trains you to last longer. During intercourse when you feel you are about to ejaculate, stop and when the feeling dies down start again and keep repeating for as long as you like. Have fun.
First you will always reach sexual climax faster than the woman does, it is part of the genetic design of the human body. Foreplay is one way to get the woman sexually excited before you start to have sex with her so that you can take her to a sexual climax when you have sex. Oral sex, and other methods can be used to do this. I won-t go into detail since that is against the rules for this site however a Google search for the Karma Sutra (
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=na…
or Tantic Sex (
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=na…
will put you on the right line.
Second if you reach orgasm first then the second time you will last longer. You are young enough that you can get several climaxes a night. If you sex partner gives you oral sex or if you masturbate before you have sex then you can take longer and will last longer to reach sexual climax.
try masturbating longer. practice make perfect.
Please see -Human Sexual Inadequacy-, by William H Masters, and Virginia E. Johnson. I believe the publisher is Little, Brown and Company. The first edition was published about 1968. There you will find a chapter on premature ejaculation, complete with techniques and exercises on how to delay ejaculation.
In the interim, consider the following: Long strokes, during coitus, promote ejaculation. Short, deep, hard thrusts, promote female orgasm. Also, the female superior positions, are the best for ejaculatory control. Probably, the best of these positions, for producing female orgasm, is the one where the woman-s feet are swung forward. If the woman can put her feet on the man-s biceps, she is in the correct position. This position makes for great G-spot penis contact.
When getting into this position; it is critical the woman does not lean back, while swinging her feet forward. Leaning back could injure her partner. It is best for the woman to mount the man, and achieve vaginal penetration. Then, swing one leg forward, at a time, while leaning forward.
You won-t last longer any time soon unless you really work to last longer. Last-longer tablets work very well for this, because they were made for it.
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Check out www.mistermanpower.net, I believe it has the answer you are looking for...it worked for me.
Well I can-t answer your question because everyone is different, however I can tell you how to help get your g/f off.
Try using your tongue, that will drive her crazy (oral sex). Lick her until she cums. Oh you-ll know when she-s going to come because you-ll feel her body twitch while licking her. Don-t stop until she pushes you off, then that-s when you get on top of her and do it unless she grabs you and wants to ride you like a horse. Now you-ll both be happy unless you forgot to put a condom on....lol
Good Luck
Just give it some time.
I hope you have only slept with a few girls and not 15 lol.
practice, just practice will teach you what needs to be done.
Hi,
You can stop premature ejaculation by natural exercise easily , read , Christian Gudnasons- book, The Ejaculation Master book,
http://www.ejaculationmaster.co.nr
, this guy grantees you ways that will help you have much longer sex , its just basically a few professional exercises that strengthen you ejaculation system in a few days
Hope this helps
Think about the girl and try not to focus on the ... sex... haa i know that sounds funny but I was nevous about that going into the first time I did it. I found if your really in love and into the girl and focused on her..you can last a really REALLY long time (im sure shed agree haha. Your just putting too much pressure on yourself...slow down, dont rush it, relax and dont think about it. Kiss her, hug her and you will forget what ur actually doing
good luck man
if you are fully healthy talk to your doctor about viagra. quick as a rabbit is normal for your age though, you have to concentrate on her pleasure to last longer. Remember the woman is always first - like through the door - in the cafeteria line - getting the picture here. The way you learn to last longer is to really put her pleasure first.