Ejaculation and the feel of the penis -

Ejaculation and the feel of the penis -

Sorry if these questions sounds odd, but.... a man can feel when he ejaculates inside of a woman, can-t he?

Does his penis change shape as he ejaculates inside the woman to a point where a woman can feel it changing or does it change cause a man is losing his erection or both?

Sorry again but I needed to ask.

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Just B4 the time of ejaculation, the penis swells to it-s biggest point and the head gets largest then too! This brings more contact and stimulation, making it all feel even better! A woman can often feel tighter contact inside, and the crown of the swollen head sliding contact inside her, especially if the Dude is doing longer stokes by now and coming close the opening with his knob.

When ejaculation takes place the penis pulses with each squirt, and semen is really warm from inside the body. Pulse means that it really firms with each squirt and then goes to normal hard.

A lady might feel all of this if she knew what she was looking for.
Safe sex is needed as a condom, unless yur a monogomous couple.
A condom will take away much of the abilit to feel this going on.

After ejaculation it usually starts to go down in a short time. That can reduce pleasure for the Lady! This is where a smart Dude includes his fingers to stimulate the Clit and Labia to bring a Lady through ....sweet, and nicely ;- ) Hahaha! B4 he goes right down.

Hope that gives it!
Me! :- )

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A man can feel when he ejaculates inside a woman, into his hand, or into thin air. It-s not something that escapes his notice.

Yes, a man can feel when he-s about to climax. The penis may swell a bit more before climax, and a woman can sometimes feel that, but the biggest clue to the woman would be the man-s other expressions of excitement--his sounds, his breathing, his rapid thrusting, etc.

The erection doesn-t usually shrink until after the ejaculation.

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sure man can feel when he ejaculate in a woman,because with ejaculation there are some symptoms like(feeling good pleasure,body shaking specially the knee).
after ejaculation there is loosing for erection and shrinkage to the penis to the level of can-t be felt by woman,also there are a lot sperm liquid in vagina which works as insulation between vagina wall and penis

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a man con feel everything around the penis, that is how the body knows when to ejaculate, it feels everything, every thing! Wowzer

Sometimes, I can stay hard and go at it again, but I will take a very long time getting another climax and ejaculation.

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hey! dont be sorry, its good that u asked because we are hear to help.
yes guys can feel ejaculations weather in or out of a women. it still feels amazing to them.
usaly the girl will know that he has come because of the sounds but when having a condom on its harder to tell. i found that it does go down and the penis doesnt stay in properly.

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We (us girls) can definitely feel it swell when the penis ejaculate inside. Feels extra nice since it feels bigger even if only for a little while. Not with a condom though.
It will feel extra nice for the guy if the girl orgasms before the guy as we -squeeze- when we orgasm.

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Of course a man feels when he ejaculates inside a woman.His penis as a matter of fact gets harder just before his climax.
After the climax he looses his erection.
Hope this helped you.
Planets.

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At the time of ejaculation it will be as swollen at the -head- as it will get - then shrink after ejaculation. - Yes men can feel the sensation of ejaculation.

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The penis stays erect for a little while after the ejaculation. Men can feel ejaculations, especially whenever they coincide with orgasms (which is most of the time)

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ye he can feel it...a woman would be able to feel his penis get harder when he ejaculates
the erection will stay for a while nd his penis wont have sensation

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Men can feel when the sperm is about to leave his body because there-s a good feeling sensation that come along while the body gives off the sperm.

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gets soft shortly after ejaculation unless i-m going for multuple ejaculations, yes i can feel it when it happens.

few times girls have told me they can feel mine squrt out inside of them

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Of course we (men) can feel it... While ejaculating, it doesn-t change shape. But after that, It will losing its erection soon... And of course (again) women can feel it...

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I have pain in my penis and early ejaculation what I do. I m a shy person and not want to go to doctor.? -

I have pain in my penis and early ejaculation what I do. I m a shy person and not want to go to doctor.? -

go to your neighbor-s.

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pain while erection is called priaprism - you will require treatment from a doctor.

for premature ejaculation, you can think of something else while having intercourse. stop for a while when you are going to get ejaculation. try kegel-s excercise.

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You need to get over the shyness and see a doctor. You can do it. Remember, he-s seen it all a million times before. It-ll probably be no more than a 15-30-second check, and the rest will be him asking questions with you completely covered up.

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when did the pain start? do you think it was the result of any recent activity? in any case, going to the doctor is your best option.

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You couldn-t be to shy if you discuss over yahoo to the world. I think you had better get yourself to a Dr. and get checked .

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You might hve an infection, going do the doctor is the most common thing to do. You shoulnd be shy it for your health.

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Go see the doctor, they-ve seen it all before... It-ll keep your mind clear and you-ll know if there-s anything wrong with you..

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one time i went to the woods and fell down a hill. i think you should man up and go to the doctor

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Well whats more important your shyness or going to the doctor to get that problem fixed?

I have pain in my penis and early ejaculation what I do. I m a shy person and not want to go to doctor.? -

How to lengthen time before ejaculation? -

How to lengthen time before ejaculation? -

My husband ejaculates too soon when we have sex. Some times it only takes him two minutes and it-s not long enough for us to really get into it and I realy love him and I want to be able to help him. Is there anything out there that i can give him to help? And by the way it-s not his fault he-s had sex before and never had this problem before me. He blames me. but still, any sugestions?

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when it looks like he-s about to ejaculate, hit him in the face. he will think twice before doing that again

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1. Tell him everytime he is about to ejaculate to change into a different position and to pull out his little soldier for a lil to rest up and then commence the battle.
2. In his spare time tell him to practice masterbating to near ejaculation and tell him to back off at that point until the urge stops and then to commence masterbating again and to repeat. This way he can build up some work capacity after some practice
3. he should compensate by giving your more foreplay since he isn-t satisfying you enough.

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Your probably just too damn good looking.

Anyway,
Try thicker condoms?
Try creams that help numb the penis.
Try no foreplay ?

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try trojan extended pleasure condoms....they come in a black box and black wrapper

they make u last forever

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double up on protection?

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MAybe ur just too hot for him

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Woman it isnt your fault. If he is blaming you maybe there is more to things than you know. Number one, I am a man, and I can honestly say that if I were having problems with ejaculating, it would not be the womans fault. Not ejaculating, on the other hand sometimes I cant finish myself. But my wife is a -bitcher-, she nags and whines and we sometimes just down right argue when we have sex. But gettin there too soon. I am not trying to pry but have you considered that maybe your husband might be seeing someone on the side? Often when guys finish so quickly its usually because their foolin around. Unless you just make the man wait and beg for sex. I could be wrong, but from what I have heard from friends, and actually had an experience where I was gettin off too quick because I had fooled around once before with someone. Usually caused by infidelity. But either way its not your fault that he is going too soon. -Everybody needs a scapegoat-. Of course it is easier to just say it is your fault than to come right out and say -hey honey I am cheating on you-. But if you want to try to make it last longer then go slower during sex. If you are curious if your husband is cheating. Here are some things to look for. 1.) things he does totally out of character for him. Like for example, you know he hates fishing, but all the sudden he wants to go at night or something like that. 2.) clean changes of clothes in your vehicle that you both use, or in his vehicle. 3.) obviously, unexplained purchases on the credit cards, 4.) on holidays, or like on valentines day say its on a saturday and he all the sudden has a last minute -meeting- or something to go to, which he says you cannot go with him, 5.) finding something like jewelry or something nice hidden thinking its your birthday gift, and then on your birthday getting something other than what you found. Theres tons of ways to find out if your husband might be cheating on you. But dont blame yourself. And if you dont want to tell him its not your fault that he is apparently a premie, then just say it in your own mind when he does say it is your fault. I am not trying to upset you, just answering your question the best way I can. If you would like more signs of when your spouse is cheating, email me. Hope this helps. Without upsetting you too much.

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What is premature ejaculation? -

What is premature ejaculation? -

When a man has an orgasm, his prostate pushes semen (which contains sperm) out of the penis - maybe a teaspoon or half tablespoon - not much.

After the orgasm, most men lose interest in sex or in their partner for a few minutes - or hours. Also, the penis goes limp.

Fine and dandy... except when the guy or the partner wants the sex to last longer. After all, if you-re having fun, you don-t want it to end too soon.

So, premature ejaculation is an orgasm that happens sooner than the man or his partner want it to happen.

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You MUST be awfully young, Bubba! It-s when the gun goes off before the trigger gets ready!

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u ejaculate prematurly....if u dont kno u prolly dont need 2 kno

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It-s fancy talk for -kids under 13 should get off the internet-

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when you ejaculate too fast without stimulating your girl first. haha

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letting loose as soon as u get it in

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When you ejaculate too soon.

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it is every man-s worst enemy

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its a deal breaker son.

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I have aerection probene and ejaculation please i beg u guys to help? -

I have aerection probene and ejaculation please i beg u guys to help? -

every time i have sex i really *** fast i mean i ejaculate really fast and and also i have to take cialis befor having sex every time to have a hard erection i am only 22 years old if any of u guys can give me some advice that will help me a lot to have a erection with out using cialis and also have a long lasting sex with ejaculate fast i always ejaculate not even 2 to 3 min pleaseeeeeeeeeee guys help me please as soon as possible

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You might have low levels of testosterone. Give blood work done with your doctor and stop taking the drugs until you figure out the problem.

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Ok...I think maybe Cialis isn-t the drug for you. Try talking to your urologist about what might be a better solution for your case.

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Premature ejaculation? -

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OK i have been having this problem with premature ejaculation. when my wife sucks on my manhood it takes forever for me to c.u.m but when it comes to sex i c.u.m in like 2 minutes....can someone help figure this out and if there is anything you can suggest would be great. thank you.

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You need to learn to control the PC muscle - that-s the muscle that controls ejaculation. There has been great success with the Start - Stop technique, a quick run-down of how it works:

this technique simply means to bring yourself to (near) the point of no return, and stopping all stimulation before it-s too late. For some men, this includes removal of the penis from the vagina, although for others this may not be necessary.

After the urgent feeling to ejaculate subsides, usually after 30 seconds, then thrusting and intercourse can be resumed. This stop and start technique can be repeated several times.

Communication is the key here, though. Men need to let their partner know that they are getting close to orgasm and to slow down or temporarily stop.

Feel free to email me at medic_aid@xtra.co.nz if you have any further questions - I-m happy to help.

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-Sexual therapy
In some cases, sexual therapy may involve simple steps, such as masturbating an hour or two before intercourse so that you-re able to delay ejaculation during sex.
-The squeeze technique
-Medications
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There are three reasons why you may be suffering from premature ejaculation.
One reason could be, that as an adolescent, the masturbation habits you developed may have led to this. Typically adolescents masturbate with the intention of reaching orgasm quickly, thus premature ejaculation has been “grooved” into your system.

Now for the second reason, let’s face it we’d all like to be able to make love for hours. There’s one problem though. The body sees sex as a means to reproduce. That said your body is going to try and reproduce as fast and efficiently as possible. This is why premature ejaculation mostly affects men in their teens and 20’s.The catch is, now you have to learn how to control it.

The third cause of premature ejaculation is the inability to handle and control intense arousal and sexual stimulation. Once arousal reaches a certain tipping point it becomes almost impossible to hold back ejaculation.

In your pelvic region, various muscles come into play during the ejaculation process. If you can identify those particular muscles and if you can use exercises to develop control over them then you can attain total ejaculation control. For controlling premature ejaculation focus on various emotions, thoughts and perceptions that are proven to cause premature ejaculation.
There are some techniques like heart rate technique, breathing technique, training of glans, masturbation and sex techniques .You may learn those techniques to control premature ejaculation.

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Vaginal intercourse is always more stimulating than oral sex. In sexual intercourse your entire shaft is submerged within the vaginal canal (normally) and is free to stimulate all the nerve endings along the whole length of the penis; plus, the warmth. Whereas during oral sex (because I doubt all of you can fit in her mouth) there is less stimulation and you don-t get the added pleasure of seeing her reaching a climax as well, as you would in sex.

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nasal delivery technology
google it
seriously


oh this is proven
eat lots of chocolate
theres a chemical in it or something

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She gives bad bjs

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Pre-ejaculation, how frequent is it? -

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Just a question, sorry if it-s really stupid. I was wondering how many times do guys usually pre-ejaculate? and with regards to semen that may have been left over from the previous ejaculation, will the first pre-ej. wash out most of the sperm? Just wondering...

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Every time. It contains a good amount of tadpoles too ! -Left over from the previous ejaculation- ? Do you mean minutes before (the prior ejac) ? Otherwise urination -flushes out them tadpoles- from earlier times. Remember that a penis is not ONLY a -funstick-, it-s also a sewage treatment pipe !

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not much, the sperm is ready when u r....

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Ejaculation and Semen color? -

Ejaculation and Semen color? -

When i ejaculate sometimes it shoots out and sometimes it just dribbles out, what causes this? and is this normal? My semen is yellowish is this normal?

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ryan
your are very normal
boys can vary in how they ejaculate one time you may shoot to your shoulder the net time th smen may just run out of your penis
it is normal
also the color and consistance of your semen can also vary each time you shoot off

you are fine
enjoy it

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Why do women feel like they-re experts on men-s issues. These two are both wrong.

Semen varies due to the different times that ejaculation occurs. If it happens often don-t expect gobs of ejaculate each time. Also, the force depends on the level of excitement.

If you want a lot of semen, also take zinc and drink lots of water and juices. Keep well-hydrated.

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yes, the dribbles out is normal, however the colour of the semen isn-t semen should be clear or a bit more white.

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you should taste it if it tastes like nothing you have a problem

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oh wow ive nvr heard of that b4,,,im sure its nothing serious just werid

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Premature ejaculation? -

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Hey guys! wats the best cure for premature ejaculation? Are there any exercises advised? Serious answers plz

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The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation

Ejaculation master is the web-s most popular ejaculation control program


http://www.EjaculationSecret.com


Hope it helps

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Exercise To Cure Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…

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If you are over 18, go talk to a urologist. If you are under 18, start masturbating more often.

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how old are you?try to do a sport or hang out with friends more.

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What is a prostate induced ejaculation? and is it real? -

What is a prostate induced ejaculation? and is it real? -

The most likely to work are various sex toys intended for guys which basically simulate anal sex and press on the prostate. Never tried them and have seen various results posted from users, but quite a lot seem to do the trick as that-s about as close as guys get to a g-spot.

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yes very real,and its great for him and his partner its when you insert something in his anus to bring him to climax like never before

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ejaculation can occur when stimulating the penis, testicles or the prostate. as u probably know, the prostate gland is in the area between ur scrotum and anus and lots of men like to touch that area either outside or from inside lol and yes it is real. apparenlty it gives a much more intense orgasm.

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Very real Johnny! It is one of the most intense orgasm I have ever had. Luck for me, I can access my prostrate from just outside my anus with slow lite preasure till I relax. But many need to basically perform a -loving- Prostrate exam, (my female doc actually made me shoot during a prostrate exam). During sexual intercourse a gal will send you thru the roof if she is not shy about touching the area, inside you or out! Truly a wonderful male experience if the gal will step up and massage you thru the loving!

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Ejaculation Question...? -

Ejaculation Question...? -

ok in the past three or four weeks i have noticed that when i ejaculate i starting to shoot out *** and not have it just leak out. i don-t even have to take my time and it still shoots out. is this normal for a 13 year old?

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yes it-s normal and much more fun too huh?

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Sounds like yur growing into an adult! When it just dribbled, you had-nt produced enuff sperm to get a real good shoot yet, but now you are, so just enjoy it dood, it-s supposed to shoot out !!

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Yes, it is normal. Most guys forget the point of jacking is not to c*m but to feel like you are going to c*ming for a long time. I know old man who still jack like there 13.

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probably, expecially if your at the peak of your hormones, still to this day at 22 if i hadnt wacked it in like 4 days i could do it within 2 minutes

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its not supposed to leak out.. its supposed to shoot out
very normal.

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It-s completely normal. Don-t worry about it.
Have fun.

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it is perfectly normal.

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you-re normal...dont worry about it

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well yes.
i mean as you get older the way it comes out changes

just part of growing up

:)

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i am 58 and i still can shoot my sperm about three feet four times a day. it takes longer after the firt shot.

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no if u thirteen ur real sick go c a doctor

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What is pre-mature ejaculation? -

What is pre-mature ejaculation? -

it-s reaching orgasm before you want to, usually less then a minute into sexual activity

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A little throb the penis makes before it is ready to pop the cork
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For the big bottle of fine wine
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If and when you do feel them it you might go a little limp and she will think you petered out
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When you do just tell her the truth it never fails
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And the reason it happens is the mind of man is in need of the woman at times to a point that the mind takes control over what is really happening and
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Well I screw-s it up again the mind of man that is ha ha ha

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Cumming too fast. Make me get mad, I-ll pinch up my butt cheeks and rip your di** off!!!

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Prozac 20MG can cure Premature Ejaculation? -

Prozac 20MG can cure Premature Ejaculation? -

I am using Prozac 20 MG since 16 days, 1 cap. per day, in morning.
But still it does not show any significant effect for premature ejaculation problem.

Any idea when prozac will start showing its effect?

my family doctor is not available and i do not want to share this with any other,,,,

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Yes, it will do that, but it also may reduce your interest in Sex. Prozac typically takes around 4 weeks to reach full effect.

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I am sorry it may look a bit off topic, but pills are certainly not a good choice. You should consult your doctor before using these stuffs.

These stuffs do work initially but as time pass humans develop resistence to these chemicals and It-s reported that after using them men develop even severe cases of PE.

If you are admanent then you should consult your doctor or company only as they guide you into this, there male needs different dosage. severe needs more.

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Get off that stuff....would you rather have great sex or get addicted to this pill and commit suicide.

Come to your senses man

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l-ve been using this www.super-vir.com and the results pretty good

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Premature ejaculation is a problem that plagues up to 36 million men if it is defined as ejaculation within five minutes. It is important to recognize, however, that premature ejaculation is a subjective diagnosis and totally depends on the satisfaction of the partners.

You don-t have a premature ejaculation problem unless you frequently ejaculate before or shortly after beginning intercourse.

There are a great number of misconceptions and myths about premature ejaculation. The following are NOT typically causes of premature ejaculation:

Men are too excited to focus on bodily sensation.
Some men-s first experience with intercourse was in a tense situation where hurrying was beneficial, like in a car, and they then learned a bad habit.
Being so concerned about performance they didn-t pay attention to their own sensations
Guilt about enjoying sex or pleasure of any kind
Worrying about maintaining erections
Unresolved relationship issues
General life stress
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Causes
Through the years, many physical causes have been linked to premature ejaculation. However, there are very few medical reasons that have been documented as causing premature ejaculation.

In the early 1990s, research indicated that the pelvic muscles, specifically the muscles that surround the erectile bodies in the penis, are in a hyperactive state in men with premature ejaculation.

Further, it is known that during the ejaculation process there is increased activity of these same muscle groups. Consequently, it is likely that men who have premature ejaculation have hyperactive muscles that are already on their way toward the threshold to producing ejaculations.

Over the past few years that I have been evaluating and treating men with impotence and premature ejaculation (in excess of 3,000 men), we have noticed that men with premature ejaculation have increased sensitivity to vibration in the penis when compared to men without premature ejaculation. It is likely that premature ejaculation, at least in some men, may be due to a combination of hypersensitivity of the penis and hyperspasticity of the pelvic muscles. I should stress, though, that this is my idea and not one that’s been evaluated in controlled trials.

There is also a biochemical explanation for premature ejaculation that is showing a great deal of promise. The first hints of this came with the release of several anti-depressive medications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), the best known of these being Prozac. One common side effect of SSRIs is delayed ejaculation or even inability to ejaculate. Since serotonin in he brain is one of the molecules involved in ejaculation, this led to the idea that low serotonin levels might cause premature ejaculation. We’ll discuss this further in the treatment section.

Currently, my approach to premature ejaculation consists of a history and a physical examination specifically geared to determine the amount of sensitivity of the penis and detect any neurological problem. In many of my cases, the patient-s problem relates to hypersensitivity of the penis.

Treatment
Most cases of premature ejaculation are now treated pharmaceutically, but it’s worth briefly mentioning behavioral-training methods that were widely used in the past. Masters and Johnson developed the squeeze method decades ago, and there is also Dr. Helen Kaplan’s stop-start method. Both of these methods can and do achieve successes. Unfortunately, the results don’t appear to last. They might work for more than half of couples initially, but by three years later that number drops to 25% or less.

Drug therapy
As I noted above, delayed ejaculation is a known side effect of anti-depressive medications, especially those called SSRIs. Over the past decade, considerable experience has been gained in using them to actually treat premature ejaculation. No drug has been approved by the FDA for treating premature ejaculation, but several do help.

The most intensely studied medications have been Prozac, Paxil, Zoloft and Anafranil (a different kind of anti-depressant). Of these, Paxil seems to be the most effective. Depending on the dose, it may increase time to ejaculation from 1 minute to as long as 10 minutes. The others are also effective, although Anafranil tends to produce more side effects than the SSRIs.

The drug may be taken daily or about four hour before intercourse, although daily use is more effective. It takes one to two weeks for the daily dosing to become effective, and many men find that they can then stop the daily dose and just take the medication when they’re expecting to have intercourse.

Few of my patients mention any side effects with the SSRIS, but the recognized, if rare, effects are reduced libido, dry mouth, nervousness, nausea, diarrhea headache, drowsiness.

On the Horizon
There is a drug in the last phase of clinical trials that is designed specifically to treat premature ejaculation. Dapoxetine hydrochloride is similar to an SSRI in that it prevents the transport, rather than the reuptake, of serotonin. Its pharmacological profile, however, is much more desirable. Unlike SSRIs, dapoxetine reaches maximum concentration in the body in about an hour and is flushed from the body quickly. Thus, there’s no need for daily dosing, and it can be taken an hour before intercourse. Even at the minimum dose, it has been found to double time to ejaculation, and stronger doses bring longer delays. Initial trials also indicate that dapoxetine produces minimal side effects and doesn’t interact in bad ways with other medications or alcohol.

Johnson - Johnson submitted an application for approval for dapoxetine to the FDA in late 2004, and the FDA rejected the application in October of 2005. Johnson - Johnson says it is working to answer questions raised by the FDA and is continuing development. Pfizer is also developing its own version of dapoxetine.

Counseling
Although premature ejaculation is a common and frustrating problem, the Male Health Center had great success in treating the problem. Frequently, marital and relationship issues were an underlying cause of premature ejaculation. And in recent years, numerous studies have confirmed the negative effect that premature ejaculation can have on self-esteem and relationships. These issues should also be addressed to improve the success of the therapy.

As to treating premature ejaculation, here is a list of things that DON-T work:

* long-term psychoanalysis
* getting drunk
* using one or more condoms
* concentrating on something other than sex while having sex
* biting one-s cheek as a distraction
* frequent masturbation
* testosterone injections
* tranquilizers

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How to delay ejaculation.? -

How to delay ejaculation.? -

I am 30 yrs old, and don-t have sex till now, I want to delay my ejaculation period so that I can satisfy my future wife.ANd I want to know how come we know that girls met or got orgasm/climax?

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One simple way to prolong ejaculation is to masturbate the normal way but as you start feeling that you are about to come, stop the act. Take your hands off your penis and watch some TV or simply lay back and relax. Once your penis has lost its rigidity ad turned flaccid, you can resume the act.

Keep doing this a few 4 to 5 times and you are beginning to condition your body to prolong the whole act.

Another way is, each time you are about to climax, use thumb and forefinger to pinch gently the base of the corona or head of the penis till the urge to climax subsides.

Also, aim for erections and stimulation but do not end with ejaculation. You can play with your penis but don-t go all the way. Do this until you are able to control yourself better.

Also, apply the Kegel exercise to strengthen your pelvic and pubic muscles. You can learn about this exercise online.

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Look into edging while you masturbate. It can really help you learn to control your ejaculation.

And if a woman-s had a orgasm, you can generally tell. Changes in breathing, clenching, etc.

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Ejaculation Question? -

Ejaculation Question? -

I never thought about this until I recently read one of the answers to another question of mine but if my boyfriend likes to come on my face and chest, does that mean he doesn-t respect me? Generally I swallow, but whenever I offer up different places to go, he loves it. I never looked upon it as a sign of disrespect though. What do you guys think?

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He respects you enough to shoot his load in your face and chest. You swallow too. Women power. He has the hots for you real bad. enjoy yourself.

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marry me....

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kidding of course

For real though most guys enjoy doing that because its -naughty- or -dirty-. Has very little to do with respect and more to do with engaging in raw primative sexual acts.

It also depends on the guy. It is certainly possible one could mean to degrade a woman.

But in my book any girl willing to let me ejaculate on her (let alone swallow a load) has got to like me.

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I think you would know much better than any of us....really. We don-t know him nor his ways of how he treats you.

I think that for a woman, what you are doing is showing a deep comfort level with him. For a man, they just seem to like variety. The fact you are his -girlfriend- and not just a fling means alot. If you are the ONLY one he is doing things with and he isn-t using it as bragging rights and telling everyone about all the things you do in the bedroom, then he should NOT be a disrespectful boyfriend.

If you ever notice him sharing this information to get props from friends......you should be concerned at THAT point. Until then, don-t worry about it.

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I-m not sure what to say. I never aim in random places, which sounds like what he-s doing. I don-t think its an act of disrespect, but its probably more like an attempt to be more like an adult film star. Some kind of fantasy perhaps...

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As long as you enjoy it, how can it be disrespectful. It would be different if you didn-t like it and he pulled out and sprayed in your face anyway...now that-s disrespectful.

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most of us guys have fantasies about what we would love to do with our women, it could be just something he wants to do and he probably does respect you because you let him do it

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if a gal cums wherever a guy wants her to on his body, he wud respect her more becoz he wud be satisified more with her.

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no my boyfriend does that to me and he respects me. If you think about it, when hes doing oral sex on you, your wetness gets all over his face soooo

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No that doesnt mean he doesnt respect you its just that it may be one of his fantasy

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No

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i think that every guy wants to spit a load in a girls face
it has nothing to do with disrespect

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i think it means he watches mucho porno so he thinks it is normal. If it dosent bother you let him do it

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It is more of a domination thing.

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wtf?
are you sh!tting me?!?

where he c*ms on you doesnt meen the matter of respect he has for you!
JESUS.

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I don-t think this means that he disrespects you. Some men just like that. Especially if you offer.

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to him your really hot if he could get off just looking at ya. lol

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Male cramps and painful ejaculation? -

Male cramps and painful ejaculation? -

earlier i was having bad cramps it usually happens when i have to poop :) then when i do that they get a little better but they hurt so bad that i could barely get out of the shower and tonight when i ejaculated it was kinda painful in my penis and i had some trouble keeping it erect which never happens what could this be? im only 16 by the way

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Sounds like pain in abdomen traveled and you felt it in your penis. I don-t think it has to do with your penis, sounds like digestion stuff.

Do you eat 3-4 times a day and drink enough water? Do you poop twice a day? Listen to your body when you have to go, don-t hold it in.

If the pain isn-t related to pooping and it hurt so bad you could hardly get out of shower then you need to see a doctor about this. Pain in the abdomen is hard to determine, I doubt we could guess it online.

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Well, it-s ether u have a appendicitis like i did, or something else. I advise you seek a doctor.

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Go see a doctor QUICK!

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my ejaculatory emission is colored mustard yellow whats wrong

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The little alien wiener is throwing up.

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It means you have eatten to many lollipops, or have been drinking too much coke.

The dyes in that kind of stuff change my pee to rainbow sherbet, to my ejaculatory mess, into the rocky road brown.

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thats gods way of telling you...you are a genetic dead end...

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Do rubberbands around the base cure premature ejaculation? -

Do rubberbands around the base cure premature ejaculation? -

yes, but i wouldnt do it, just let it happen, rubberbads (and this is just my opinion) might cause some damage

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Yes

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yes

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Haha very random question! Ejaculation?? -

Haha very random question! Ejaculation?? -

I know this sounds stupid but how can a girl tell if a boy has ejaculated? Like when using the pull out method, how do you know he is telling the truth? (ik pre-*** and that) But yeah?

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Ask him. If you can-t trust him, why be with him?

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Good question-bad method of birth control. I -edge-, been doing it for -years-. It-s where a male goes almost to orgasm and then stops, He then will allow his semen to flow out but there-s no orgasm. I can do it like5-6-7-8 times and it causes sexual relations to go for hours. It really feels great and REALLY empties out the pipes. So if he knows how-you really do not feel much pulsing of his shaft since the semen just flows, no muscular contraction as with an orgasm.

And the penis is always allowing semen-SPERM to leave the penis and into the female all during the sexual act. The first sign of -pre-***- or pre-ejaculate-you stand a very good chance of getting pregnant, even if he does pull out and ejaculate the majority of his load outside your body.

Better use condoms-or can you say, -MOMMY?-.

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Pre-ejaculate fluid is crystal clear and very slippery. He can not tell when this happens. When a male has an orgasm there is semen and it is not clear but an off white color. During the orgasm the abundance of semen is much more.

What you need to do to tell the difference between the two is manually masterbate him and watch the two distinctly different fluids when you stroke him with your hands and mouth if you wish.

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Let me give you some advice. If your partner cares for you he will want to protect you and not lie or deliberately cause you harm.
A simple phrase to remember is -If its not on, its not on!-
Meaning if the condom isnt on the sex isnt on either.


Im a guy and I would never want to put my partner in that difficuls situation. If your bf doesnt want to protect you you should ditch him, and not look back. If he can lie once he can lie again.

Also the reality... Sex can be messy so if u dont mind a little mess (Trying not to sound rude or anything) just stand up... if he ejaculated some of it should just well simply come out...

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When he orgasms, he will be moaning like crazy, so you will definitely know about it. Anyway, the pull out method is not really that safe.

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Well, one thing is for sure: you can-t feel precum and precum also contains sperm so don-t let pulling out be your main source of protection.

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you can feel the fluid if the boy has ejaculated.

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When you stand up and a giant glob of semen drips out of your vagina you will know he didn-t pull out in time.

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Well, you can feel the penis throbing in you when we do it...

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Because there will be semen. It-s kinda hard to miss. Plus, I don-t know what guy would fake an orgasm.

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Short answer - don-t use the pull out method. It doesn-t work.

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i don-t think the pull out method is very effective

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A question about ejaculation...? -

If a man tries to stop ejaculation to prolong sex, is it possible that he may still ejaculate a little during and then go on to finish later?

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yes it-s possible...

use a condom if you don-t want to chance getting preggo
there-s always a little sperms that-ll leak or come out even if you-re doing the withheld method to prolong sex.

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Definitely yes! The process has started and it is very hard to stop, but with practice he can learn how to control this and know exactly when to cool off. However, he will still have precum during the act. This is used for cleaning the urethra from any bacteria or the leftovers of urine, also precum is a lubricant that is used for lubrication of the glans and foreskin during the intercourse. Depending on the person precum may or may not contain small amounts of spermatozoids, the chances of pregnancy are small but, since in theory, only one sperm is enough to get a woman pregnant there’s still a chance that the pregnancy will happen.

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No. If the semen has dropped into his urethra, then it-s going to cumm (pun intended) out. That man will know when that happens, and he won-t try to stop it if he is smart, otherwise it will be painful for him, and he won-t reach an orgasm. The way to prolong sex is to stop right when it-s feeling incredibly good, a little before the semen drops into his urethra. It-s tempting to continue, but prolonging it makes everything SO much better.
:)

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Possible not likely.

If you want him to last long, have him go to GNC and get those Stamina Rx shots and also Yohimbe pills. That way he can keep up but slow down or do what he needs to not finish.

It-s a bit like the Fed trying to balance between recession and inflation but it-s doable - you just lock in against the one and then you can control the other.

But also he needs to learn to see it as not a means building up to an end but as an enjoyable process in its own right.

I-m on for an hour and a half when that-s what we want to do. Like on - just that part.

When you last that long and you-re connected with your partner, the man starts to feel like the woman does in that, even in between Os, it-s still very good, like a high plateau. And good all over, not just in that one area - it kind of burns through you in waves.

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yea it is.. during intercourse or any stimulation for that matter there is still a tiny discharge of semen referred to as pre-***. and yes it is possible to get pregnant from it.

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Yes, entirely possible.

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definitely possible, has happened to me plenty of times

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Yes.

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Yep! Could happen!

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yes

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yes, yes it is. i have gotten 6 in one night b4

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Seeking Urologists advice or someone knowledgeable or experienced with overcoming premature ejaculation.? -

Seeking Urologists advice or someone knowledgeable or experienced with overcoming premature ejaculation.? -

Hello. I-ve had a problem for over 10 years now which is premature ejaculation. I have yet to learn how to overcome this problem. I-ve seen my doctor about it, he did a full check up and tells me I am healthy as a horse. It-s not only with sexual encounters but also when practicing with myself where I-m not able to contain myself for more than several minutes. Regarding my lifestyle, I have lacked exercise (including poor cardio), eat a very poor diet of mostly fast food and processed foods, would smoke very frequently, may have even experienced depression for quite some time as well. I now am conducting a full body cleanse which takes 2 weeks. Have drastically reduced smoking. Pulled myself out of depression. And lastly am eating healthier and plan to begin exercising routinely. My question is what can I do to solve this problem? For the majority of my life I-ve yearned to feel the simple pleaure that most guys take for granted. I was prescribed Viagara by my doctor but that only gives more erection but at the same short length of time. I-m not sure if this is something psychological, physical because of my poor cardio or vascular from possible clogged arteries preventing correct bloodflow to the penis? If you would be so kind to help out I-d owe you a lifetime of gratitude. Thank you so much and please help me finally become normal. I-m at the stage of my life where I want to meet a nice woman and start a family but this problem has kept me very secretive and kept me from being able to maintain a girlfriend. Thanks

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Good Luck and Congrats for getting healthy!

I found an article on a site that I like that may help.


http://www.holisticwisdom.com/article_se��

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Help ! How to overcome pre ejaculation ? -

Help ! How to overcome pre ejaculation ? -

Techniques to Prevent Premature Ejaculation

1. Self Distraction to prevent premature ejaculation
If your arousal levels are getting too high and a climax is beginning, take a deep breath and think about something else, something very boring if possible. When you are less aroused but maintaining an erection you can then continue.

2.Stop and Start Method for premature ejaculation
If you find yourself nearing climax withdraw your penis from your partner and allow yourself to relax enough to prevent ejaculation. By starting and stopping sexual stimulation you can learn to prolong the sex act.

3.Squeeze Methods can help prevent premature ejaculation
This method involves either the man or his partner squeezing (fairly firmly) the end or the tip of the penis for 10 to 20 seconds when ejaculation is imminent, withholding stimulation for about 30 seconds, then continuing stimulation. This can be repeated until ejaculation is desired. The stop and start method can be used with the squeeze method as well.

4.Desensitizing Creams for premature ejaculation
Creams can be used to desensitize the end of the penis. They act like a local or tropical anesthetic. Thicker condoms (or two condoms) can also desensitize by decreasing sensitivity and therefore stimulation, thus prolonging the sexual act.

5.More Foreplay prevents premature ejaculation
Stimulate your partner to a state of high arousal before you have your genitals touched, that way ejaculation and orgasm can be achieved about the same time.

6.Masturbation to prevent premature ejaculation
Practice different methods by yourself. Getting to know your feelings and sensations gives you the chance to gain confidence.

Remember getting good at sex and overcoming premature ejaculation can take a bit of time. Practice makes perfect. If you find that things are not improving then help is available from sex therapists who are experts in this field.

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First, do lot of exercise especially swimming.

Count the number of penetration. If you ejaculate at 100, next time stop at 75 relax continue for another 75. Dont wait till you are near ejaculation. Keep the penis inside all the time. It worked for me, will work for you.

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Are you wearing a condom while having intercourse? That might help. There are some -delay- creams you can get at an adult shop that might help. They more or less desensitize the penis, but will wear off in about 10 minutes, giving you time to have intercourse.

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take viagra

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you mean premature ejaculation?

you masturbate several hours before you have sex

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If you-re talking about premature ejaculation, you practice many times by masturbating until you are almost ready to ***. Then you stop touching it for 30 seconds or so. Practice doing this several times before you blow your load. That will help you learn to control when you ejaculate better.
Good luck!

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Ejaculation Problems? -

Ejaculation Problems? -

I-m 14 and I-ve been having problems ejaculating for about a year now. I can reach an orgasm but I just can-t let out the semen. I-m not trying to hold it in but my penis automatically resists ejaculating. Even when I have nocturnal emissions the semen has a hard time coming out. After wards my urine is cloudy with semen. I have been reading about retrograde ejaculation and I am really starting to worry that it is the case. Is it even possible to have retrograde ejaculation at my age?

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Dear Bob:
I read your question and I really feel for you. having problems ejaculating can be very stressfull and scary, especially at 14 yrs. old. Usually the reasons for not being able to expel semen after reaching orgasm either through intercourse or manual stimulation is #1 phychological ( stress or anxiety in one-s life causing the problem ) or #2 as a side affect of a medication you might be taking.

If you don-t think it is stress or a side affect of a medication then it would be an actual physical problem and all physical problems with ejaculation needs to be seen by a doctor right away to figure out why your ejaculation is delayed. Even if you think it may be retrograde ejaculation you should still see a doctor due to your young age. You still have a full life ahead of you and it may be something he/she can fix.

Take a good inventory of yourself. Make sure that it is not caused by stress in your life ( like fear of being caught masturbating, sexual inadequacy, feelings of guilt during masturbation, etc....). If it is not that and you are not taking any medication then get to a doctor and get checked out. Don-t be scared cause this is more common then you think. It is not wrong or crazy that you masturbate, it is a normal part of growing up and exploring and learning about your body. Talk with someone you trust like your parents, and if you don-t feel right talking to them, find someone you can trust to talk to so they can help you bring it up to them.

Cause of your young age you will need them or another adult family member to get you to a doctor so you can get checked. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you and I would be scared as well if I had this happen to me at 14 but don-t worry. It will all work out. Feel free to e-mail me at mwalker63@hotmail.com if you have any more questions. I hope I was of some help. God bless you and good luck........ Mike

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Try waiting a week between. It is possible that you have worn yourself down. Retrograde usually occurs when you have had a surgery or trauma to the urethra. It may also be possible that your body is not fully grown and it will change as you get a little older. Good luck.

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Can be that you are a bit to young to really c@m already.When you masturbate:all part of puberty.
Soon you will come like every body else
Colors

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if its a long term problem then maybe you should go and see your GP and also try not to stress about it while your masturbating as your likely not to ejaculate because your stressing to much.

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Why are you trying to ejaculate at 13? Don-t wack off so much... when you get a girl you may not even be able to get it up....

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Like Hank Hill..you may have a narrow Urethra

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