What do you do when your partner has premature ejaculation? -
Just recently, Ive started having sex with this guy who I completely suspect has premature ejactulation because during the first time we had sex, he came right as he put on the condom. Then, we waited till he got hard again and came in about 4 minutes.Then, during the second time we had sex, he ejactulated before his boxers even came off.
I had to ask him: does this happen with all the girls he-s been with? He said yes but supposidly he used to have more consistant sex and not just once in while.
Is there a way to make him last longer?
Give him a bj before sex.
You need to talk more with him about it. One thing to try would be for him to masturbate (or you do him) before even attempting sex. Then relax for awhile before having sex. It will take a little longer for him to get hard and ejaculate then, and give you more time to enjoy it. The longer a boy goes without an orgasm, the quicker he will ejacuate when having sex. Try that, and good luck!
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Yes there is. But you-re going to have to take complete control of the situation unless he-s willing to dramatically change the way he approaches love-making.
He needs to take small, incremental steps up the arousal ladder, giving himself very tiny bits of pleasure. He has to re-learn and re-form his sexual response tendencies.
This could take a long time, not only during each session, but over the course of several weeks or months. You-ll both need patience. And, remember, not every session has to culminate in his reaching the ultimate release. In fact, it might be a good idea for him to -deprive- himself a climax every so often.
I must say it doesn-t sound too promising for you or him. I would try it a couple more times before jumping to any conclusions though. Just be supportive and don-t make a big deal about it so that he doesn-t feel like he-s under lots of pressure to perform.
If it does happen a couple more times and you are really serious about the relationship, ask him how he would feel about talking to a doctor about it. If sex is really important to you (I know some people will say it shouldnt matter, however it is more important to some than others) then he either should take some action, or you should consider saying goodbye.
As long as he is happy to take action then I would be fully supportive.
Have him masturbate before you have sex. :)
Cannot answer as you did not give your age.