Hi, Im 17 years old and sexually active. The only problem is a huge one. I think i have premature ejaculation. -

Hi, Im 17 years old and sexually active. The only problem is a huge one. I think i have premature ejaculation. -

Its pretty bad, like I come in a matter of few seconds, i tried climax control condoms but it does not work. Its not only embarrassing but depressing and its very hard to live life by because of thinking of the future. Also when i come, its a very weak ejaculation and it doesnt shoot out just kind of drips out. This is a very serious matter for me so please help!

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No. 1 answer. KEGEL EXERCISES

it worked great for me. you have to do it though, no other way, your mind is way too variable. Thinking about screwing your dead grandma while you-re doing your girl doesn-t work like you want it too.

Download and read the pdf, it-s an actual book!


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It sounds like you are overly sensitive.This is going to sound silly, but masturbate often and use a -realistic- toy instead of you hand. While you are masturbating using the toy, try thinking about something other than the sensation. To prolong ejaculation, gently but firmly pull your testicles away from your body. As you feel yourself getting close to ejaculation, try to hold back (clenching you sphincter helps). Once you-ve held back for a few seconds, then release. Each time you do this, you should try to hold it for longer periods of time before your release.

Over time this will improve your sex life.

Hope this helps.

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It-s okay, you-ll get used to it. Your Parents must be Republicans.

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I think you need to quit worrying and stressing about it so much. Maybe if you tried to relaxing it would help your situation.

As far as your sperm -shooting- out, don-t try to compare yourself to porno dudes. You-ll never live up to that.

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stop masterbating

Hi, Im 17 years old and sexually active. The only problem is a huge one. I think i have premature ejaculation. -

Aching Penis after ejaculation? -

Aching Penis after ejaculation? -

My male friend isnt able to get an erect penis after he ejaculates because his penis aches, and if he were to withstand the aching he wouldnt physically be able to ejaculate again, does he need to see a doctor, has anyone else had the same problem? He also suffers from premature ejaculation. Please no wise cracks this guy needs some help, he-s too embarressed to ask himself x

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The penis automatically becomes flaccid (in most cases) after ejaculation and often -tender- feeling. Usually it would be uncomfortable and sometimes painful to continue stimulation until the refractory period is completed. If the male has been circumcised too tightly (that is to say too much skin has been removed), it may heighten friction and pain from stretching during the erect stage which might not become noticeable until the post-ejaculation period. It is also possible for the testicles to -ache- after ejaculation particularly if the male hadn-t ejaculated previously for a long time prior (a condition commonly refered to as -blue balls-). However, if your friend thinks something might be wrong, I-d suggest he sees a urologist, who can more accurately determine whether it-s nothing, or something to worry about.

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go see a doctor

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yea right, and you are really his friend asking his question . . . like anyone believes you. it is you who has this problem! Get that surgery called -addadicktome-

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i think he should see a doc

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that doesn-t really sounds like premature ejaculation but more like a sort of penile dysfunction known as priaprism i think your friend needs to consult with a physician to get a treatment

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From the net
The most common cause of these complaints is an inflammation of the prostate gland, so called prostatitis. Symptoms that might occur with prostatitis include frequency of urination, slowing of the urinary stream, burning with voiding or ejaculation, burning in the penile tip unrelated to voiding, sexual dysfunction (such as difficulty with erection), aching in the penis, testicles, and discomfort in the lower abdomen, low back, groin, rectum or perineum (the area between the scrotum and rectum – betwixt the “wind and the rain”). The passage of blood at the initiation or termination of urination or in the semen can also be noted. During sexual arousal the prostate gland manufactures fluid that accounts for about 2/3 of the volume of ejaculate. The seminal vesicles are paired structures located behind the prostate gland that also manufacture fluid. Sperm from the testicles (which account for only 1-2% of the semen) travel up a series of tubes (epididymis and vas deferens) on each side to join the seminal vesicles forming the paired ejaculatory ducts. These structures empty into the prostatic portion of the urethra. At the time of ejaculation, prostatic fluid is discharged into the urethra (urinary canal) where it mixes with discharge from the ejaculatory ducts forming the semen. The semen volume is in the 2-6 cc range. It is not uncommon for inflammation and/or infection to spread in a retrograde manner into the vas and epididymis. Even without such spread, prostatic discomfort is?often referred into the testicle. Too frequent or too infrequent ejaculation, sexual arousal without ejaculation, withdraw at the time of ejaculation, aggressive bike or horse back riding, and excessive spicy foods, alcohol, and caffeine in the diet can predispose you to this. Sitting for long periods of time, especially in an automotive vehicle, can put undo pressure on the prostate and aggravate the condition. For the latter, it is best not to sit more than 2-3 hours at a time. Stop the vehicle periodically, take a short walk and go to the bathroom to urinate. A thick pad or piece of sponge rubber on your seat will also help to cushion the prostate. One should avoid any of the above that apply. Eliminating all of the factors that apply to you are just as important, if not more so, than taking medication! Ejaculation beyond the tolerance of the prostate to fill and empty may also cause discomfort. Likewise if one does so infrequently, fluid still builds up from thoughts, dreams, fantasies, etc. and has to be released periodically to decompress the gland and relieve the symptoms. For most men, ejaculation in moderation, perhaps 1-2 times a week, is reasonable. A daily warm bath for 10-15 minutes 1-2 times daily also lessens the discomfort. Attention to sexual activity and warm bathes should be utilized regardless of the type of prostatitis and whether or not medications are prescribed!
There are several types of prostatitis. Sometimes prostatitis can be due to an infection of the gland with bacteria. This usually requires an initial 4 week course of an appropriate antibiotic (the commonest prescribed are the fluoroquinolones, but tetracyclines, sulfas and other agents can also work). Typically, pus cells and bacteria are found in the prostatic fluid.
Abacterial prostatitis has several varieties. In one, the prostatic fluid demonstrates pus cells but no bacteria. In the other, called prostadynia, there are neither pus cells nor bacteria in the fluid, just the symptoms. In all types of prostatitis, the urinalysis generally is normal unless the infection spreads into the bladder. Abacterial prostatitis usually responds to the general measures mentioned above. Medications that sometimes help include the over-the-counter natural supplement saw palmetto 320 mgm daily and alpha-blockers (such as Flomax, Hytrin, Cardura - Uroxatral). The latter require a prescription from you physician if he thinks it is indicated. Prostatitis may also be classified as acute (severe), subacute (mild), or asymptomatic. It may also occur as a single episode, be recurrent or chronic. Therefore, if symptoms persist, consultation with a urologist should be scheduled. In cases with recurrent prostatitis or hematuria, it sometimes is necessary to study the urinary tract.

Aching Penis after ejaculation? -

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when i get erection, my penis releases some kind of -pre-***- and then i lose my erection, why? how to solve it? it wasn-t like this at all few months back. i am 29 yrs old. the only difference now is i am more stressed in life and tired with work everyday. please help me, as i am not able to have sex with my girl.

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Hope this helps. Good luck :)
To learn ejaculatory control:


Don-t use drugs or alcohol. They-re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the -relaxation- involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It-s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn-t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you-re ready for the couples program -- if you-re in a couple. The couple approach is called the -Stop-Start Technique.- First, arrange -stop- and -start- signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the -stop- signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you-re feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the -start- signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He-s the one learning the new skill. But don-t forget the woman-s sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

Once you-ve gained good ejaculatory control with your lover-s hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

Once you-ve gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You-re making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

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Its because your thinking to much about your precum. Ok one if your able to see your precum and know when it is coming out of your penis then.....you should try sleeping with a women. trust me just her being there should be enough to keep you erection....oh she has to be attractive to you ...
oh and the other stop looking at your cock just watch porn or something.

oh and if its bad dude try viagra...man it works. my boyfriend tryed it out of fun....hahaha the dog would not sit down !!!hahaha

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why in the hell do girls awnser these damn, sick, asswipe Q-s.

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You need to seek professional consultancy. I suffer the same and it was diagnosed as what you stated -Stress-. Nothing to worry about bro.

He proscribed me B Complex and Multivitamins. I am far better.

Good luck and have a nice day.:)

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stress has a lot to do with it. You need to learn to relax before trying to perform for her. Usually the precu* shouldn-t have you going soft afterwards

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First, try to stay calm. I think I know what you-re talking about. Sometimes that happens to me, although I still have an erection. I-m young right now, and I don-t know exactly how can a man lose his strenght like that. Have you tried... mast--------? maybe you can control it that way.

But, I-ve heard somewhere that if you mast------- too much, there is a part of the man-s internal organs (one which closes pee and lets you eyaculate) that may be deteriorated due to excess mast--------. And then you eyaculate automatically without the feeling of an orgasm. Go to a doctor and tell him your problem. Maybe he-ll understand you a lot more.

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First you need to go see your Doctor, I really think it-s time for you to go on some kind of Vacation, if you can take some time off work .Don-t think of anything not even sex. Take your girlfriend out for a nice romantic dinner ( If money is a problem ) make the dinner yourself. Take a deep breath and try not to stress your self so much, life is to short for stress. Find out what the problem is with your pre-jack. Till then try pleasing your girlfriend for a while (Don-t worry so much and time will heal all) there are many ways of having sex without actually having sex . Talk to your girlfriend and tell her what is going on , talking is all ways a good thing, hope this helps. good luck !

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Try to calm down and just enjoy it.

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Many men occasionally ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like during sexual intercourse. As long as it happens infrequently, it-s probably not cause for concern. However, if you regularly ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish — usually, before intercourse begins or shortly afterward — you may have a condition known as premature ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction. In the United States, premature ejaculation affects about one in five men ages 18 to 59. Although the problem is often assumed to be psychological, biology also may play a role.

In some cases, premature ejaculation is a secondary problem related to erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate.

Numerous treatments, often used in combination, are available to improve premature ejaculation. Asphaton tables is an example of a treatment to your condition

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maybe u have std/.............. i dont know.. ask ur doctor

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Talk to your doctor...it may be that you just need to relax...but there also may be something more complicated that needs treatment...

Don-t take any chances when it comes to your health...

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Stress can wreck havoc on your sex life. And worrying about it only makes matters work. Have an open - honest talk with your gf and remember, sex doesn-t have to be solely with your penis. Your gf will appreciate the attention you give her even without the pressure of the actual act itself! Explore new ways to have some fun ;-)

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You should see a doctor... it could be stress but it is better to have a professional check you out... he may know how to hanldle it.

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well i don-t know what to tell u maybe something is wrong who-s know maybe u should go to the Doctor or something

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kitange solve u even quicker

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How to increase an ejaculation ?? -

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it is said that over sensitive penis head is the cause of premature ejaculation but my penis heard is not sensitive yet i have this embarrasing problem. someone say my body is over producing sex hormonesn and that may be the cause. can someone help me?

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Anything from sprays,pills,special condoms will never help you last longer in bed...

With the right information and training, you will indeed become a master over your ejaculatory reflex,last much longer than before, and give your woman an amazing sexual experience...

Here is a website about premature ejaculation, you can find the best way to cure premature ejaculation naturally...

http://best-premature-ejaculation-solution.blogspot.com/

I hope it can help u to end it quickly and last 30 minutes as soon as tonight...

Best wishes...

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Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual dysfunctions in men under a certain age.There are multiple methods of treatment when it comes to premature ejaculation, some of them in the form of medicines, some in the form of specialized techniques, and some in the form of herbal supplements.

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The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…

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Well it may be said = but it is still wrong. !! !!

I-m sorry to hear that yur penis head (glans) is not sensitive - bekoz it shud be.
First how old are u

Second why do u think ur premature ?

Third why is it embarrassing ?

Fourthly it is probably quite normal.

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I am 17 years old and I was wondering if it is a problem if it takes me one hour and thirty minuets to two hours to ejaculate

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If you are talking about masturbation, there could be lots of reasons.

It could be your doing it too much, or that you need find new material to think about. Or maybe you just have alot of stress going on in your life, stuff like that.

If its during sex, thats a good thing, women like men that have stamina;)

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I know what the thing is you are not hot enough, excited enough, you need to do something that is going to get you all worked up... if you are using pictures then you are using the wrong ones, if you are using your memory then again you are not picking the right one... You have to get your mind and body in tune with each other and then things will come together... We has men have to learn our bodies as well as the women-s... So that is what it is you aren-t getting Hot or worked up enough and you have to change something...

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lol.. thats good! lol that mean you will please a woman for a long time.. aint that good news for her?
for you tho.. if you are the selfish time of guy who just wanna *** and finish... bad news... i dont think its a problem

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I don-t know if you are talking about when having sex or when masturbating. It is good not to go off too soon, but I would get d*m tired if I lasted that long.

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lol good for the girl.

sux to u

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How to increase the amount of my ejaculation? -

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the more the better? i don-t think so!

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wait a few good days drink plenty of fluids and you just might get an extra squirt

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first squeeze it, then put it in a glass of milk and let go, you should get a suction effect and this will fill your love canon.

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eat healthy and reduce the number of times u ve sex

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while flacid and they boys are hanging low, gently tap the bottom of the balls over and over again. it aggrivates them to produce more, hold off ejac for a week and then look out. take zinc too

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Great increasers (up to 500%) amount of ejaculation - http://health-it.healther.info

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drink lots of water, hold off for a few days, try to make your session last as long as possible, edging as many times as possible.

not a guarantee, but these things sometimes work for me!

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Eat more raw egg whites

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Do all men cough after ejaculation and if so why? -

Do all men cough after ejaculation and if so why? -

I don-t know any men that do that. Including one that has asthma.

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Ummmmm.....No they don-t lol. I guess that just makes you unique!!! YAY!

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no.

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I don-t think so.

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Nope.

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No, i don-t...hmmm interesting...

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That is one of the weirdest things I-ve ever heard. I usually just shake and then put my pants back on.

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AHH NO................. MAYBE YOU NEED TO SEE A DR!

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I only breath from exhaustion.

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Advice on ejaculation? -

Advice on ejaculation? -

after a Little advise just lately i have had some problems ejaculating, i can get and sustain an erection no problem, i have been taking anti d;s for 6 years to help with OCD but never had this problem, i get to the point where i just cant keep going so i give up, my penis seems to be very un sensitive at the end, i have allergy problems with soap and always use a cream like savlon my gp says this could have desensitized my penis is this possible and is there anything out there that cant help as my gp also said there is nothing they can gov for ejaculation problems

thanks

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the kind of answer your looking for is available widly on the internet lol asking the quesiton on here wont get you a shorter answer that will work :P Heres a link to a site i picked up with a quick search of stop early ejaculation
http://stopearlyejaculation.com/beat-pre…
and remember your doctor is one of the best people to help you, the internet may be private but the information is not always the best.

Stay away from desens sprays tey ruin the experiance.

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I-ve had to juggle my meds around with my doctor-s help to get my sense of masculinity back. Your doctor should be able to help with this. If not, get a referral to a psychiatrist who has a reputation as a good -meds. man- and work with him on the depression and especially CNS drugs. Someone should also take a blood draw for a test from which the level of -free testosterone- can be inferred.

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Couldnt have said it better than Jeff, try seeing if there are other anti-depressant meds available, and talk to your doctor about stopping the meds PRIOR to doing so, you may need to ease off doses

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Anti-Depressants have sexual side effects. Either live with it or quit taking them.

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Is ejaculation by hands affects sex life amp; penis growth? -

Is ejaculation by hands affects sex life amp; penis growth? -

i am doing it since 3 years
now i am 17 years

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It-s a secret vice of the most dangerous kind,
masturbation or self-pollution is often taught by older boys and takes place, to quote an authority -in many of our colleges, boarding, public and private schools,- and is also indulged in by companions beneath the home roof. If it becomes habitual, generally impaired health, and often epilepsy, and total moral and physical degradation results.

Join a Gym, and workout and concentrate more on ur best health and studies. Later on you can enjoy ORGANIC - Natural stuff with your wife, i.e. God-s beautiful gift of Sex.

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I don-t understand why you are just now getting around to questioning this? No - if it feels good - do it! No harm will come to you.

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Hasn-t caused any problems for the 2 or 3 BILLION guys who practice man-s favorite pasttime.

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Your penis acts like any other muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets. The best way to increase penis size is sex. Masturbation is a close second, although nowhere near as affective.
Whether or not it affects your sex life depends on how often you do it. Do it too much and you may have trouble getting it up when you really need it. The trick is to find a good balance.

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no!!!!!!

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Uhh, no to both.

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no and no. penis growth has no relation to ejaculation by hand or otherwise.

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My partner suffers from premature ejaculation what can he/we do? -

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After I ejaculate....i cant fall asleep. I usually do it while I-m in bed, but i cant sleep for hours. is this normal or is there a problem. by the way I-m 16.

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Its completely normal, jacking in bed will keep you awake as you are excited and the hormones that are racing around your body will prevent you from falling asleep. I used to jack off twice a day once at night and once in the morning, but i also found it kept me awake. Try an alternate time like a couple of hours before you go to bed, that-s what ive done and as soon as i get into bed now, I-m gone. Your not abnormal it just the way the body works.

To the idiot a few comments above me that said to much wanking causes blindness... GET REAL! Maybe you should start wanking your tool and wake up.

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No dude i think that its normal. I too cant sleep after i Jack_Off. Don-t know why. But Tonight i found out that i don-t feel kind of not that bad, if i go pee and drink some cold water, get a second of fresh air, well i think that should help you sleep better. have FUn.

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You-re 16, so it-s most likely hormones keeping you up. I never heard of anything like that being a problem though. If it-s keeping you up, just make sure that you masturbate some other time, other than in bed.

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stop yanking your joy stick............ it causes blindness. FACT..... if you masturbate too much, it makes your eyes weak, if you do not believe me, as your DR. it causes too much eye strain..........

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I do it to fall asleep!

It-s supposed to make you sleep(y).

That is strange...

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i masterbate so i can fall asleep

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It-s suppose to release tension. Try more than once at night.

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you are weird. the solution would be to not masturbate its that simple

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Drink beer or Nyquil instead

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do it in the morning..

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How to delay ejaculation? -

Slow down and take your time, hope my answer was helpful?

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when your masturbating and you are about to come stop and flex your pc muscle for ten seconds. (the pc muscle it the muscle between your balls and anus. Next time you go pee try and stop the flow of urine mid flow. by doing this you are flexing your pc. If you can-t do it long your pc is weak but don-t stop the flow of urine all the time actually only try it a couple times. Need more info type in kegel exercises and follow them). So then start masturbating again and repeat. The 3rd time go until the bottom of your penis is tingling and you are about to come in like 2 seconds. Then Flex tight for 10 sec or longer you should be able to hold off your ejaculation if not your pc muscle is weak and you need to exercise that. But keep trying eventually you will get to were you can have multiple orgasms with no ejaculation.

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Practice, practice, practice:

1. Do kegel exercises to increase muscle control
2. Use the start/stop technique
3. Do relaxation exercises
4. Masturbate an hour or two before having intercourse
5. Increase the frequency that you have sex

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well if your having sex or masturbating, when you feel your about to reach climax, STOP! dont touch it or put it back in the Vagina if your having sex. when you feel your sperm go back in continue doing whatever you were doing and keep doing that. itz called STOP - GO. lol

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At www.jackinworld.com there are many great self-control masturbation games that-ll help delay ejaculation and result in a better overall orgasm.

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THINK. ABOUT. BASEBALL.

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dont wack off

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Think of rocks.

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Prolonging ejaculation.? -

Prolonging ejaculation.? -

How can i prolong ma ejaculation thai can enjoy sex more. When having sex i enjaculate after a very short time when i enter. i would like to take some good time and also to satisfy my wife. How can one go about it. Do i have a problem or it normal.?

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Try getting on top ( if he comes to fast ), then try different positions. You can try different types of climax control products or have him learn have to how to male multiple orgasms. You can pick up a book on the subject at any major bookstore or you can go to a couple different sites, but this one is pretty good for information http://sexuality.about.com/od/orgasms/a/malemultipleorg.htm.

This should do the Trick,
Symore

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Dealing with premature ejaculation can be very difficult for men. I know, I suffered with it for years. I know how embarrassing and frustrating the situation can be. Because of this I also know how difficult it can be for men try and do anything about it. Read on to get a few tips to get you back on the road to recovery and help you last longer.


As I mentioned I know full well how difficult a situation to be as I suffered through it myself. Many men because of pride, or any number of other reasons, and find it difficult to deal with the situation. Shame, guilt, and embarrassment can weigh heavily upon men. This is where the first tip comes in. Stop feeling bad! Do not feel like this is your fault. Since this is such a common problem men have no reason to feel bad about it. In fact the stress over worrying about this problem can make the situation even worse. This is the last thing that we need.


Here is another important tip. Be prepared to take control of the situation. Before the situation can improve you must be willing to do what is necessary to improve it. Fortunately this is one area where men are good at. We do tend to do what it takes to get stuff done. So be prepared to learn a little bit, try a few different things, and practice. Luckily, this is one area where practice could very well be extremely enjoyable. Remember when dealing with premature ejaculation you must be willing to do what is necessary to take control of the situation.

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89% of all women asked, who admitted to being unfaithful to their male partner, said that they were driven to such an act of betrayal due to their man’s poor performance in bed and in particular, his inability to last long enough to allow her to have a vaginal orgasm!

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Experienced Doctor recommends,

-They are many ways you can extend your sexual experience. Kegal exercises (the muscles located in your penis), you can get a Fleshlight (an artificial vagina, helps improve stamina and time, I could recommend the STU (stamina training unit)), or thinking about other things while have an intercourse. Think of a turn off.-

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quit thinking about your wife and make up your grocery list in your head or the things you have to buy to fix your truck. anything to keep your mind off what you are doing, if your goal is to please her. my ex could go forever!!! i asked him his secret once.

my new f*** buddy wears thicker condoms just so that he can pleasure me longer. he says it takes longer to feel the heat and friction. also the ring at the end helps control the blood flow back out of the penis to keep it erect longer.

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Kegel exercises.

You might have PE (premature ejaculation), if you suspect this you should see a doctor.

To Billy K - Your suggestion is dangerous. Rupture of the urethra can occur depending on the pressure of the semen.

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This works, but I-m not sure of its safety. Right before you-re about to ejaculate, squeeze your pee pee and stop the ejaculation. This should buy you some time. if you feel it coming on again, Repeat process and you-ll go for hours if you want.

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JO about 30 minutes before sex so you have to work it for a while to get Ejac

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Stop when you feel it, then start again.

Or you could ejactulate a few hours before then go at it.

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masturbate before s** ,
then ,wait for 5 min ,toget erc..agiain.

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Beat off befor you have sex. It-s takes more time to orgasm the second time.

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www.KegelCoach.com Swear by it.

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pop a couple viagra...

Prolonging ejaculation.? -

Men sexual health...? Question...? about ejaculation..? -

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I donno if this question iz odd or not...are guys supposed to ejaculate more of a water-like substance when they have an orgasm? isnt *** supposed to be white...? wats that watery stuff? =S does anybody have any idea wat im talking about?

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You don-t say how old you are, but I guess you-re just starting puberty. When I first started masturbating I only ejaculated a clear liquid - this is the fluid that carrys the sperm. When you start producing sperm it will become white and thicker.
Hope this helps

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pre-c*m is more watery than c*m or semen (c*m and semen=same thing)

semen is more thick and opaque... it has sperm which carries the male genes for a future possible baby...

ejaculation usually comes with orgasm and vice versa but the texture and color of semen has nothing to do with whether you had an orgasm or not

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i think your talking about -pre ***- and its like clear, watery looking but when you see that it doesn-t mean you got an orgasm, when you get it you-ll feel it and semen will *** out!

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That watery stuff is wet dream. That will come on when someone is horny.THis is thick

After reaching orgasm a guy shoots a white substance it is thin.

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depending on ur age, if u jus discovered masturbation, its suppose to be not thick. As u do it more n more, it will get thicker over time.

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it-s semen.. u r way too young to be worrying about this

mitch

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Shooting water out of your penis is a sign your body is carrying too many fluids. Semen SHOULD be a thick, orange substance. If it is any other color or texture you are taking on too much water.

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If a man eat the sparm after ejaculation whats the result? -

If a man eat the sparm after ejaculation whats the result? -

There will not be any result except you would have bitter mouth and taste will linger on for a long time. I think you like to have it.

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Hmm if you did it once that is okay, but don-t form such a habit else whenever you will feel hungry you would just masturbate and eat your own sperm

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I ve taste it . have you?
its like salty salty...
and I am not in trouble.
so no problem, just eat , suck and drink.....

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lol jerry i didn-t notice the spelling, and is there any particular reason that you would like to know this answer for?

lol -sparm-

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The result is homosexuality. Uh-oh.

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Your sick for asking LOL, its scarier that you can-t spell it either

lol dude below i dont care about the spelling but its a bit hard to not notice

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I know what happens when the man eats sperm, when he eats sparm, I have no idea.

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HI ,
It wil be SALTY in taste and nothing will happen, I heard it to be a potein . so nothing will happen

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Nothing will happen. It-s just your sperm; go ahead and eat it if you want.

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The sperms will be inside your stomach!

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Nothing. But why you ask this question

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sperms will be in ur stomach nd u may get pregnant dear
just jokking lol
nothing will happen

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My boyfriend -claims- that when he ejaculates, he shoots enough sperm to fill 1 cup of a cooking measuring cup. I completely do not believe that this is true, I-ve never seen him ***, and I *** maybe a few tablespoons which seems average. i don-t know if this will help determine anything but my penis is about 6.5-7 inches, and his is 9-9.5. Can someone tell me if this is possible?

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he just exaggerating no1 can *** that much unless u physically take their prostate out and squeeze every drop out for like an hour which yeah ouch. if he keeps sayin so tell him t prove it then u will kno for sure. have fun :)

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No, there is no way.
If you look at your own testicles, your two testicles couldn-t fill a whole cup. The only way you see a guy *** that much is artificial, like when they shoot milk into their penis or such.

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LOL! 1 cup of juice and a 9.5 inch pole? 2 possibilities:

1. That friend of yours is an elephant.
2. He is f*cking with your mind.

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It is not possible. His body especially his sac does not hold that much to be dispersed at one sitting. He is messing with you good. He might be a sprayer but not to that degree

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Tell him when the head swells, the halo fits. It-s not possible to shoot that much - ever.

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9 inches wow bet u feel embarrassed

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totally possible. i do it all the time

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NO WAY....maybe a tablespoon or so.....

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No.

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What causes retarded ejaculation for a man. Like taking about 50mins before ejaculating.? -

What causes retarded ejaculation for a man. Like taking about 50mins before ejaculating.? -

Retarded to me would be a man with control. That is all that is. My husband can go days without ejaculating. He practices Karma Sutra which if your man is looking into it, he rather please you then himself. Some men prefer not to ejaculate until the woman has been satisfied to their expectations, then please themselves. I would say you have one fine man!

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He and his wife must he having a he** of a good time.....

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don-t know but melinda does have a good advice

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Maybe if he had som e material to warm him up or a better imagination, it might speed up the process

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huh

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ok youve made me jealous. Mostly meds would do this, like some antidepressants for instance.

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Why ask? Are you having this problem?

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retarded ejaculation They have found that it tends to occur mainly in men who have been rather strictly brought up, and who are very -controlled- in their lives. Some of them have terrific ‘drive’ and detachment, and have risen almost to the top of their professions. They may have difficulty in showing emotions, and in -letting go-. Other possible causative factors which have been identified by sexologists include:



fear of causing a pregnancy


fear that the vagina is ‘dirty’


over-strict religious upbringing


latent gayness.

Lack of attraction for a partner Conditioning caused by unique or atypical masturbation patterns

Traumatic events (such as being discovered in masturbation or illicit sex, or learning one-s partner is having an affair)

What can be done for men with retarded ejaculation?

Some factors, such as anger toward the partner, may be involved; however, organic causes are sometimes present. A variety of drugs (such as Prozac, Mellaril and guanethidine) can impair ejaculation. Neurological disease such as strokes or nerve damage to the spinal cord or back may also cause a delay in or inability to ejaculate.


Unfortunately, there is no instant cure. At present, there simply aren’t any drugs that will make a man ‘come-. But there is a good chance of putting things right through counselling, provided both the man and his partner really want to cure the problem.

THe best recommended therapy is to seek counseling and work with your partmer.

You may also just be someone who has great control. This in itself is not a bad thing! The important thing is does it affest your sex life adversily? If it is not a problem, then work with it. If it is then consider counseling

REMEMBER, TO MANY WOMEN YOUR TALENT OR CURSE IS A GIFT!!!!

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I have buring during ejaculation what do that mean? -

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It means that you need to see a doctor to get tested for VD. A burning sensation either through ejaculation or urination is a red flag for several different veneral diseases.

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Hey, I-m Mike J - not you. Nah, it-s kewl. Isn-t it great to be Mike J?

Do you mean burping during ejaculation or burning?
Burping -no big deal. Blame it on the sympathetic nervous system.
Burning - you have a problem. First, stop ejaculating so much. Then see your doctor. You may have an infection or something worse.

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Sounds to me like you have an STD.. this is the most common symptom of an STD and also burning with urination. Get checked immediatly. If you have no insurance call your local health department.

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Probably a prostate infection. Very common. See your Dr.
He will give you the finger, it-s over fast, and he-ll check the discharge from your penis and view it under a microscope to check for infection. He-ll then give you a prescription for antibiotics. A lot of guys get this.

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You should go to the doctor or ask a health person for advise. It maybe nothingas long as it isn-t happening during urination. My semen is so think that it burns bad everytime i shoot my load. I also shoot much more than the average guy. This may be your only problem, buy get it check out to be on the safe side.

I-m not bragging about this its is just a fact and a side effect of having very thick sperm and shooting heavy loads each time. I have experienced this since I was 15 years old and now I am almost fifty and this still happens.

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You ate peppers on your Italian Beef before sex. Also, you should always wait one hour after eating before having sex to avoit cramps and possibly drowning.

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I have a question concerning ejaculation and sex. Its not a premature ejaculation question, much odder than it? -

I have a question concerning ejaculation and sex. Its not a premature ejaculation question, much odder than it? -

Ok, when i have sex with my girlfriend, i can ejaculate easily after a period of time. But after we finish and have like a 20 minute rest and we start to do it again, i cant ejaculate anymore until the next day.or unless i start to masturbate really quick.
suppose i was watching porn and then this is at near enough 12 at night. she comes up at like 6 in the evening the next day more or less and i wouldnt be able to come 90% of the time.
please help me =(
Is there anything wrong?any advice? please dont be mean about it, im nervous about it.
Thank you so much for reading even

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it takes time to produce more semen/sperm so this isn-t odd at all

90% of men will shoot one big load a day or maybe every 6-12 hours, once they-ve expelled it, If you masturbate or have sex very little or nothing comes outs the next time.

No man can shoot one big load after the other, your body needs to produce it, and everyone-s different, some may take an hour or two, some more.

I don-t think you have anything to worry about

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Basically, you-re body can-t produce enough semen for you to keep ejaculating loads.
But, a way to try to -refill- is to drink lots of water and get some rest.

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ok i am going to TRY to be nice, if you satisfy your gf why do you need to go for round 2?

do a better job at round one! as you get older you will realize that round 2 is not needed!

good luck

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It just takes some guys longer to recover after an orgasm . Just because you see guys in porn movies at it for hours doesn-t mean you will be able to do it too

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If it were me and I had someone I was having sex with I would stop masturbating unless I was sure I was not going to get off with the other person. Masturbation should be your backup plan for the times when your not as active with someone. Alot of people over masturbate because they are bored and then it becomes just something to do. Focus on what means something like the pleasure of another person to be intimate with instead of your hand. Stop focusing on yourself and your not being able to ejaculate twenty minutes later, instead you need to concentrate on her pleasure and make sure you-re pleasing her, who cares if you only get off once a day, you need to make sure she explodes with pleasure every chance you get so she will keep coming back for more.

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How to prevent pre-mature ejaculation for men? Is there any medicine? -

How to prevent pre-mature ejaculation for men? Is there any medicine? -

think about a ugly girl while you are really with a pretty girl - I think of the wicked witch of the west from the Wizard of OZ

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I recommend -practicing- a lot to experiment with different techniques to delay the inevitable. Find something that works for you and then work to master the technique so that you can use it during the real thing.

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My boyfriend can only last a very short time before having an orgasm. We tried Viagra to see if it would help and it helped immensely. He can last a lot longer now. Plus there is the bonus of him being able to get hard a second time in no time flat. You might want to give it a shot. Good Luck.

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There are creams that numb your monkey. Go to your local adult store. Don-t be ashamed to ask for it there, it-s not like you are going to bump into your church pastor, unless your catholic :) Also, try just having sex with ugly fat chicks for awhile, your pole will get used to not wanting to spit yogurt and then when you feel you are ready for a hot chick, just think of Oprah or someone like that when your driving it home!

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look for a sexual therapist, more than a medicine you-ll need to learn some techniques.

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have a w*ank first

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masturbate controlling ejaculation longer each time self control it feels good but lasting longer is so much more fulfilling

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find a girl friend

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Ejaculation frequency and depression? -

Ejaculation frequency and depression? -

It seems like my mood is connected to the frequency at which I ejaculate. I know ejaculation takes away lot of energy from a man. I-m 26 male and single, and it I go two weeks or so without ejaculating I-m pretty upbeat and my moods are generally good. But, if I ejaculate once or twice a day, everyday for a week or two I feel low on energy, irritable, and feel very depressed about myself and things in my life.

Anyone else dealt with something similar? Any ideas on how to respond to this? I-m very concerned about how frequent sexual activity causes me to feel depressed.

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Frequent masturbation and ejaculation (more than 4 times in one week) stimulate acetylcholine/parasympathetic nervous functions excessively, resulting in the over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin. Abundant and unusually amount of these hormones and neurotransmitters can cause the brain and adrenal glands to perform excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion and turn the brain and body functions to be extremely sympathetic. In other words, there is a big change of body chemistry when one excessively pratices masturbation.

-www.herbolove.com-

Note: Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances.

The side effects of such changes to the body include:
Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time
Lower back pain
Stress / Anxiety
Thinning hair / Hair Loss
Soft / Weak Erection
Premature Ejaculation
Eye floaters or fuzzy vision
Groin / Testicular Pain
Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone

If above symptoms are experienced, you need to restore the balance of brain-s acetylcholine / parasympathetic ratio, reduces the level of sex hormones in the body, and sedates sympathetic nervous function, or the symptoms would become worse.

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Ejaculating feels too good to be able to depress someone, there has to be another reason.

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I guess I wonder if you are ejaculating:

a. thruough masturbation
b. with a committed partner
c. with strangers, prostitutes or pick-ups
d. other

I-m not sure your depression comes from the physical act of ejaculation, but rather from the circumstances surrounding it.

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