Help Me I Have A Premature Ejaculation Problem!!? -
i ejaculate quick only during sex and thats it. why is that? and how can i fix it?
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Last Longer is:
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To learn ejaculatory control:
* Don-t use drugs or alcohol. They-re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the -relaxation- involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It-s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn-t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
There are creams on the market (found along with condoms and lubricants) that contain a mild pain killer like benzocaine which slow your system-s response - just -apply- prior to sex....
You can try to get some useful info at
http://www.treatment-premature-ejaculati…
They also has the link to good web site for this problem.
1.Bring the girl to orgasm first.
2.Spend time in foreplay.
3.Do it slowly,withdraw if you feel like ejacculating.
4.Maintain control by suspending all motion.
5.Deep thrusting at the edge of the vagina not right in.
6.A stop-start and relaxed effort.
7.Learn to relax and try practicing by mastuabation,etc.
Some people jack off before they are going to have sex.
Then they make out and use a lot of foreplay until they get aroused again.
I have had this problem for years and the reason I believe I got it was that I was a poor lover and did not know it! Most of my parters never complained and I took this as I was doing OK.
So at least your are honest to know you are quick on the trigger.
Spend some time on foreplay and then you will be ok...stay away from prostitues as they only want their money and the faster you are the better they like it..this is an honest reply as I used to visit these ladies of the night and they can build up a false sense of confidence that you are a good lover. The fact is they are laughing at you as they suckered you out of your hard earned money. Find a good women you care about and tell her your fears and if she is worth anything then she will help you with your problem. Stay away from Porn movies as this only will give a false opinion of women. Sorry most women really don-t like to see a man humiliate them in some gross disgusting way..this is just kinky sex. But who am I too judge? to each his own
Dont think about sex. Think about baseball, your favorite show, your best friend, anything.
Try Kegel exercises. If you don-t know what they are look it up it interesting. I just learned last week that Kegel exercises are more beneficial for men than women, I had never thought of men doing them. But I promise it will make you stronger, ask you girl I bet she can tell u what Kegel is
You need to see a urologist. These doctors specialize in that.
I understand it is easily treatable. It-s a VERY common problem.
Good Luck.
fashion a condom out of a crisp packet, this can be a little primitve but it should solve your prob
A great movie to watch that will be very helpful!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=…
Original Article:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/prematu…
Premature ejaculation
Introduction
Many men occasionally ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like during sexual intercourse. As long as it happens infrequently, it-s probably not cause for concern. However, if you regularly ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish — usually, before intercourse begins or shortly afterward — you may have a condition known as premature ejaculation.
Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction. In the United States, premature ejaculation affects about one in five men ages 18 to 59. Although the problem is often assumed to be psychological, biology also may play a role.
In some cases, premature ejaculation is a secondary problem related to erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate.
Numerous treatments, often used in combination, are available to improve premature ejaculation.