Ejaculation help please? -

Ejaculation help please? -

hi all,
when i -masterbate- (im 12 nearly 13) all that comes out is urine and my legs get all shaky is this normal and can i have some tips please? thanks
Joe

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continue enjoying it...in time the c*m will come haha

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When i was 11 and my friends talked about masturbating i tried it and i got an erection but nothing happened, maybe pee occasionally. Don-t rush it. The only reason that you should masturbate is if you feel horny.

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Wear condom?

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Dude, you are startin to masterbate too early.!!hehe.! first ull have the ability to get erections...and in about a year ull be able to ejaculate.its normal...happened da same way wid me :).

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Ask your mum. Oh, you don-t want to but you don-t mind asking me.

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it is just because (to be blunt) u cant. just wait until u are really in puberty then u will *** lol don-t worry be happy

ally

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that is very normal

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wait till your wet dream ahaha

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Ejaculation problem during sex? -

Ejaculation problem during sex? -

i just turned 18 and i finally lost my virginity last night. When i was having sex i stayed hard for like 3 hours but still couldn-t ***, is this normal? Its never like this when i masturbate. Me and the girl had a little liquor, but she didn-t have any problem getting an orgasm. Is there any reason behind this?

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Could be the booze. Could be nerves. All that matters is that she-ll think you-re a stud and come back for more! Welcome to the club my friend.

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It-s probably sexual stage fright. You couldn-t relax and let go because you were too aware of this other person watching you. This may go away by itself as the novelty wears off. If not, you will have to desensitize yourself by masturbating while she knows you-re doing it. First masturbate to orgasm while she-s in the other room. When you can do that easily, have her come in the room where you-re masturbating, but promise not to look at you. Next step, she DOES look at you. Then she gets closer, until she-s staring at you up close the whole time. Finally, you learn to come while she-s masturbating you.

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Congratulations my friend. on a monday no less. drinking does help with lasting longer, but not for 3 hours. If you were wearing condoms, that can effect sensitivity also. Try masturbating while wearing condoms so you can adapt to them, even though they will feel nothing alike. Could have been your nerves as well.

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Where it is situational (ok with masturbation but not with partner) it sounds psycholgical It could be ejaculatory incompetence You can read about it here

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/…

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I think that you have come up with the cure for premature ejaculation. Congratulations! Think of all the guys that are going for two minutes and game over.

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Nice work made it to the big leagues maybe try some different positions and yeah it could be the liqour

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Yeah its the booze. If your drunk believe it or not it doesnt work, our teacher told us that lol. I dont know why its vice versa for girls though

Ejaculation problem during sex? -

Ejaculation issue? -

Ejaculation issue? -

I find myself being unable to reach ejaculation while masturbating at 10 PM, I dont know why? I just keep going until I have a painful rash, and I finally reach ejaculation at 11 PM, but at any other time of the day it lasts 15 min for me to reach ejaculation while masturbating, what could be wrong?

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just a bad time prob.

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this usally means your either having a bad life and ur depressed with work or anything like that if not so see a docter

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because you-re probably wacthing the 10 o-clock news with some ugly bearded dude on, and as far as that painful rash? grab some lube!..and more power to you if you last longer at night, because it equals to longer pleasure!..

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You-re too tired to climax at that time of night???

help me please

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…

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WTF???????????????

Ejaculation issue? -

Ejaculation!!!!!!!!? -

Ejaculation!!!!!!!!? -

hi i was wondering i have a 4 inch penis but my testicles are pretty big and when i ejaculate there is allot of semen. but my girl friend doesn-t like it she says its disgusting and there is too much.. she will no longer give me oral sex!!!! is there any way to lower my sperm count?

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lucky you

it-s not the sperm its your semen that she thinks is too much
maybe if she just masturbates you instead of sucking
she can always suck you after you shoot off

lots of semen is not disgusting

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well if your girlfriend cant accept you and your bodily functions, i dont think she-s the right girl for you. if she finds sperm disgusting, then she might not be mature enough to be having [oral] sex with you. if you decide to stay with her, tell her that she doesn-t have to swallow the sperm (assuming she does so already) and if she just finds sperm and semen disgusting, she definitely wasnt ready for this sort of thing.

just try to find some way to compromise

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You can-t change your sperm count, but you can alter the amount you ejaculate by ejaculating more frequently. Try masturbating a few hours before you see your girlfriend. This will decrease the amount of semen that is available for ejaculation, and may also help you last longer, too!

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Holy **** I hope that this is a joke.

The semen comes from other structures in your body... More in your butt. Like your prostate.

Also, with a 4 incher, I-m guessing you-re about 13.

Finally, you want a high sperm count for when you want kids. Don-t go hurting yourself. Your girlfriend is an idiot for complaining about too much. I mean, seriously.

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It-s not your sperm count she-s upset about. It-s the amount of ejaculate that bothers her. Try masturbating a couple of times during the day before you plan to have any kind of sex with her.

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Sometimes depending on how horny you are, and the last time you ejaculated. But other than that, nope.

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maybe you should try drinking less water

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dont think so....

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bust one - two b4 u c her, or wear a condom

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Ejaculation Problems? -

Ejaculation Problems? -

I-m 14 and I-ve been having problems ejaculating for about a year now. I can reach an orgasm but I just can-t let out the semen. I-m not trying to hold it in but my penis automatically resists ejaculating. Even when I have nocturnal emissions the semen has a hard time coming out. After wards my urine is cloudy with semen. I have been reading about retrograde ejaculation and I am really starting to worry that it is the case. Is it even possible to have retrograde ejaculation at my age?

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Dear Bob:
I read your question and I really feel for you. having problems ejaculating can be very stressfull and scary, especially at 14 yrs. old. Usually the reasons for not being able to expel semen after reaching orgasm either through intercourse or manual stimulation is #1 phychological ( stress or anxiety in one-s life causing the problem ) or #2 as a side affect of a medication you might be taking.

If you don-t think it is stress or a side affect of a medication then it would be an actual physical problem and all physical problems with ejaculation needs to be seen by a doctor right away to figure out why your ejaculation is delayed. Even if you think it may be retrograde ejaculation you should still see a doctor due to your young age. You still have a full life ahead of you and it may be something he/she can fix.

Take a good inventory of yourself. Make sure that it is not caused by stress in your life ( like fear of being caught masturbating, sexual inadequacy, feelings of guilt during masturbation, etc....). If it is not that and you are not taking any medication then get to a doctor and get checked out. Don-t be scared cause this is more common then you think. It is not wrong or crazy that you masturbate, it is a normal part of growing up and exploring and learning about your body. Talk with someone you trust like your parents, and if you don-t feel right talking to them, find someone you can trust to talk to so they can help you bring it up to them.

Cause of your young age you will need them or another adult family member to get you to a doctor so you can get checked. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you and I would be scared as well if I had this happen to me at 14 but don-t worry. It will all work out. Feel free to e-mail me at mwalker63@hotmail.com if you have any more questions. I hope I was of some help. God bless you and good luck........ Mike

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Try waiting a week between. It is possible that you have worn yourself down. Retrograde usually occurs when you have had a surgery or trauma to the urethra. It may also be possible that your body is not fully grown and it will change as you get a little older. Good luck.

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Can be that you are a bit to young to really c@m already.When you masturbate:all part of puberty.
Soon you will come like every body else
Colors

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if its a long term problem then maybe you should go and see your GP and also try not to stress about it while your masturbating as your likely not to ejaculate because your stressing to much.

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Why are you trying to ejaculate at 13? Don-t wack off so much... when you get a girl you may not even be able to get it up....

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Like Hank Hill..you may have a narrow Urethra

Ejaculation Problems? -

Question about Ejaculation? -

Question about Ejaculation? -

My ex-s ejaculation was really acidic (like burnt my hand a lil bit whenever i touched it) and it was really really gritty. I thought it was normal (hey.. i-m a girl i don-t know these things) until i recently hooked up with a guy who has normal ejaculation that isn-t acidic and gritty. What does acidic,gritty ejaculation mean?

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It-s all about diet.What they eat makes what they send out.Alot of spices can make acidic sperm. as far as the grit thats a new one I cant explain that at all.

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Hi,
You can stop premature ejaculation by natural exercise easily , read , Christian Gudnasons- book, The Ejaculation Master book,
http://www.ejaculationmaster.net
, this guy grantees you ways that will help you have much longer sex , its just basically a few professional exercises that strengthen you ejaculation system in a few days
Hope this helps

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Has a lot to do with diet and water intake.

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It means that you made the right decision to leave your ex and move on to a normal guy.

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~I-ve never heard of this, nor have I ever come across it before. Maybe he has a STD?~

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normally ejaculate is more of alkaline than acidic. acidity might be related to many things, such as Infection any where in the tract, mixing urine due to deficient valve, trauma in the testicles... infection in the semen... sometimes high acidity might also be joined with high viscosity

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Not enough fruits, water, vegetables. Prolly ate too much junk food.

Question about Ejaculation? -

What can we do to increase recovery time between ejaculations that decrease the male refractory period? -

What can we do to increase recovery time between ejaculations that decrease the male refractory period? -

How do you decrease the male refractory period?
What can we do to increase recovery time between ejaculations that decrease the male refractory period and help us perform sexually and ejaculate again at a sooner period of time? What supplements, techniques, and exercises can we use to achieve this?

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As soon as you orgasm the head of the penis gets extremely sensitive. Rub the head at this time. It will probably be really uncomfortable, but if you do this enough then you will become used to it and it will no longer be so sensitive after orgasm. Therefore,you will be able to go again right after you orgasm the first time. As for the semen part, all i can recommend is drinking a lot of water before hand.

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you can decrease it with practice. After you ejaculate no matter how sensitive your penis is over come it mentally and keep going. After alot of practice there will be no refractory time.

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Premature Ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation? -

My ejaculation is very unpredictable and I ejaculate prematurely after anywhere inbetween 2-20 minutes. I really need ways to stop this. Does anyone know any ways guaranteed to stop it. The only things I can find on the internet have to be paid for. Someone must know something that works...

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Hey Jake: Marshel-s answer is good. Another thing that works is to j/o once and then the second time you engage in sexual activity that day it will take longer to reach orgasm. Eventually, you will be able to last longer too because it-s like you tell your brain that you want to last longer and your sex drive increases to accomodate that. Hope this makes sense. Best of luck to you. Rob R

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step by step method - you can practice in the privacy of your own home - that will permanently eliminate your premature ejaculation
check it out
www.prejaculation.zeroweb.org

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If you have been going for 20 minutes its not premature at all. If you want a solution though, put a cork in it.

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In addition to the other suggestions, I found that condoms with desensitizing solution helped quite a bit. Besides the immediate benefit, they helped me get over the mental hurdle/fear/embarrassment of PE and accustomed to having extended sex such that eventually I didn-t need to rely on them anymore. Again, use in conjunction with the other suggestions. Both Trojan and Durex sell them.

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great site


http://www.spiritual.com.au/articles/tan…

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Its simple kegels exercises. Pornstars are not born with the ability to last hours, they exercise. I had tried this and after 3 weeks i felt like i can quit my job and make full length videos.

Kegels are very easy to do, you just sit or lie down and contract your p.c muscles. This can be located when you go to pee, stop your pee midstream, do this a couple times. That is the muscles you use so when you-re lying in bed or sitting at work just do them. Hold it for about 10 seconds and relax for 5 seconds. Do this 20times every day and your sex drive will improve.

Premature Ejaculation? -

What has ejaculation got...? -

What has ejaculation got...? -

What has ejaculation got that helps prevent prostate cancer, but that urination doesn-t? If this is too obvious, then I-m really dumb, but please answer

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Appearances are that after it sets briefly sperm becomes, in a somewhat real sense - poisonous to the body. If it isn-t cleared out regularly, it harms the body - including the prostate. Likewise, having no reason for the Prostate to perform its function seems to cause damage.

Therefore, between the two things, it increases the chance of prostate cancer. *shrug*

Hermes

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Urine just flows through the tube that runs through the middle of the prostate. Ejaculation causes the prostate to perform its primary function- produce sexual fluids for the semen and that would naturally help keep it healthy by having it do its intended purpose.

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You are not really dumb. Well, you are dumb, but not really. There is a THEORY that regular ejaculation... and so on. A theory.
Why are you still dumb? Because you want answers HERE. Do a research on this. Read a lot of articles and maybe you-ll learn something. You-ll not learn much from -experts- here.

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the tube that holds your urine is connected to a different part of your body, the prostate gland is connected to the sack that holds semen so when you ejaculate it helps keep the prostate moving which keeps it healthy

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Ejaculate is made up of mostly fluid from the prostate. This prevents the prostate from being over supplied with fluid. Urination is simply emptying of the bladder

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Im a 61 yr old man and had diabetes for 12 to 14 yrs. Is it normal not to have any sperm at ejaculation? -

Im a 61 yr old man and had diabetes for 12 to 14 yrs. Is it normal not to have any sperm at ejaculation? -

Actually, I don-t think being diabetic has anything to do with it. Being 64 might - but I would consult with your Doctor to make sure. I have heard of (sorry no pun intended) -shooting blanks- - maybe - good luck.

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eeww, maybe it-s cuz you-re old?

Im a 61 yr old man and had diabetes for 12 to 14 yrs. Is it normal not to have any sperm at ejaculation? -

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

When my girlfriend and I have sex. I only last a few minutes, then i ejaculate and lose my libido HELP!!!

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I know of one technique you can try, it would be easier if there was someone to do it to you but you can probably do it yourself.
The idea is to bring yourself close to climax and then stop and apply pressure with you thumb or finger to the penis just below the glans on the underside of the shaft. This should stop orgasm. Repeat this exercise a few times per session, either during masturbation or with your girlfriend. If the two of you can talk about this then you can actually make it fun, part of your lovemaking.
Eventually you should learn to have a bit more control, and things will last longer. Have fun with it though, it`s a common problem and will not last forever.

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condoms umm i don-t know how to say thins but contact a doctor

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go to a adult store and get a ring.. it fit over the base of your thing.. and it should do the trick.. but remeber most men only last a few second to a minute.. i ask my ex sister in law that question and she was prosititue when she was young and that is what she told me

What can I do to stop pre-mature ejaculations and loss of libido? -

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

I-ve been using this technique for several months on daily basis for about 20min to 45min. I would masturbate until I am near the point of no return then stop and start again. Its very hard for me to not ejaculate during practice/masturbation, but I can make it through the session if I focus very hard. Sometimes I ejaculate a bit, but then can keep going. However I feel I am not making any progress anymore and it does not translate to longer sex in the bedroom with my partner.

When I don-t have sex for a few days, I can last maybe 30seconds. With masturbation and practice I can perhaps do 2min of light sex. Will I ever get 5 -10min of strong solid thrusting/sex? Sometimes I can last 5-10min if I wait 4-5hrs after the first short session, but my partner hates this. She wants me to perform on demand. This problem brought me so much sadness. BTW I-m 32 and start having sex at 30. The only way I can have good sex is with medication, which I don-t want to rely on anymore. I do have a bigger than normal size penis and wonder if my glands are larger than normal.
Thanks

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Stop and start won-t cure you but it will teach you how to control it, and the practice is so much fun. Your dick size doesn-t mean anything.

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Have you tried to make your pubococcygeus muscle stronger? Many men have a weak one. I know I did. Kegels might really help you. Look at
http://kegelcoach.com/
and see if it helps you too. I had lousy control but turned it around. Weak muscles don-t perform well.

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It-s all in your head, learn to control your emotions.

Your like a horse procreating. Think about it.

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damn man you really need to speak with a doctor...

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well technique can play a role. while thrusting try to stay relaxed and keep ur mind off ur partners body e.g massive ****, **** u no all dat stuff. keep ur mind of it and keep goin after u feel ur partner is fully in her orgasm and broken a sweat grabb her boobs/ **** and go crazy. this is something u ant do the first time u-ve had sex u cnt keep ur mind off her. but after a few times u should be able to block out that voice in ur mond that tells u to go madd. keep ur mind off her and keep goin. try oral with her b4 u start gives her a head start of finger her untill she the point that she squirts den stop. after dat u thrust for bout 3 min straight and they go madd.

I have problems with premature ejaculation. Will stop-and-start technique eventually fix my problem? -

HOW CAN PREMATURE EJACULATION BE STOPPED? -

HOW CAN PREMATURE EJACULATION BE STOPPED? -

CAN DRUG CURE IT? IF YES WHICH DRUG?

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No erectile dysfunction cannot be cure by any exercise like pushups and other, this is really a big problem so you have to treat it from medical product like viagra!

Viagra is used to treat the condition of erectile dysfunction in men. Erectile dysfunction is also called impotence, which is where a man is unable to keep a proper erection which is required for satisfactory sexual activity. Viagra has proved to be quite a success, where the treatment of erectile dysfunction is concerned.

Viagra works by relaxing the muscles in the erectile organ which increases the blood flow into the organ, which in turn enables a proper erection. Viagra is also called sildenafil which belongs to a group of drugs called the phosphodiesterase inhibitors. This oral prescription allows a man to lead a normal life in terms of sexual life with his partner.

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Hi
Speaking with psychologist often can be very useful. Patient can come to consult the doctor along with his partner. Specialist will help to release stress and to improve quality of sexual life.

Sexual therapy.

There are some exercises that help to learn to delay ejaculation, that can be done alone or with the partner.

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Compression method. Partner stimulates your penis with her hand until his erection. When she feels that ejaculation is coming she compresses penis head for several seconds. Erection is coming down partially. In 30 seconds partner stimulates penis again. It should be repeated several times and finally ends with ejaculation.
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Interrupter method. Partner stimulates penis until ejaculation. At this moment she stops stimulation and waits until the man cools down. Then again she starts to eat penis with her hands. It repeats until ejaculation.

Pharmacological therapy.

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Antidepressants. Drug side effect of some medicines belonging to that group (paroxetine, flouxetine) is orgasm delay. That is why they can be used on doctor’s orders to treat premature ejaculation. If those medicines do not help then doctor prescribes another type of antidepressant called clomipramine.
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Creams containing local anesthetic (for example, lidocaine) are used for many years to treat premature ejaculation. Cream application on head of penis opiates sensation and delays ejaculation. Before sex cream should be washed off to avoid its contact with woman’s genital organs.

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heres whats u need to do to stop it first u need to get used to watching alot of porn and getting used to have ur dick rubbed againt a girls *** so when ur in school act like ur squished and manuever ur way between two girls and let ur dick rub again there *** then do it for awhile then when ur gf starts dry humping u take her buy the hips and rlly fck her hoped i helped

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YOu need the opion of a doctor for that.

Im sure you will get an answer with someone messing with you like x, so go see a doctor so you dont take something that will make it go even faster!!!

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You have to learn ejaculatory control.......:)


http://www.webmd.com/sex/premature-ejacu…

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naturally beat the premature ejaculation?

WWW.PREMEJACULATION.TK

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during puberty erections happen all the time and there is no way to prevent or stop them but it will get more controllable as puberty progresses

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think about fat pigs !

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Premature ejaculation..Please respond? -

Premature ejaculation..Please respond? -

Hi All,
I had earlier submitted a question regarding premature ejaculation and got quite a few good answers. Another thing i wanna ask here is that is this problem a mental problem or a biological problem...is it only becaues of anxiety,or some emotional feeling or do i need to see a doctor for it?

I am really not able to enjoy my intimate moments with my gf because of this problem.

Waiting for your replies

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I think the first poster hinted at this strategy - make sure that she gets off first. Spend time on her. Oral, masturbation, toys - whatever it takes. Make sure she is the one who has the first orgasm, and then, when you c u m, it-s not -premature- because she has already been satisfied. Over time, you will become more desensitized and you will last longer.

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It is a combination of mental and -biological-. Your hormones are raging, so any thoughts which stimulate you are going to get you aroused. Sometimes just thinkin about sex and anticipating it will cause the premature ejaculation.

You don-t need a doctor. You just need to compensate for it by either masturbating before sex, or just busting twice during sex.

There isn-t anything wrong with you. And there probably isn-t anything you can do about it. And I-m sorry to say it will probably last several years. I-ve been this way since 14yo and I-m 19yo now with no signs of it quitting. But I-ve figured how to use it to my advantage now tho.

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It is not mental but biological problem and it is not due to anxiety but due to extra uncontrolled emotional feelings. You better to go to Herbal Doctor. Please do not visit any Allopathy doctor (English medicine).
Do not worry, you can very much enjoy what ever you want in any moments.
Note : if you are an Indian then I can suggest you to go to Dr.Yadulla at dabeerpura - Hyderabad. There are many good doctors but I knew him.

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Mental. Anxiety prevents success. Every time. Focus on HER needs and wants and giving her a great time - not to have something in return, but b.c you simply LOVE her and enjoy doing that. Then when you enter her, it won-t matter if you do ejaculate early or not.

Look up Kegel exercises and practise them to assist in controlling your orgasms better.

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You can delay ejaculation for a while by thinking of something non-sexual like your mother or grandmother. Then, as your partner catches up with you and is on the verge of coming, you can once again get back in the mood of coming yourself by thinking of something exciting like your partner-s body.

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it is a mental problem that will only increase the longer it gets not treated:see the urologist.
They have seen and heard it all before.
Sky.

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I personally feel it is something mentally causing it. If it is, it should get better the more you use it.

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refer to gynecologist immediaely !

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you should see a doctor that you can trust and talk with

Premature ejaculation..Please respond? -

Do exercise and sports help men to delay ejaculation? If yes, which kind of exercise: aerobic or anaerobic? -

Do exercise and sports help men to delay ejaculation? If yes, which kind of exercise: aerobic or anaerobic? -

The best sport to help you delay ejectulation is practice in the sport itself!!

Some guys can build stamina (if they are real quickie getties) by letting the first one go - then going at it again... until thier body gets used to waiting for a little while

Most professionals will also tell you masturbation works wonders in this area if you also use masturbation to bring yourself to the point - use your mind to help you hold back

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jogging and biking

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Walking also, specialy on green grass. Also never do maturbating, main reason for fast/quick ejaculation.

Do exercise and sports help men to delay ejaculation? If yes, which kind of exercise: aerobic or anaerobic? -

How do i overcome premature ejaculation? -

How do i overcome premature ejaculation? -

http://www.sexhealth.org/problems/premat…

go to this link

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I apologize for this being graphic, but...bring yourself to the edge - right when it-s the critical time, pinch the tip. This will delay your climax. Do this repeatedly. This will help you lengthen your time before you ejaculate.

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Here is an answer I gave a woman who-s husband had this problem:

Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.

If that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.

Hope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.

Sincerely,
Terry

You may want to extend your foreplay also, before you penetrate her. Experiment with longer or@l sex, sex toys and other things like that. Make it fun and exciting but safe for both of you. Good luck my friend. Hope I have helped you a little.

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read -completes idiots guide to amazing sex-.
help u with everything

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Relax....Relax.....Relax.....
Spend more time in foreplay...foreplay....foreplay.
Talk something else apart from sex.
Divert your mind elsewhere....

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GET IT ALL OUT. MASTURBATE UNTIL YOU GET USED TO THE FEELING. IT WON-T HURT TO. OR YOU COULD HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN. CALL THE DOCTOR AND ASK ABOUT OTHER ALTERNATIVES IF YOU DON-T WANT TO JERK OFF. MAYBE SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO GET THE FIRST ONE OUT. WHO KNOWS, THE SECOND TIME AROUND YOU MAY LAST LONGER. GOOD LUCK.

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HOW OLD ARE YOU ? 13-14?

How do i overcome premature ejaculation? -

Delaying Ejaculation? -

Delaying Ejaculation? -

How to delay ejaculation during sex?

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Change position very often and just when you feel you-re about to orgasm just slowdown a bit and start kissing !

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Try this:
The squeeze-pause technique popularized by Masters and Johnson.

* The female partner [or the man] should slowly begin stimulation and should stop as soon as he senses a feeling of excessive excitement that may lead to orgasm.
* Then, he/she should administer a firm compression of the penis with the fingers just behind the glans, pressing mainly under the penis. This should be uncomfortable but not painful.
* Stimulation then should begin again after the male has a feeling that the ejaculation is no longer imminent.
* The process should be repeated and practiced at least 10 or more times.
* Gradually, most males find this technique helps decrease the impending inevitable need to ejaculate.

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there are several things you can do. for starters go easy. changing positions frequently can also help as it gives you that quick breather. find a position that works best for you. for instance doggie style or missionary may not be the best as you are doing alot of the -work-. wearing condoms can also help desensitize. Though not very convenient you can always double up. There are also topical gels and things that can help de sensitize. and if all else fails, try to just focus on her orgasm. chances are as long as she gets to first or at the same time, the fact that you go quickly wont matter as much. you can do this by spending more time on foreplay, getting ribbed condoms or ask her what turns her on the most and focus on that.

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Try this technique. This can work in the missionary or bottom position. When you are rock solid and feel that you-re going to ejaculate, stop moving immediately, but leave your penis inside of your partner. Then ask her to move around in a circular motion. It feels great, and it-s sort of a tease because you can-t really ejaculate, but you stay hard as a rock. Resume thrusting, then back off again. Try it...it-s fun as hell.

- Stallion

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You have to slow down, or even stop humpin, like that other person said keep it in but stop to kiss or something... You have to take your time and not F*** like a rabbit... This is the time to really learn your partners body and yours too...

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ice ur balls before you have sex saw it on talk sex aith that old lady but if that doesn work i recomend smaking your nuts it will give you extra minutes probably 2-3 but hey its something

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you can-t, unless you put a tissue over the penis

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focus on something else and trick your mind.

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Guys please help me. My penis is 15cm long and im 17y/o not to mention that im a male of-course. I masturbate once or twice a week and i cant hold my ejaculate for more than 6 or 7 minutes. I-ve seen porn-stars having sex for more than 30mins. Will i be able to reach that height? Please help me cos Im not sure if i can ever satisfy a girl

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6 or 7 mins is too good for a boy of your age .there is no need to worry as both of your length and time are good.It is your personal choice whether to watch porn movies or not; masturbate or not. From a medical point of view, both of them are harmless activities. However, you should not over-do them and don’t allow them to affect your day to day activities including academic performance. Don’t feel guilty about them but please don’t become addicted to them.

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There-s no strict timing for ejaculation Whenever a man reaches orgasm before he wants to, experts agree, it-s Premature Ejaculation. Some studies have found that, For a normal couple the average time sex lasted was 7.8 minutes and For a man with PE the average time before ejaculation was 1.8 minutes, If you and your partner are happy with your two three minutes, you don-t have to consider yourself as a premature ejaculator.


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Dont worry dude its just pratice, try making a hole in your pillow or something and using that to masterbate, and hold your ejaculation a little longer each time like 30 seconds longer each time then letting it go. Soon you should be able to keep it in for a long time, I did that and now i can hold it in for like 25 minutes, and it feels really good plus you shoot out more sperm.

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Hi,

You do not have any problem of premature ejaculation. As per the medical science. The average time between erection and ejaculation is 3 to 5 minutes. The sex movies you are made by doing retakes .They are not the real sex.

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Foreplay!

Study up on what women want, how to arouse etc.

Make sure your partner is arroused before you indulge in activity that provides you with manual stimulation and you will find that 6-7 minutes is more than adequate.

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Is everything you see in a movie always real?? :)
Don-t worry. Everything is fine with you.

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whenever i hold hands with a girl, i ejaculate a tiny amount of clear fluid. its not semen and its a lot less than when i jack off. what is this fluid and how do i try to stop it?

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TMI oneswtntl

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The fluid-s street name is pre-c*m. It-s completely natural and there-s no way to get rid of it. It is produced by the bulbourethral gland in males, and its purpose is to clean away any bacteria in the male urethra and to neutralize the urethra of any left over urine. It is your body-s way of preparing for intercourse. By clearing out any remnants of urine, the -pre-c*m- prepares the urethra for sperm to travel through. The acidic natural of urine will kill sperm, so basically it just rids of any urine left.

Stop worrying about it; it-s natural and normal.

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It-s not a pre-ejaculation, it-s just pre-come.
It happens to every guy when he gets horney.
You can-t stop it, and it-s perfectly normal.

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its just you getting excited... it happens to my guy all the time, whenever he gets hard a little bit of pre *** leaks out. I love it and like to swirl it around on his head ;)

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its precum, it means you-re lubed and ready

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that-s normal. its just a natural lube, its a good thing. plus some chocks really like that stuff, gives them something to play with.

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you don-t it is natural

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can you get pregnant from pre-***??????

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It is sperm,its called pre-sperm.

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its natural it happens to me sometimes but thats when im lookin at porn and haven-t started masturbating yet

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so thats why is looks he wet himself!

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It-s a lubrication.

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you can try some kind of numbing cream for your premature ejaculation. Try Deep Heat, Tigers Balm. The low sperm problem is not so easily addressed, you might try eating more fish, drinking more water, and masterbating less often.
Hope this helps.

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Dear friend,
For ur low sperm count, u need 2 undergo further investigations after consultation with a surgeon/urologist. Varicocoele is a common cause of low sperm count., can be treated surgically .
Premature ejaculation can be treated by counselling,local application of lignocaine gel2% , - most importantly, take it easy!!! relax - take deep breaths just before climaxing.

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These are two different problems.
For low sperms.
First go and see a urologist. Cut down on smoking, alcohol. Wear loose fitting undergarments/pants. Stop taking hot baths.Start morning walks, take lots of fresh fruit and greens.
Premature ejaculation
Its a psychological problem.Improve your self confidence, built rapport with your partner, take it easy. Meet a sex therapist.

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Going from briefs to boxers.

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There are many treatments. You can find a whole list of them at
http://www.cureprematureejaculation.org
You should be carefull of some of the treatments though. If in any doubt contact your doctor.

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Ther are some ayurvedic herbal products to delay the ejaculation and increase the sperm count.

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consult a urologist.

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Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

About 5 days ago I was masturbating and when I came, nothing came out. It felt normal, except for a possible tightening pain I can-t explain. Afterwards for the next 2-3 hours I was uncapable of urinating. No dribbling, no nothing. I had the urge to go, but nothing. I understand that it can take time for the body to switch back to peeing mode, but this long?

I am 20 years old
I have -primary bladder neck obstruction-
I take Terazosin (5mg)
I go to a urologist, but I figured this may be a cheaper way to clear my mind?


Can anyone explain why no seaman came out (I hadn-t masturbated for 4 days previously)? And why I wasn-t able to pee for many irritating hours afterwards?

If anyone can, I-ll be incredibly greatful.

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yes it sounds like retrograde ejaculation. you need to see a urologist !

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Call your urologist !
If it is something you need to see him about, he will tell you.
If it is not a problem, he will tell you that too.
You should not get charged for a quickie consultation like that.

Better to ask your urologist than people here, as the urologist is trained, actually knows what he-s talking about, won-t try to bullsh!t you for laughs, and knows the particulars of your specific case.

Googling, I find out that Terazosin is used to control premature ejaculation, so it could cause someone not having that problem to stay clenched enough to cause retrograde ejaculation [where your load backs up into your bladder].

See also
http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSI…

from which I quote:
-Retrograde ejaculation has several possible causes, including:
* Side effects of medication — Certain medications can interfere with the function of nerves that control the muscles involved in ejaculation. They include:
*** [a few other drug classes here]
* Drugs for treating prostate enlargement — tamsulosin (Flomax) or terazosin (Cardura)-

And lower down:
-Treatment

Most men who have retrograde ejaculation do not need specific treatment. If the condition is a side effect of medication, your doctor may be able to switch you to a different drug that does not cause the problem. In other men, all that is needed is reassurance that retrograde ejaculation is not a serious medical problem and that it is not a sign of a serious condition such as cancer.

In some men, retrograde ejaculation requires treatment because it interferes with fertility. This treatment varies depending on the cause. If your retrograde ejaculation is a side effect of medication, your doctor probably will switch you to a drug that does not affect ejaculation.-

But the above do not explain inability to urinate, so call your urologist.

Your urologist should perhaps have told you this was possible, or the information that came with your pills should have [did you read it ?].

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Sounds like Retrograde Ejaculation. Do a google search and see.

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

About 5 days ago I was masturbating and when I came, nothing came out. It felt normal, except for a possible tightening pain I can-t explain. Afterwards for the next 2-3 hours I was uncapable of urinating. No dribbling, no nothing. I had the urge to go, but nothing. I understand that it can take time for the body to switch back to peeing mode, but this long?

I am 20 years old
I have -primary bladder neck obstruction-
I take Terazosin (5mg)
I go to a urologist, but I figured this may be a cheaper way to clear my mind?


Can anyone explain why no seaman came out (I hadn-t masturbated for 4 days previously)? And why I wasn-t able to pee for many irritating hours afterwards?

If anyone can, I-ll be incredibly greatful.

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yes it sounds like retrograde ejaculation. you need to see a urologist !

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Call your urologist !
If it is something you need to see him about, he will tell you.
If it is not a problem, he will tell you that too.
You should not get charged for a quickie consultation like that.

Better to ask your urologist than people here, as the urologist is trained, actually knows what he-s talking about, won-t try to bullsh!t you for laughs, and knows the particulars of your specific case.

Googling, I find out that Terazosin is used to control premature ejaculation, so it could cause someone not having that problem to stay clenched enough to cause retrograde ejaculation [where your load backs up into your bladder].

See also
http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSI…

from which I quote:
-Retrograde ejaculation has several possible causes, including:
* Side effects of medication — Certain medications can interfere with the function of nerves that control the muscles involved in ejaculation. They include:
*** [a few other drug classes here]
* Drugs for treating prostate enlargement — tamsulosin (Flomax) or terazosin (Cardura)-

And lower down:
-Treatment

Most men who have retrograde ejaculation do not need specific treatment. If the condition is a side effect of medication, your doctor may be able to switch you to a different drug that does not cause the problem. In other men, all that is needed is reassurance that retrograde ejaculation is not a serious medical problem and that it is not a sign of a serious condition such as cancer.

In some men, retrograde ejaculation requires treatment because it interferes with fertility. This treatment varies depending on the cause. If your retrograde ejaculation is a side effect of medication, your doctor probably will switch you to a drug that does not affect ejaculation.-

But the above do not explain inability to urinate, so call your urologist.

Your urologist should perhaps have told you this was possible, or the information that came with your pills should have [did you read it ?].

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Sounds like Retrograde Ejaculation. Do a google search and see.

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

Question concerning ejaculation and urological health? -

About 5 days ago I was masturbating and when I came, nothing came out. It felt normal, except for a possible tightening pain I can-t explain. Afterwards for the next 2-3 hours I was uncapable of urinating. No dribbling, no nothing. I had the urge to go, but nothing. I understand that it can take time for the body to switch back to peeing mode, but this long?

I am 20 years old
I have -primary bladder neck obstruction-
I take Terazosin (5mg)
I go to a urologist, but I figured this may be a cheaper way to clear my mind?


Can anyone explain why no seaman came out (I hadn-t masturbated for 4 days previously)? And why I wasn-t able to pee for many irritating hours afterwards?

If anyone can, I-ll be incredibly greatful.

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yes it sounds like retrograde ejaculation. you need to see a urologist !

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Call your urologist !
If it is something you need to see him about, he will tell you.
If it is not a problem, he will tell you that too.
You should not get charged for a quickie consultation like that.

Better to ask your urologist than people here, as the urologist is trained, actually knows what he-s talking about, won-t try to bullsh!t you for laughs, and knows the particulars of your specific case.

Googling, I find out that Terazosin is used to control premature ejaculation, so it could cause someone not having that problem to stay clenched enough to cause retrograde ejaculation [where your load backs up into your bladder].

See also
http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSI��

from which I quote:
-Retrograde ejaculation has several possible causes, including:
* Side effects of medication �� Certain medications can interfere with the function of nerves that control the muscles involved in ejaculation. They include:
*** [a few other drug classes here]
* Drugs for treating prostate enlargement �� tamsulosin (Flomax) or terazosin (Cardura)-

And lower down:
-Treatment

Most men who have retrograde ejaculation do not need specific treatment. If the condition is a side effect of medication, your doctor may be able to switch you to a different drug that does not cause the problem. In other men, all that is needed is reassurance that retrograde ejaculation is not a serious medical problem and that it is not a sign of a serious condition such as cancer.

In some men, retrograde ejaculation requires treatment because it interferes with fertility. This treatment varies depending on the cause. If your retrograde ejaculation is a side effect of medication, your doctor probably will switch you to a drug that does not affect ejaculation.-

But the above do not explain inability to urinate, so call your urologist.

Your urologist should perhaps have told you this was possible, or the information that came with your pills should have [did you read it ?].

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Sounds like Retrograde Ejaculation. Do a google search and see.

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How can i increase my ejaculation amount? -

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well, how?

any special foods or drinks?

certian health pills, vitimans, minerals to take?

and ps: foods= just normal stuff to eat to increase it all

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the vitamin zinc! it will make your loads HUGE!

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According to Joy of Sex, if you want to increase the volume of your ejaculate, you should masturbate nearly to orgasm, and then stop. Wait approximately half hour and then engage in sex to orgasm. This supposedly will increase the volume.

While drinking lots of water will increase the volume of urine, I seriously doubt if it will increase your volume of ejaculate.

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water. lots of water.

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Ask the porn star Peter North.

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Hi im 16 and im currently in high school.

I have a problem with premature ejaculation, I -discharge- at the most random occasions, sometimes I don-t even notice it till I stand up and notice how wet I am, or randomly smell it when I-m sitting down, I never told anybody about this problem because I-m so embarrassed.

If I can-t sit still without ejaculating how the hell am i meant to get close to sex?

It happens about 6 to 8 times a month, generally in the morning.

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When I was a teenager that happened to me. Don-t worry. It-s normal.
Your body has alot of male hormones flowing which make you very sexually loaded. That is a good thing. But maybe a little inconvenient.
Take the advise the others have given you here. You also might try masterbating every morning to reduce your bodies need to clear out your sexual system. Some guys beat off in the bathroom stall during the day to satisfy the system. But don-t worry. You-re normal.

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it is normal for a man to ejaculate quickly the first time he has sex
It is also normal if a man hasn’t ejaculated for a long time. The occasional loss of control doesn’t mean the man has a sexual problem.

Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

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dude, perfectly normal. This happens to some teens more than others, but it-s normal. No worries, and if you-re worried about having stains or wet spots, then bring an extra pair of boxer/pants and throw them in your locker. It-s really no big deal and part of the process of growing up. Happens to all of us.

at 16 you shouldn-t be worried about *******. Yet, when I was 16 that is all I wanted to do. Best bet, use a condom, make sure she-s on the pill and when that is all said and done, when you know you-re going to go **** her or whatever, go jerk off in the bathroom real quick. This will help prolong the process.

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Do you ejaculate without erection?
Are you always aroused all the times, watching porn or sex movies?

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HOW ABOUT TELLING MOM AND DAD SO YOU CAN GO TO SEE A DOCTOR.

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How can i overcome premature ejaculation? -

How can i overcome premature ejaculation? -

If you put premature ejaculation into the yahoo Search for questions box you will find a vast supply of answers to this question (approx 2,043)...and lots of info..good luck.b

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Check with your doctor and here is a website address

http://www.pe-information.com/?gclid=COy…

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Think about baseball or the Ricola commercial with the large hairy men in the sauna.

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Seduction , wet dreams and ejaculation? -

Seduction , wet dreams and ejaculation? -

hello everyone. i am 17 yrs old male. i used to kiss and smooch my gf becoz i used to love her. in this process i ejaculated . but after sometimes that ejaculated started hurting me in my testis . so i had a break off. but after break off i had wet dreams which were regular . how can i reduce it ? wet dreams also cause pain . i am 17 yrs old male.i want to stop that pain .

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Consult your doctor. You need professional help.

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have u tried havin manually inspectin ur testes?try palpating it before and after a warm bath in a standing position with one leg on top of a toilet bowl for exmple..then feel if it does feel spongy or not(since your feelin pain) consult professional help.Godbless

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I-ve been having this problem from long time, because of which I-m not able to give good pleasure to my wife. I-ve been married from last 1-half yr. She is very understanding and cares about me. Please advice is there-s any medicine or remedy which I can do to improve my longetivity. Many thanks in advance.

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Some sex researchers define PE as occurring if the man ejaculates before his partner achieves orgasm while others define as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners. Under this consideration, Early Ejaculation is the most common sexual problem in men, affecting 77% of men. Some study let suppose a genetic link to certain forms of premature ejaculation also if Psychological factors also commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy. Depending on severity, premature ejaculation symptoms can be significantly reduced. In mundane cases, treatments are focused on gradually training and improving mental habituation to sex and physical development of stimulation control. In clinical cases, various medications are being trialled to help slow down the speed of the arousal response. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI) antidepressants have been shown to delay ejaculation in men treated for different psychiatry disorders. Therefore, the study about those antidepressants still is in progress. Around there are some methods to control PE as to have longer foreplay and stop sexual act at the point when the man first feels he is about to ejaculate, usually within the two minute point, he, and his partner pauses with intercourse completely.

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You have two choices:

1) GO to a urologist

2) At the moment you are going to pop think about George W. on top of Laura pumping away with hie white bottom moving to the motion.

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Use the lateral coital position it makes it harder for ejaculation thus making intercourse longer.

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Does it make the THING more sensitive (fast ejaculation, fast size-changing..) when a man masturbates so much? -

Does it make the THING more sensitive (fast ejaculation, fast size-changing..) when a man masturbates so much? -

- is the effect forever or it could be removed after some days intrupts or don;t masturbating for a week (a month, etc)? How much time does it need to become normal?

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actually i think masturbating more often makes you less sensitive. and ive never heard of it changing size because if it, except i do have my own theory about if youre left handed or right handed. it will curve that way after awhile. ... ive seen a real sex thing where guys pull on it and stretch it out often to try and make it longer. ... there are ways to prolong ejaculation. hang a small rag, towel, shirt over your erect penis and lift repeatedly. ... hope that helped. maybe if i was a dude.

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Masturbation is just a way to satisfy your sexual needs and to clean up your nut sack due to lack of sexual activities. It does not help to make the THING bigger, ejaculate faster, or more. Neither does it leaves your any side effects provided you did not overdid it. You will still be the normal you, no change after everk jerk.

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I wouldn-t know.

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in my experiance masturbation makes it less sensitive. which can be a good thing and can be a bad thing

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Male cramps and painful ejaculation? -

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earlier i was having bad cramps it usually happens when i have to poop :) then when i do that they get a little better but they hurt so bad that i could barely get out of the shower and tonight when i ejaculated it was kinda painful in my penis and i had some trouble keeping it erect which never happens what could this be? im only 16 by the way

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Well, it-s ether u have a appendicitis like i did, or something else. I advise you seek a doctor.

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Sounds like pain in abdomen traveled and you felt it in your penis. I don-t think it has to do with your penis, sounds like digestion stuff.

Do you eat 3-4 times a day and drink enough water? Do you poop twice a day? Listen to your body when you have to go, don-t hold it in.

If the pain isn-t related to pooping and it hurt so bad you could hardly get out of shower then you need to see a doctor about this. Pain in the abdomen is hard to determine, I doubt we could guess it online.

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Go see a doctor QUICK!

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What is premature ejaculation? -

What is premature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation is when the male finishes too fast during intercourse, denying pleasure to both his mate and himself.

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its when a man ejects sperm into a woman during sex but only in a short amount of time, hence being called premature.

this leaves the wife unsatisfied and may cause her to look for other lovers.

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WHen the man ejacluates too soon during intercourse.

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i think it-s something that comes out before you get offf?

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