Premature Ejaculation what helps stop this??? I have heard about a nasal spray anyone tried it?? -

Premature Ejaculation what helps stop this??? I have heard about a nasal spray anyone tried it?? -

Kegel exercises will apparently help. For males: This is done by contracting and relaxing the muscles that are utilized during urination--i.e. you go, then stop yourself, then go, then stop yourself, etc.

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after the first ejaculation, try to have sex the second time....

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ummmmm.....i have never heard of nasal spray

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How do you apply it? lol i didn′t know that. nice to know

Premature Ejaculation what helps stop this??? I have heard about a nasal spray anyone tried it?? -

Prostate aching after ejaculation? -

Prostate aching after ejaculation? -

well yeah long story short every so often after i ejaculate i suffer from an aching sensation in my prostate gland. sometimes its mild, and sometimes it hurts like a *****. i was just wondering what this could be? i-m not so keen on going to the doctor and having a prostate examination as such. it doesn-t happen much but yeah, it-s a bit of a concern and i-ve never been able to find something that explains it. possibly prostatitis but i-m really not sure.

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You should got to your doctor. He may do a prostate examination. I know it-s not the most pleasant thing in the world, but for a few seconds of uncomfortableness could find out the problem. (May even save your life!) Not trying to scare you or anything. I-m sure it-s nothing too serious, but you do need to seek medical advice or the pain could get worse and maybe even cause complications down the road if you don-t get this taken care of. Good luck with everything.

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Quite remarkable that you can identify a pain in your prostate.

Maybe it is just a pain that you think is in your prostate. More than likely it is in your urinary tract.

If you are experiencing any pain from something that should not cause pain, then you really need to see you doctor.

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Time for a trip to the doctor. It should never ache after ejaculation. Sounds like a prostate infection, but you need to see about it before it develops further.

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You are probably suffering from a UTI that has infected your reproductive organs. This can cause sterility.

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how old are you? how do you know it is prostate?

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No firepower in ejaculation! NEED HELP!? -

No firepower in ejaculation! NEED HELP!? -

im 15, and I use to squirt my *** a number of feet, but now it just sorta dribbles out. any ideas?

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Yep overuse - plain and simple.

Not really overuse more like lots of use. You need to give the poor old body a chance to refresh restock and reproduce. Semen takes a while to produce in the testes and in the cowpers gland and seminal vesicles so if you want to be a big shooter then you need to do it less often.

Its a trade off 5 times a day and all that pleasure or once a day and one big shoot.

Also shooting is often got to do with how sexually excited you are too.

Cheers

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this could be from a variety of reasons. either you **** so much there is nothing left or whatever you are using to masterbate with is not turning you on very well. Im 16 and I suggest you wait like a couple days for your supplies to charge lol before trying again and if you dont get the desired effect then change your porn.

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Stop beating it like it owes you money and give it time to build up some juice. Don-t be so concerned with how far you can toss the rope but practice some control. Remember, sex isn-t a race to the finish line, it-s more about journey.

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Thats just something that happens, some guys can squirt far and others cant. I used to be able too but I cant now either.

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Stop masturbating then.

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Ever heard of keigel exercises? They work. Just google it.

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stop doing what you are doing; give you squirt gun a chance to refill.

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ur probably just getting more imune to it so make it more intense by doin it slow

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What is premature ejaculation? -

What is premature ejaculation? -

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Premature ejaculation occurs when a man reaches orgasm and ejaculates too quickly and without control. In other words, ejaculation occurs before a man wants it to happen. It may occur before or after beginning foreplay or intercourse. Some men experience a lot of personal distress because of this condition.

As many as one in five men experience difficulty with uncontrolled or early ejaculation at some point in life. When premature ejaculation happens so frequently that it interferes with the sexual pleasure of a man or his partner, it becomes a medical problem.

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You can get medication for that

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Premature Ejaculation occurs when I man ejaculates very quickly after insertion into the female. Is you can only last about 2 1/2 minutes then you suffer from premature ejaculation.

There are many treatments available for premature ejaculation. You can find a list of them at
http://www.cureprematureejaculation.org

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thanks and cheers to nursebob...they are correct.

In many cases it has nothing to do with time...but the lack of control.

But maybe this question is rooted elsewhere. Here-s the thing. Society, and pressure is put on men to last. Read previous threads...but I found a study which documented 20-30 year old males in stable relationships, and the average time from insertion to ejaculation was 7 -10 min (they were not trying to last, hold off etc).

We often try to hold out mentally and physically, to please our partner....The problem is this is counter intuative to how we were built. We are animals, and we are programed to ejaculate fairly quickly....as the more times we do it the better chances of conception.

Men and women need to understand each others needs and limitations. Girls need to understand that we hold out to please them. They should understand that we try, and it can be hard....it is against our physiology.

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when u go too soon. women dont like that

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Question About Ejaculation...? -

Question About Ejaculation...? -

I-m 14 years old, and when I masturbate, when i-m reaching orgasm and i-m about to ejaculate, i feel a soft burning feeling in the top of my penis. I get scarred about it and y suddenly stop masturbating and lose orgasm. Is that feeling normal? it-s not a painful feeling, I just want to know if it-s normal. Thanks

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Its normal. Humans have two kinds of touch receptors - pleasure and pain. While you are masturbating you feel the pleasure receptors in your penis. But believe it or not, when you ejaculate, your pain receptors in your penis are actually active - that helps trigger the prostate gland to release semen. Feeling a burning or tingling sensation is normal. Its only abnormal if you feel a lot of pain.

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Next time you are masturbating let your orgasm happen and you-ll understand more about the strange feelings you-ll experience.

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it-s cause u stop suddenly before the orgasm let it happen

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thats a normal feeling just before you ejaculate
feels kinda like you need to pee or a tingle

just keep masturbating and you will ejaculate

and that does feel cool
yuo are normal

have fun, i did when i was 14

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Passing blood painfully after ejaculation? -

Passing blood painfully after ejaculation? -

I agree, see a doctor! Also stop ejaculating in the meantime!

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I don-t want to worry you, but it sounds like a trip to the doctors is necessary to have it checked out.
Don-t be shy as they are used to seeing problems like this daily and better to have it checked than leaving it until it-s too late.

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How many times did you masturbated or have sex before this time? Seem that you have ejaculated too much till nothing comes out except blood.

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I dont know but i would say go get checked for std at the health department it might not be good...

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Doctor! Now! Right now!

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get to the hospital quick

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never do this til u get matured............................

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u need to go and see a doc. Ur gp would be the best person 2 consult.

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go and see a doctor urgently

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doctors asap are you still here whats up do you want to loss it NOW

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What does premature ejaculation mean? -

What does premature ejaculation mean? -

Some will term Premature Ejaculation (PE) as being when the man ejaculates before his partner reaches orgasm (climaxes/comes/cums) most of the time, whereas some definitions will define some sort of time constraint, for example, calling it Premature Ejaculation (PE) if the man reaches orgasm and ejaculates within two minutes of sex starting.

One thing that is common to most, if not all definitions of Premature Ejaculation (PE), is that it is felt that the man has a lack of control over when he ejaculates (comes/cums), and often ejaculates before he wants to.

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Premature ejaculation is when you ejaculate quickly, or too soon. So, there you are with your woman, and the two of you are just getting started, and BAM, you reach climax and ejaculate and loose your erection.

BTW: There are ways that a guy can learn to last longer. Much longer.

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Premature Ejaculation refers the uncontrollable ejaculation before a man desires to.

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how old are you? it means that you ejaculate everything out by accident

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It means you achieved orgasm before you wanted to.

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it means you have to get it up again so the lady can enjoy sex too.

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It means blastoff time jumped the gun.

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when you can-t hold in your love juice for more than a minute during sex

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It means you need practice.

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It means your black.

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Is premature ejaculation a kind of disorder? -

Is premature ejaculation a kind of disorder? -

Learning to spot the signs of imminent ejaculation is a good first step. Ease off the second you feel the first inkling of the point of no return down below. Slow deep breathing and contracting your perineum (the muscles used to squeeze out the last drops from urination) will help dissipate the sensations. Its really a matter of retraining your system and won-t take that long with a little practice.

You should never need to resort to drugs of any kind, its a billion dollar business, don-t you think they will tell you what you want to

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Hi Lee
No this is not a disorder. It-s a normal reaction for most young guys. Even if you hae been masturbating for some time, a new experience can cause this to happen. Don-t worrry - just enjoy it. You may find htp://www.puberty101.com has som useful info. All the best.

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haha its called icantholdit-itis


sucks 4 u

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How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

it is not premature, when it is ready to go, it is ready to go..

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Use one of those rings that goes at the base of the penis. Focus on her, not yourself.

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Think about your momma naked!

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Masturbate first before screwing your wife?

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ivan dog is right! You just have to practice control and know when to stop and take a break. It takes your partner-s help of course...she has to stop moving when you tell her to or her movement will cause you to c-m. Masturbation is a great way to practice too! You can learn to go as long as you want...and oh will that ejaculalation feel good when you (or your partner) decide it-s time to let the volcano erupt! As a short term solution, you might try to masturbate all the way to ejaculation a couple of hours before you have sex. That should definitely make the latter experience last longer.

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hahaha loser

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It-s all in the mind and muscles. You know when your body is too close, change what you-re doing so that it is less pleasurable for you but allows you to last. It-s about her too! Focus on not-coming. And yes, I know I-m a girl... but I-ve got guy friends and a boyfriend...

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practice makes perfect......

masturbate until you just feel like your going to *** then stop , wait a few seconds and do it again , and then again this time allow yourself to ***
do this everyday extending how long you can masturbate without cumming , the trick is to get used to the feeling so you can slow down when having at it with your partner and then go longer
this is not an extremely fast process ....i used it and i-d say it took a couple months , now i go about an hour with my partner
allowing yourself to masturbate slowly and not rushing to get that release is the idea here....we men cause our own premature ejac. by rushing when masturbating when we-re young and your body gets used to that ....so when you start having sex your body doesnt know anything but cumming quickly
men with kids........tell your boy not to rush when masturbating , its totally natural so dont make them feel its wrong, talk to your boy ....dont let him go thru the whole premature thing

B.

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I am mastrubating once in 3 or 4 days. now my ejaculation is very less should i stop that? -

I am mastrubating once in 3 or 4 days. now my ejaculation is very less should i stop that? -

i also have nervous weakness

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Hi,

To get best results and solve your problem .Pl. give break for some days .

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Not at all... The more you use it the more you make. That frequency might actually be low. If you don-t use it, you loose it... At least that is what all indications are.

So get busy... The more demands are place there the more the body will think it needs to make, and though the results you see are less mess, the reality is that more demand will cause more to be made in the long haul.

Hope that helps...

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That-s perfectly normal for you to do that, bro. Just don-t go overboard like a couple of people have said. I read an article that said that your semen (which is the liquid part of ejaculate) will go back to a full load in 3 days. So if you only do it, lets say, once or twice a week, you-ll feel the difference. I went 8months without cranking it and I launched it from the front of the sink to the wall behind it, which is about 2 feet...So try THAT one ;).

Hope that helps man...Till then, keep cranking.

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Well it will be less than the first because you havnt produced as much sperm in that time frame. now if you mean its less even after a 24 hour wait then there is a phsical problem so see a doctor. Even if you knocked one off once every 20 minutes it wouldnt have any effect on your sperm production

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I would not worry about that. Your body gets low after each time you ejaculate, but dont worry, your body will produce more, fast! Just remember if you ever want to have babies, do stop masturbating so your sperm count is enough. Relax and enjoy! Oh and I think we all feel a bit weak after an orgasm.

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Your rate of masturbating is not so high. It is quite normal. I do not think once masturbation in 3 or 4 days is the reason of your less ejaculation. It will be beater for you to take a medical check up.
sp

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Don-t worry about that pal! You can do it as much as it pleases you. Just make sure it does not become an obsession in your mind, and that it does not interfere with your normal life.

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you can not exhaust your ejaculate by masturbating as the production keeps pace with expenditure , this must be a temporary setback no need to stop ,

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Better do something about your so called nervous weakness:see the Dr for it:ask medicines to calm you down.
Sky.
Something like Valium.

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there is no relation between ejaculation and quantity. but you extend the period by 8 to 10 days. and do not worry as this is normal

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Maybe you should cut down a little and actually try it with a girl.

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lol.. masturbation does not lower sperm count, only temporarily

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LoL yeahh prolly not so muchh.

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IF YOU CAN.

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Yes cut back to once a month and THAN see how much you squirt. A Big difference my man!

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are u a wanker

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I need some help with my premature ejaculation! please!? -

I need some help with my premature ejaculation! please!? -

me and my girlfriend like to have sex plenty of times a week. the only problem is that i ejaculate too fast. i only last like 4 or 5 minutes. can someone please help me out!!!!! i would like to learn how i can stop that NATURALLY, without taking any medicine or anything. please help me.

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Masturbate before you see her. Then it will take longer. Or you could have her make you orgasm, then you could spend a little while doing stuff to her, and then after a little while you-ll be ready to go again and it will take longer! Also, when you feel you-re getting close, pull out and perhaps go down on her a bit, or tease her a bit. Oh, and -extra safe- condoms will be thicker so will help you last longer. I think you can also get some condoms that make you last longer becuase they have a very small amount of this stuff in the end that numbs you a little bit. Hope this helps!

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Practice getting in touch with your body, while you-re alone. You probably got into the habit of having every orgasm as fast as possible when you masturbated before. Now you need to train a different response in yourself. Masturbate slowly, with a gentle, slow stroke. Concentrate on the feelings you have as your arousal builds. Learn to recognize the feeling that says you-re going to come, and there-s no stopping it. Learn to stop playing with yourself before you reach that point, then start again after you relax some. Try to make your masturbation session last as long as you can stand it. When you get good at this, you can employ the same techniques with your girl. Also concentrate on getting her really excited before you enter her. Maybe give her an orgasm with your hand or mouth before you put in your penis. Stop moving when you feel that point of no return approaching, and resume when you-ve calmed down.

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the stop and go method is quite effective for my bf

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There is no easy solution mate, you need to be confident that you can last.

If your doing it right then your girl should *** at least once in that 4-5 minutes.

Try having a few straight whiskys before hand!

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As soon as you find out the answer to your question, let the world know it! There are millions of men that have the same problem

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Practice with your hands...

I need some help with my premature ejaculation! please!? -

Ejaculation Help Please? -

Ejaculation Help Please? -

I masturbate about three to five times a day, im a fifteen year old boy. It-s getting to the point where i barely *** at all. I once waited five days before I masturbated and when i did IT WAS INSANE! It went everywhere and there was a lot of it. What affects how much a man cums? I know it depends on the individual but I *** a lot when I don-t masturbate. Will I come my normal amount if I wait a couple of days and then at least masturbate only once a day?

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The more you come in one day will rapidly decrease your ability to shoot any more again. Just think of when you run out of your shield in Halo, You have to wait for it to regenerate. Same thing with your balls.... they are trying to re grow all the little sperms inside, but you empty it out before it can return it to full capacity. Just like getting shot in Halo. Suggestion.. Wait for like 3 day intervals. And you-ll be shooting like a champ every time. :D hope this helps!

Also, eating the right vitamins... Even Shellfish will help you regenerate a bit more volume of sperm.

The vitamin I read about that helps with sperm production is Zinc

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doesnt matter i can suck it up when u ***

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well do you want to cu(m) normally or insane?

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WHAT THE **** MAN! FIVE TIMES A DAY!!!???

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then just keep it in ur pants for a couple of days

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How do i stop premature ejaculation? -

How do i stop premature ejaculation? -

this sux.. how kan is top it or help it?

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Wearing a condom besides a really good idea in the first place will help you last longer, especially the unlubricated ones. Some brands also offer types with a desensitizing climax control substance on the inside. Look at the Durex brand.

If you are going on a date one really good idea is to masturbate before you go out. The second orgasm will take longer to happen but will still be satisfying and your partner will also be pleased as well.

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I had this problem too. Premature Ejaculation is the most common sexual -disease-, and yet easy to fix. When you masturbate, and you feel you are about to climax (***), slide your hand to the tip of your penis and squeeze. It will stop the ejaculation, but it will also cause you to lose your erection. If you do this whenever you masturbate, the problem should be cured pretty fast. I do this almost every time I masturbate.

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Try exercise like pelvic muscle and stop and start technique.

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

visit here it might help u
http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

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depending on your age i have different answers, i will take the term -sux- as you being under age...
try masturbating slowly and when you feel that your close to climax stop until the feeling goes away... keep doing that for as long as you can handle it...
if you do climax, try to maintain an erection and go back to what i suggested earlier... this is called edging btw... ;-)

good luck!

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Think about something gross. Think about elderly people having sex or something to keep your mind off of finishing. try to focus on something else in the room or leave the tv on and focus on that. Also if you know you are going have sex, try rubbing one out about an hour before you do (think something about mary, just dont get it on your ear!!!)

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Dear there is no Single product or way which can control PE forever.
For a accurate advice we need to know your age,weight, your present ejaculation time and few other details

Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com

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practise self control and knowing what is PREMATURE

many people who see too much of porn get foxed

as porn is director /editor controlled to en cash

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After you start stop for a couple of seconds until the initial rush is over. Then start again.

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you gotta quit ejaculating prematurely! duh

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SELF CONTROL

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you cant your just unlucky, i feel for you bro.

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booooooop i don-t know

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Ejaculation problems! Help!? -

Ejaculation problems! Help!? -

This is weird. First off, I-ve never had sex, or put my dingle anywhere weird.

Ok, so I was doing my thing earlier, and when I ejaculated, it was very thick, kind of chunky, with a slightly yellowish-green tint to it. I don-t feel sick at all, but this just freaked me out because I-m used to long, normal looking shots as it drops in my trash can.

What could this be? I am super freaked right now, and it wasn-t happening yesterday! My doctor is out of town, so I have to wait until Monday. I worked it again a bit ago, and it-s still doing the same thing! Please help!

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Hardhat! Bahama! Hathaway!

Keep spanking it over and over again. It-ll be like blowing your nose. Eventually the yellowish-green will work its way out, and you-ll be back to the long, normal shot drops.

Come on baby, fix your spermies. If not for yourself, do it for Silas and Gemma!

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Did you eat a pickle?

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You could be dehydrated.

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Please help. I have delayed ejaculation.? -

Please help. I have delayed ejaculation.? -

I-ve been dating a girl for nearly 2 months. We love each other. I-ve been unable to have an orgasm through intercourse, oral sex, or manually since starting 20mg Prozac 8 months ago. I can go for an hour w/o having an orgasm and we both get too tired for me to finish. I can still orgasm on my own but it is difficult. How do I reassure her the sex is still great? She feels like she is doing something wrong and wants to please me. She loves the sex b/c I last so long but wants me to be happy too. But, I am happy. What kinds of things could I say during and after sex to reassure her? I-ve tried but she still feels insecure about it.

Do you have any tips for making it quicker? I have to use a condom. I tried the ultra thin, which works better but not a huge difference. My medicine helps me w/ depression/anxiety. I don-t want to quit taking them.

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While you do have a problem it seems that your priorities are not in the right place. You shouldn-t be worried about questions concerning what you should be telling your girlfriend (i.e. What kind of things should i say before or after sex to reassure her?) These questions won-t have to be asked once you solve the bigger problem here. The bigger problem is that you are having a problem ejaculating because of certain medication. I highly recommend seeking professional advice from a physician or a specialist like a Urologist. Also it would be wise to tell the person who prescribed you the Prozac about your current condition.

Some Closing Thoughts:
Yahoo answers is probably not the best source of counsel for a health condition like yours. Again the best thing for you to do is to seek professional advice.

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Prozac can do this to ya. You need to tell the doc it is interfering with your mojo. He should adjust or change and things should go well. I hear Wellbutrin has no sexual side effects. This is to be discussed with a doctor though. I want to see **** all over the place. Good thing you can go for long time. woo hooo.

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have her do stuff to you before you start sex, like oral and a handjob. it-ll get you closer to an orgasm when you finally do start having actual sex. also i-ve heard that putting some lube into the condom can help with sensation.

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This is one of the side effects of taking those type of meds. The only way to fix it is to stop taking the pills. As far as I know anyways, you can try talking to a doctor or reading any info on Prozac-s website
here is some information I just got by looking it up on google:
Male and female sexual dysfunction with SSRIs - Although changes in sexual desire, sexual performance, and sexual satisfaction often occur as manifestations of a psychiatric disorder, they may also be a consequence of pharmacologic treatment. In particular, some evidence suggests that SSRIs can cause such untoward sexual experiences. Reliable estimates of the incidence and severity of untoward experiences involving sexual desire, performance, and satisfaction are difficult to obtain, however, in part because patients and physicians may be reluctant to discuss them. Accordingly, estimates of the incidence of untoward sexual experience and performance, cited in product labeling, are likely to underestimate their actual incidence. In patients enrolled in US major depressive disorder, OCD, and bulimia placebo-controlled clinical trials, decreased libido was the only sexual side effect reported by at least 2% of patients taking fluoxetine (4% fluoxetine, - 1% placebo). There have been spontaneous reports in women taking fluoxetine of orgasmic dysfunction, including anorgasmia.

There are no adequate and well-controlled studies examining sexual dysfunction with fluoxetine treatment.

Priapism has been reported with all SSRIs.

While it is difficult to know the precise risk of sexual dysfunction associated with the use of SSRIs, physicians should routinely inquire about such possible side effects.

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Try drinking more water and eating more foods with citruline (such as watermelon). It seems to help some men to produce more semen.

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I have the same problem, except no meds to blame. Still looking for my answer on what to do about it (I do have a bit of ED.. related??)

Anyhow, to answer your question:

1) Do you have an orgasm? I have multiple orgasms when having sex, just no ejaculation! (I have to do it later). If so, let her know that you-re having it. Work it the way you normally would, including the collapsing on her and falling asleep (assuming that she-s satisfied by this time).

2) Assure her that it-s not her - that you have the same problem with your other girlfriend-s too, even the really really hot ones. Seriously, she-ll be insecure that you are less attracted to her and therefore unable to orgasm. Let her know it-s a physical problem, and be prepared to explain it (ugh. I hate having to explain mine). Remind her that if you weren-t sexually attracted to her, you wouldn-t be able to carry on for that long.

3) Tell her that you have to work through it, and the more sex you have with her the more you-ll get over it and eventually have a great orgasm together. Well, that works for me and my problem (I think) - or WOULD work for me if she-d go for it. Unfortunately, i think she figures I-m making that part up. Would this work? Maybe. Practicinghaving an orgasm during -normal- sex (and not masturbating) might eventually work. I think it-s worth a try.

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Im 16 and a virgin. is it true that the time for male ejaculation is the same time you will last in bed? -

Im 16 and a virgin. is it true that the time for male ejaculation is the same time you will last in bed? -

hi,
i have heard that the time it takes for a man to ejaculate is the time he will last in bed, is this true or is the having sex process longer as i am a virgin and from what i have seen on videos it lasts much longer than i can masturbate until my seminal fluid comes out?

thanks in advance.

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When you masturbate you are in control of your orgasm, for the most part. When you are with someone else, almost everything is out of your hands, literally. It usually will take longer with someone else- simply because of the -other- involved in the process. With good communication, you and your partner will be able to do things that feel good to you and to them in order to achieve a pleasurable experience for both that lasts for a long time with a very pleasing climax at the end.

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its true most of the time, but the more you have sex the longer you-ll last, like practice makes perfect. but your first time might be different. guys hardly ever ejaculate the first time do to nerves.

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It get longer as you get more experience, and sometimes you will shoot at the sight of anything

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try it on your boyfirend !

Im 16 and a virgin. is it true that the time for male ejaculation is the same time you will last in bed? -

I suffer from delayed Ejaculation? -

I suffer from delayed Ejaculation? -

I am unable to achieve an orgam in less than 7 or 8 hours. I have gotten my girlfriend off many times but when its time for me to get off I cant. This causes her frustration and she starts to feel bad about herself. Is there anything I can do to rectify the situation. Ive had this problem for years and I need to know if there is anything I can do to achieve an orgasm in a reasonable amount of time. Thank You.

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Son , what you have here is not a problem. First thing ditch the girlfriend cuz rest assured millions of women would love for their man to have this problem. this is a god given talent, dont waste it on one women you fool. Forget about you getting off man, your street cred will be so high once you dip into another 5 or 6 women that you-ll be fighting em off once they hear you can go for hours. Trust me, word of mouth is very effective!

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Fake it so she won-t feel so bad

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Hey buddy!!

Well first of all you need to comfort your girl. Explain to her that its not her fault. However, rectifying this problem can be fun for both of you. Experimenting is pretty fun hehe :o)

You could get yourself a few sex toys and things to help move things along faster. Sit with her and browse a few online stores for some fun vibrating gadgets and give them a try :o)

You can solve this together and have loads of fun trying out new things.

Best of luck!

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People dont talk enough about that problem I had that for a while sometimes I would just stop after my girl would *** a few times but latley I-ve been cumming quick its then you realize that sex is mostly mental bro, whats on your mind affects your dick and sorry to put it crudely but it is what it is also if your not circumcised it takes longer or if you yank it alot

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i advise you to see a urologist as soon as possible. there are MANY possible reasons for this affliction. i know, i-ve been in your place.
1. have your urologist do testing to see
a. what your testosterone levels are
b. if you diabetes
c. if you have poor circulation in your penis
2. if you-re taking any anti-depressants (except Wellbutrin) or heart medications---they could be your culprit.
i also believe you-re experiencing performance anxiety---living in fear that the next sexual encounter will also not be successful.
don-t beat yourself up over this issue, mother nature is doing that already.
3. keep open communications ongoing between you and your g/f. continously remind her she-s sexy and a turn on, but right now nature is interfering in your encounters. if she truly loves and cares for you, she-ll want to jointly solve the issue at hand.
4. you might want to try a few sessions of masturbation, just to release your frustrations and know that you-re still capable of ejaculating.
i know it-s a very difficult and tedious problem to live through. you have my sympathy and caring concern, friend.
be good to yourself!

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Um.......date me?

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Tell her to finger your rectum and see if that helps...

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Pre mature ejaculation or not? -

Pre mature ejaculation or not? -

Alright im 16yrs old and when i masturbate over prono i ejaculate in less then 2 minutes but when i don-t watch fantasy i last over 30 minute..... is it premature ejaculation or not , if it is may i get some exercises if not then alright.... thanks later

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your horny wen u watch PORNO and wen ur not then ur cant get as horny as fast

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its probably because watching porn gets you hard faster.. it gets you hornier than without it..
you probably bust so quick because of watching the porn..

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Have a look at Jimmy,s posting my friend.

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I had my first ejaculation... it was in the shower...? -

I had my first ejaculation... it was in the shower...? -

my penis was fully erect... and all i could get out was 3-4 squirts of white liquid which i knew must be the semen with sperm.... my penis is 3 when flacid and 5.5 ish when fully erect if that matters....

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what exactly is the question, are wondering if what happened is normal? yes it was.

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Congratulations! Its the best feeling in the world for a boy, and being able to do it is cause for celebration!

As for what happened. That-s pretty normal. Presuming you are barely in puberty, your penis is actually large for your age. It was sperm, clearish white is normal for your age. You had about an average amount of squirts -- so you are in good shape.

Hermes

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hey u r a man now b proud oh yea b careful with the soap in the pee hole it burns like crazy

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im 14 and its sperm but not everyone has pre-c*m stuff i don-t and it makes no difference trust me i also still only get 3-4 squirts but i know if you wait longer to masturbate your semen will have more sperm in and more cloudy

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good for you
it felt good didn-t it
the showers a great place, easy to clean up
btw... your penis is a good size

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Lol!
Thank the lords them nuts is working!

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Good for you, you-re now physically an adult and can get women pregnant, so be careful.

What-s your question?

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Tiger 777; Im guessing it was pre ejaculate if it was clear. Im guessing your 13 or 14. Your on your way just give it time son. Good Luck Steve

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Congratulations! Isn-t that wonderful? Have a celebration!

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My boyfriend has always had a problem with ejaculating early on, usually only after 5 mins or so. He seems to get really worked up easily to the point where I have to calm him down some and it makes me feel like I cant express myself sexually or it will be over in a snap....what are some things I can do to help him last longer without repressing myself?

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Tell him his brother is bigger......that should calm him down..

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use a condom. it cuts down on feeling so much and it should make him last longer. if you already do use one, try two. if that doesn-t work, then try changing position every couple of minutes or so or just have him go down on you so that he-s resting and you-re being pleased. just think of ways where you-re giving him a break but not actually stopping and you-re both having fun

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Learning to spot the signs of imminent ejaculation is a good first step. Ease off the second you feel the first inkling of the point of no return down below. Slow deep breathing and contracting your perineum (the muscles used to squeeze out the last drops from urination) will help dissipate the sensations. Its really a matter of retraining your system and won-t take that long with a little practice.

You should never need to resort to drugs of any kind, its a billion dollar business, don-t you think they will tell you what you want to hear.

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Does delay or control ejaculation harm to mens body? -

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Hi everyone, how are you?

I have a serious quesion that has confused me for a long time. Is it harmful to my health if hold ejaculation back and delay *** for a bit during sex and masterbation? Well it cause prostatitis or sperm fertilization disability ?

Thank you

Sincerely

A guy who needs help

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Holding back right before you ejaculate causes no harm. If you ejaculate and somehow prevent the semen from coming out, then THAT will cause some serious problems.

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I-m not 100% sure about that one but, if you can control when you ejaclate during sex....then you got it made. There are a lot of quikie men out there who has no control and have orgasm before their partner get a chance to know what-s happening....lol. seriously, I don-t think it will harm you.

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It doesn-t do any harm, but if you prevent ejaculation totally, then it can cause damage. But by building up the semen and delaying ejaculation then it can increase the orgasm.

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It doesn-t harm but mastrubating will cause problems, thats why i-m done.

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My boyfriend is 20, i stole his virginity so he has no experience we-ve probably had sex about 20 times and every single time he only last about 10 seconds [at the most] and he said he can-t help it that im so hott. he definitly has some self-esteem issues and afterwards he feels really bad and says he cant do anything right and hes a failure. Will I ever have good sex? I don-t think he would go to a doctor if I told him.

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Don-t worry... The solution is for him to tie a rubber band around his dick... REALLY TIGHT!!!!!!!!!!




Fine print: I am not liable for any damge that may occur from this...

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Premature ejaculation affects more than 50% of men, interestingly.
Several things can be done from his side and your side -
1. Slow down or stop the motion when he starts feeling very aroused before he gets to -the point of no return-. You may have to do this several times during each sexual encounter and you need his help to tell you when he is getting close to that point. Doing this over several weeks will prolong his staying power as his penis then gets -used- to being in your vagina and he then doesn-t come immediately he is inside.
2. Squeeze tightly the base of his penis when he is close to the -point of no return- and his urge to ejaculate will go away. You need his help for this too.
3. Do it again immediately after he comes the first time as he is able to last longer the second time.
4. You can get topical lotions at any drugstore which are to help reduce the sensation on his penis and may help prolong ejacultion.
5. There are a few medications which help, I-ll let you know if you need to know.
Hope these few tips help.

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ask him to practice masturbation for long hours,like when he is about to ejaculate ask him to stop rubbing his penis. so that he vl last long.Or u can stroke him for long hours just stop storking when he is abt to ***.I mean have a long foreplay. When he is abt to *** u can hold the tip of the penis(the part touching the balls and penis) tightly,so u can stop him cumming.

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Come again?

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my boyfriend lasted real short, not that short, before, the more we did it the longer he lasts now, practice makes perfect!. Also just playing with him or blowin him before sex is also good.

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na just but a bag over your face then get it on

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tell him to start masturbating once in a while so that your sex will last longer

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get him to do stuff to you before you have sex that way youre ready and you guys can finish at the same time?

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you sound too premiscuous..... his friend is really good???? Where is your interest in the PERSON? Get real

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After guys -release the days tension- the last thing on their mind is sex, or masturbation. If he would masturbate more he would last longer, or you could always tell him to think of Barbara Bush, that-ll throw him off. If it doesnt you might want to have a little talk...

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Premature ejaculation is something I used to have a problem with in my younger days. Heck sometimes I didn-t even penetrate because I was so excited and I was spent. If he masturbates earlier in the day like in the morning so he doesn-t have as much spunk waiting to get out it should help. Just beware it could also cause the opposite problem of him not being able to get it up. So be careful this could be a double edged sword. If he watches porn maybe he should lay off of it a little. Actually masturbation causes premature ejaculation there are training exercises where you masturbate and just before you feel like you are going to come you stop and relax. Then repeat the whole process. It is supposed to build up stammina and strength at holding back the come. Just do your boyfriend a favor be supportive. If he still has a problem there are other methods of play that can work very well and are quite fun too.
Tim

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there-s not much you can do,maybe try some foreplay or have him masturbate a little before you guys have sex, that usually slows down the next orgasm.

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Ejaculation question? -

Ejaculation question? -

So i recently learned that, according to one kid on heres question and answer that followed, is that I am one of those people who can hit multiple orgasms, you know, one and keep going, one and keep going, surprisingly with impressive giz shots on all but the fifth, usually were i run out anyways and the girl is usually done by then anyways, **** there usually done before the first, only had two girls ever make it past 2, anyways, around the third for some reason, i guess it is the strain of the muscles but my asshole hurts like i am constipated / extreme **** strain, what is it?
can you get hemeroids (mis-spelled sorry) from this.

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It takes practice, lots of practice, as they control the actual ejaculation and just take advantage of the orgasm

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Ur prostrate gland gets all engrossed with blood from the continued activity Dude. It isn-t a health problem and goes down in a little while.
It only gets engrossed to a limit and then is doesn-t go any worse.

U feel it in ur inner lower insides and it feels like ur rectum or the base of ur penis up inside. The slight inconvenience is nothing compared to the pleasure of multiple orgasms.

I-m suspecting that u are around 18 or 19 which is where that ability usually shows up. Would be awesome if u could keep that ability into marriage which is where u could really develop it with ur Lady.

Me! :- )

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Its very confusing question.

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Hey guys, a question about ejaculation? -

Hey guys, a question about ejaculation? -

im a chick and i was just wondering ive heard about premature ejaculation and i just want to know what the average time for ejaculation is?
My ex used to ejaculate in a short period of time where as others have taken longer?

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the average is 2 to 3 minutes.

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it really just depends on how good you are and if the guy can hold it in

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The average is 4-8 minutes of intercourse (from penetration to ejaculation). With practice, guys usually learn to hold it for a longer period of time.

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Seventeen and you-re having sex with your boyfriend? Shame on you.

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Age for ejaculation? -

Age for ejaculation? -

Gentlemen or Mom-s who-ve been there..
At what age does a boy begin to ejaculate with masturbation? I really do not want my son to have the -scare- some people do the first time ejaculate is present. I would like to inform him of the possibility when he gets near that age. (If her were a girl I would speak about a period around 8 because that would give her a year to get used to the idea - starting @ 9 is common in my family - but I have no experience with this). I do not know why I-m asking here before speaking to my husband because it-s probably genetic too. But I-d like to hear from others who-ve been there.

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Boys start puberty later than girls. The average for ejaculation is around 12, but I was an early bloomer, and started at 10, for example, others until they-re 14.

Keep in mind that at some school, they may have puberty classes. At my school (in 4th or 5th grade) we had a puberty class, in which the boys went with a male teacher and the girls with a female teacher. They really did a great job at teaching us everything about puberty (not sex). This was at a public California elementary school. Later in high school (freshman / 9th grade) we had the sex / STD classes.

And if your boy is anything like I was; he won-t be scared. Wet dreams don-t happen to all boys, especially if they discover masturbation (from hearing from friends, as I did at around 10/11). That-s because wet dreams happen to release excess/old sperm, but if masturbation happens (almost all teens masturbate eventually), there won-t be old/excess sperm.

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i started to ejaculate around 11

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I started puberty at 10, and could ejaculate at 11. I think I was a bit of an early bloomer though. Most guys tend to ejaculate around 12-13.
It-s nice to see a responsible parent.
I-ll give you a star. :)

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welll seeing my life in past when i started doing that since 12 when i watched porn for first time.....

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You are to be commended for thinking of this. I had my first ejaculation at 12 and it was a surprise if not scary. I had no idea that anything shot from the penis. I started masturbating at 10 and had been having orgasms for two years, that too was a scary thing to have happen, but how do you talk with a 10 year old about that if they haven-t discovered masturbation yet? Any way, good luck.

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Most men ejaculate after they-ve went through puberty.

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It depends on the body... most do it at aroung 12 but some earlier and some later

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11-12 My Children Were Fast Bloomers, Like Me. - Ages 9-14 Good Luck!

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13 and up i wouldn-t start earlyer than 13 years old? and make him drink alot of water tell him if hes going to do it then drink alot of water

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minimum after 12 years. before that a boy can have orgasm but cannot ejacualte

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12 up to 13.5

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yo cant predict it.. all guys stroke it and thn BAMM

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Honestly.... out of exp. Boys never really hear about pulling untill they get into the later years of primary. eg year 6-7. Most of the time its just from friends or they they and wana try it out. Luckily me and my mates were open and we had a bit of discussion about it at school a few years ago. But dont worry. Heel start between 11-13. PS. Hes capeable of making babies as soon as he gets his first black hair. Make sure you drill into his head that he need to wear protection. And just alittle advice [even though he may not start having sex early] buy or make your own condoms availible to him in a draw in the house or in his room. Tell him out right that they are for him. Heel wanna try using them and having abit of a play[masturbating into it]. Have fun!!! teen boys. lol Heel be right.

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around 12

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Ejaculation Problems... ? -

im 18 years old, when i masterbate i ejaculate only a small bit from the end... the rest of the sperm comes out from underneath my bellend, in what looks like it may have been cut or something by me at a younger age...

its weird, and makes it much harder for me to *** whilst having sex, i have had sex 5 times and never ejacluated from it

so when i masterbate i pull back my foreskin and *** appears from between the foreskin and bottom of my foreskin

is this normal at all? :S
does anyone else suffer from it?

serious answers only please

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IF this is true - when you pee then your pee would come out there too. If it does you need to go to a urologist who will redirect the urethra.

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dude you need to see a doctor, it could be a serious problem i would recomend seeing a doctor as soon as possible before having sexual intercourse again

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naw ni66a u need help dogg u weird

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My cousin is using my yahoo account would like to ask a question:

Me and my girlfriend have dated 1 year and 5 months, we first had sex within the first 2-3 months of our relationship, and i lasted quite long, around couple hours with breaks in between. But we didnt have sex for quite a while and we got back around a year into our relationship, but ive noticed that when we have sex now, i ejaculate very quickly, around a min into it, than i thought to myself, wtf happend?! i lasted hours before. So i came on yahoo to ask, how do i change this, i really want to go back to lasting a long time and i miss it, we use safe sex, condom and check once and a while. Ive heard stories that b4 you ejaculate, think of something off topic like the weather or sports. And or switch positions before you are about to as well. Ive heard stuff like that and go to a doctor or take drugs. I was wonderin on how to resolve all this crap.

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Ejaculation is a process completely controlled by the mind.If you can control your thoughts,you can stop this problem completely.
Natural treatments are best to cure premature ejaculation.I had this problem but now cured completely.

You can try it here

http://www.ejaculationmaster.co.cc


Good Luck

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My friend went to a premature ejaculation class.

He looked around and saw noone was there, he said -I think I came to early-

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ah good times, good times.

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Just Before you reach it.. stop Then carry on again, your probably going faster or your just hornier.

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Stress, anxiety, weak PC muscle, and inexperience are all causes of premature ejaculation. This is completely normal, because it’s sad to say that most men suffer from it. Relax, don-t feel pressured to perform, and have fun with it, and the problem will fix itself.

But if that doesn-t fix it than do an exercise called -kegels-, this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you-ll have the ability to last as long as you want.

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No ejaculation when masturbating? -

No ejaculation when masturbating? -

Im 13, 14 in feburary and ive been masturbating for a year.. i have orgasms fine but i never ejaculate. Yes theyve dropped, is this normal? How long will it take for sperm to develop?

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your are normal for 13, sometime your testes just need a bit more time to start producing sperm so you can ejaculate
your balls will soon be make more sperm than you can shoot off
just keep jackingoff and enjoy the dry orgasms
they are very strong and there-s no clean up

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just give it time your only 14 you-ve got a life full of orgasm-s to come[!]

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