Monday, April 28, 2008

Lack of Ejaculation or infertility? -

Lack of Ejaculation or infertility? -

I am 14 and when I experience an orgasm, no ejaculation takes place. Does this mean I-m infertile, or is it just late puberty?

Some people go through puberty at 17. It really depends.

I went through mine at your age. I-m only a year older now and I-m shooting loads the size of Mt. Rushmore.
Probobly just late puberty.

I hit mine around 12 ish.

And now im blowing loads the size of my town swimming pools.
Lack of Ejaculation or infertility? -

How can I delay ejaculation? -

How can I delay ejaculation? -

When I-m having sex, often (but not always) I am ready to come in less than a minute. I-m not sure why this happens, but is there a way to treat it?

If you know you-re going to have sex in advance, rub one out before your date. Once you-re in the act and get the urge, pull out and squeeze the base of your penis for a few seconds. This should you delay coming too soon. There are also cremes designed to desensitize the penis and prevent early ejaculation.

If that all fails, just make sure the woman involved is satisfied before hand. She will be more forgiving of a short performance if her needs were already tended to.
Maybe your not squirting the hose enough, and the tank is ready to burst once the gate is open.
You probably think about it too much and don-t relax. Concentrate on other things other than the joystick, and don-t jab the stick too fast.
Failing that get a less attractive partner. Then you may have the opposite problem, and not be able to do it. Find a balance
If you want to last long you should think of ESPN the entire time you are banging the girl. If you feel like you are getting close to finishing you should slow down and/or pull out. If that doesn-t work then you should last longer the second time you go at it, so just get the first one over with quick and then go longer the second time. You should also remember that this happens to most guys, and it kind of sucks that we have to think of distractions to last longer, but ESPN does work. Think about all the details of the game that you watched that day. Good luck!
you can do a -stop and go.- you penetrate until the point before ejaculating, you withdraw and then stop without any stimulation to the penis. that holds back the semen from coming out and prolongs the orgasms for later.

the pluses to this is:
*you training yourself
*prolonged orgasm
*biiiiggger load when ejaculating
.....i love the stop and go, wrks ALL the time.((pleasurable))
Dont think unsexy thoughts, it might deflate you. Stop, change positions, try things that take the downward pressure of the penis like her on top or you behind with her on her side. Or stop for a bit, stay in without changing positons but do other things to keep her heart rate going while you take the heat off your urge to come, eg suck her nipples, flick your tongue back - forth across the nipple as you suck it, kiss the neck, you know, the usual.
think of family members LOL
How can I delay ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation...? -

Premature ejaculation...? -

I cant last as long as my partner during sex, i feel kinda embarassed about it. How do i improve my sex life with out taking drugs? Im pretty young so Viagra is out of the question.
maybe do some more foreplay, as in, with her more first.. so then shes pretty far gone by the time ur actually having intercourse... so then its not so much of a problem... hope it helped
There is a product you can buy over the counter called -Man Delay.- It is a topical anesthetic that makes the head of your penis less sensitive and helps you last longer.

I tried it once and it was great. Sex lasted a long time that night!!
my bf gives it to me in mouth then you last longer he last like 30 min
Is it a problem for her or is she getting what she needs as well?
If you don-t already then try using a condom, it will cinch at the base and help you to last longer. There are also other cinching devises for the base, that you can get at an adult store, but be careful.
Try using other things like toys etc... to satisfy her first, then you can have your turn. You or her could always masturbate you first, then move forward.
numbing condoms
stop and start all the time then you can build up and go longer and longer.
Premature ejaculation...? -

Is it bad that my husbands ejaculations seem to be chunky? -

Is it bad that my husbands ejaculations seem to be chunky? -

we-ve been trying to conceive for a few months now, and ive been noticing that his ejaculations seem to be chunky ish. kind of like... the drying still kinda moist bit of lotion that comes out from the tip after its sat there for a bit

is it bad? could this be effecting our chances of conceiving?

It sounds bad. I-ve never heard of it.
Sperm can really vary in consistency, from -chunky- like you described it, to very watery. Just the same, there can be only a little bit that comes out or a ton. It can change a lot even with the same guy: he could have a small amount of thick sperm one day, and a lot of watery sperm the next.

I-m going to get a bit graphic on you here, but I feel personal experience is the best way to describe this. With myself, I-ve found that if I have a -quick- orgasm, it tends to be a small, thick amount of ejaculate. However, if I spend a long time getting aroused (either with or without my girlfriend) I tend to have a lot more and it-s a lot more watery. Medically, I would say that the prostate gland and other glands of the male reproductive system are producing more and more fluids over time and that-s what-s changing the consistency.

Regardless, the amount of actual sperm cells in the ejaculate should be the same whether or not it-s thick or thin, so I assume the chance to conceive would be the same in either case. However, bigger amounts of ejaculates tend to be more -explosive-, so there is a possibility with more ejaculate it could be pushed deeper toward your uterus and give you a chance to conceive. I can-t back that up though, that-s just a logical guess.

Hope that helps
Well ejaculation is made of a whole bunch of thing besides sperm, like minerals and protein. I could just be his diet,stress, wear tight pants. If he wears briefs tell him to switch to boxers. Also if he has a laptop on his lap while using it he should stop because heat lowers the sperm count. Also smoking lowers sperm count. Have him drink some protein powder in milk. And see what comes out the next day, a good amount should come out. If not then go see a doctor.
cactus, your guy needs to stay hydrated and eat more fresh fruit. Overuse of alcohol or tobacco may also be drying him out.
(Suddenly, I do my best Dr. House impression...)

-He-s getting too much fiber in his diet...and he-s cheating on you with a farm animal...I recommend you take some Nyquil for a couple of days and get a really good lawyer...-
Isn-t that a bit odd? Maybe he should see a doctor. That just reminds me of yoghurt, when it goes off...

Sorry, but that just doesn-t seem right.
the reason that a man sprem shows chunky its when he its not having to much sex so his sperm concentrates till comes out
ooo very weird ive never heard of this before

go see a doctor right away
Yes definately. Have him see his doctor about it.
chunky lol
Hes firing blanks!
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Premature ejaculation and masturbation someone who overcome it answer plz? -

Premature ejaculation and masturbation someone who overcome it answer plz? -

ok now i have as everyone probably know what it is already premature ejaculation or put it easy i *** too quick. now everywhere i read it said masterbating helps but i dont see how masturbating helps i have been masturbating for too many years and i still come QUICK its like lightning. now i know my girlfriend love the sex well the 5 min of sex we do have cause she tell me all the time but i want it to be longer cause sometime i *** in like 2 min and i hate it with a Passion. now is there anyone out there that has HAD this problem and its not there anymore if so what did you do to make it go ago. i am not stress i am relax when we do have sex. i just want to get rid of this problem or at least have sex up to 15 to 20 on an average basis. i think its going to ruin thing my birthday is in 6 days and i want some but i dont know if i want it cause i dont want to feel ashamed on my birthday. so my overall question is how do i get rid of cumming too quickly
i was reading in a magazine that you should sit on a tennis ball, but it has to be placed on your gooch ( the part between your asshole and testicles) and tense the muscles you would use to squeeze your buttocks. Do this for a good 10-15 minutes a day.
Or if that doesnt work think about your grandma during sex
Masturbation is the innocent way of Satisfying yourself but it can be Really terrible. Many people
Believe Masturbation has no after effects and Its a Big Misconception. Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…
theres a couple of ways. jack off 15 to 30 min before sex. also when you feel it coming on when your having sex take it out and hold the head. it cuts of the circularion and while your doing that lick or finger your wife. it realy works.
perhaps try watching a porno or when doing it try to think of other things while you are doing it and maybe that will help you last longer??
easy....just masterbate, then 15 mins or so later have sex, i gaurantee you wont be able to do it quick....
Who the Hell , told u that Masturbation helps in controlling Pre-mature Ejaculation... but my dear... it is vice-versa true...Mastur..does not helps but aggravates the Problem.....

YES YES YES YES....
Where ever u have urge for this Indoor Fun..just Remind yrself.. sooner or later..doing this just regularly... shall make u pateint of PREMATURE EJACULATION....means coming up much b4 her in actual Action.. so it is up to u.. to decide ..wheher to enjoy for few yrs b4 marriage alone... or WITH HER for Decades to come.. or u want to live with Shame of not Satisfying her..then and she may search extra Course for her.. other than u... than..
so BOY ..
GOOD LUCK
ok now i have as everyone probably know what it is already premature ejaculation or put it easy i *** too quick. now everywhere i read it said masterbating helps but i dont see how masturbating helps i have been masturbating for too many years and i still come QUICK its like lightning. now i know my girlfriend love the sex well the 5 min of sex we do have cause she tell me all the time but i want it to be longer cause sometime i *** in like 2 min and i hate it with a Passion. now is there anyone out there that has HAD this problem and its not there anymore if so what did you do to make it go ago. i am not stress i am relax when we do have sex. i just want to get rid of this problem or at least have sex up to 15 to 20 on an average basis. i think its going to ruin thing my birthday is in 6 days and i want some but i dont know if i want it cause i dont want to feel ashamed on my birthday. so my overall question is how do i get rid of cumming too quickly

ok now i have as everyone probably know what it is already premature ejaculation or put it easy i *** too quick. now everywhere i read it said masterbating helps but i dont see how masturbating helps i have been masturbating for too many years and i still come QUICK its like lightning. now i know my girlfriend love the sex well the 5 min of sex we do have cause she tell me all the time but i want it to be longer cause sometime i *** in like 2 min and i hate it with a Passion. now is there anyone out there that has HAD this problem and its not there anymore if so what did you do to make it go ago. i am not stress i am relax when we do have sex. i just want to get rid of this problem or at least have sex up to 15 to 20 on an average basis. i think its going to ruin thing my birthday is in 6 days and i want some but i dont know if i want it cause i dont want to feel ashamed on my birthday. so my overall question is how do i get rid of cumming too quickly
think about getting her off and not about how you-re getting off.
if it starts to build up, back off for a minute.
take it out and waggle it at her instead or something.. idk.. then once youre a little calmer . pop it in there again.

try meds.

try therapy.


don-t just complain about it to us,
because we can-t help you.
if you really care,
(for your problem
and for Her)
you-ll tell your dr.
no, really.

i-m sure she hates it way more than she lets on.
Premature ejaculation and masturbation someone who overcome it answer plz? -

Friday, April 25, 2008

Can i apporach UNANI for premature ejaculation also errection problem..? -

Can i apporach UNANI for premature ejaculation also errection problem..? -

Unani is based on balance. One would need your complete history. Drink liquids. Practice cycles of erection and back off. Eat well. Exercise.

Dear Take my word of experience NO MEDICINE whether its Unani, or Ayurvedic or Allopatihic can alone control Premature Ejacualtion permanently. As I have already told you unless and untill your brain is trained via psychology you wount get permanent relief. So approach to that doctor who is expert in handling such cases

Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
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Sunday, April 20, 2008

Can you get diseases from ejaculation? -

Can you get diseases from ejaculation? -

Dear You have to first disscuss your case details then only any one can help you out

Dr Anil Kumar
Sr Sex Specialist
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com

with yourself, no, but with someone else it all depends on what type of contact is made
Can you get diseases from ejaculation? -

Is there an any secret way to end Premature Ejaculation? -

Is there an any secret way to end Premature Ejaculation? -

like uncommon way to treat PE,

no don-t think so, u have to go have naval delivery stuff
Practice.
Kegel Exercises. Don-t worry about your problem it happens to the best of us. Actually 1 in 3 people has a premature ejaculation problem.
E=mc^2
In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

If those don-t work, see your doctor.
Kegels. They aren-t just for women. What you do is stop yourself in the middle of urinating. It teaches you how to control the muscles that release when you ejaculate.
use desensitizer lotion or condoms. -- won-t make it feel as good, but ...should slow down the fireworks.
No.. it a little reminder to all men.. that the -Pull out- method does not always work.. use a condom..
Its all in your mind.Never go for masturbating technique.Leave watching pornography if u do.
Do it regularly with ur wife.

Best wishes.
Um take care of yourself a couple of times before you go on your date that helps prolong it. And try not get to excited, focus on the race not the finish line.
speak to your doctor and they will prescibe you to something for it.

I suffer from premature ejaculation but I actually like it that way.It skips out the long prologing and cuts straight to orgasm. I couldn-t care less how my partner feels about it and I-m not ashamed of having it.
No secret ways, man. Got to your doc. Do not self-medicate yourself. Or PE will end up in ED.
nothing really secret... it-s enough to visit
http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
and check the list of treatments to cure premature ejaculation
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Saturday, April 19, 2008

I have problems during sexual intercourse. It has to do with premature ejaculation. My sex life is ruined.? -

I have problems during sexual intercourse. It has to do with premature ejaculation. My sex life is ruined.? -

What is a premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse? I think that-s what I have. My wife hates me. It has caused me a great deal of trouble with my spouse, any idea on what to do? Where to go for help? How to beat this proble? I mension this to my doctor the other day and she suggested Viagra. I don-t think that-s what the primarily problem is. Anyhow I want to thank you for your help in advance and happy holidays.

luckily for u my worried and not so smart friend premature ejaculation can be trained and also can be controlled by medication, you should talk to your urologist, he might be able to help u with this and u can-t ask for any tips and hints cause everyone is different and u need to know first what is your reason for ejaculating prematurely and don-t try to do some techniques from the internet cause u might make things worse.
Good luck
Your life isn-t ruined - There is treatment for premature ejaculation. Just explain to your doctor that you ejaculate too quickly. Ask for a prescription for Zoloft 25mg once daily for 30 days. if you don-t see a difference then the dose will need to be adjusted to 50 mg. Paxil will also work for premature ejaculation. Either medication will do fine.

This will not work overnight; it takes about 14 days to see a difference.

You might need to stay on the medication for several months. Once you see a difference in the ejaculation delay, then research premature ejaculation exercises on the Internet.
Premature ejaculation is the inability to control your orgasm or when a man ejaculates before he wants to.

You can find techniques on the internet for helping with premature ejaculation.
The most effective way to help with this is to have sex until you feel you are close to orgasm, then stop and wait until you are calmed down a bit before starting up again. When you stop make sure not to touch yourself, but keep your partner pleased, go back to foreplay. Eventually you will be able to last longer.

Do NOT take Zoloft or Paxil for this problem, you can fix this without medication. They are selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor kind of antidepressants. These drugs are dangerous and cause many serious side effects, including severe withdrawal symptoms if you ever try to get off them.
Premature ejaculation means that you ejaculate too fast (*** too fast), and this has 2 solutions depending where the problem comes from... if you are just too anxious and excited to have sex, setting more of a relaxing mood, with candles and a massage... taking it slow will help you last longer (also alcohol and antidepressants will make you last longer) -

It could also be that your body has gotten use to ejaculating in a little amount of time, this is most of the times due to masturbating fast! for this: You need to traine yourself again on how to hold the semen back and delay ejaculation... using the stop and go method: Start masturbating slowly and continue with the same speed until ur almost ejaculating, stop and hold it in so it doesnt happen... wait until your penis starts to feel soft and again repeat the method... do this stop and go until you can no longer hold it back... try to last at least 5 times before you ejaculate! do this many times a week and it will help you!
Learning to spot the signs of ejaculation is a good first step. Ease off the second you feel the first inkling of the point of no return down below. Slow deep breathing and contracting your perineum (the muscles used to squeeze out the last drops from urination) will help dissipate the sensations. Its really a matter of retraining your system and won-t take that long with a little practice.

you dont need drugs to cure your problem it can be done naturally its a documented fact
You are too excited, you need to slow it down. I had the same problem a few years back, women would call me one pump chump. It was horrible Believe it or not I think of cars when I get to that point of almost finishing and it will usually back down the end result. or anything else that will make you not think of the great pleasure of sex.
Viagra? I thought that-s what you use whe you can-t ejaculate.
I have problems during sexual intercourse. It has to do with premature ejaculation. My sex life is ruined.? -

How do I prevent pre-mature ejaculation? -

How do I prevent pre-mature ejaculation? -

Well, you need to practice!

Next time you pleasure yourself, build up the feeling until you-re right at the brink. Then stop. Go do something else for a few minutes that doesn-t turn you on. Go back and bring yourself to that point again. Then stop. Repeat 3 or 4 times and then let yourself go. This should build tolerance and get yourself used to the feeling so you can be more familiar with your body and at what points it reacts to certain stimulus.

You have to lengthen your masturbation sessions. When you feel like you are going to ejaculate, stop. Wait a few minutes, then keep going again. Do this several times before letting yourself orgasm. This will eventually train your body to last longer during sex. You want to get it to wear you have to work hard for at least 10-15 minutes to get an orgasm. Everytime you masturbate make it long and draw it out.
How do I prevent pre-mature ejaculation? -

Is there an inexpensive solution for premature ejaculation. Masturbating before sex didnt make any difference -

Is there an inexpensive solution for premature ejaculation. Masturbating before sex didnt make any difference -

sometimes i dont even last one minute and this is putting stress on my otherwise very happy marriage

do penis exercises. its like when you hold your pee. you eventually learn to control that muscle so it holds it in.
To some considerable extent the problem is psychological, in the sense that the degree of arousal effects the facility to orgasm. You may know that some males never even get contact before they climax. Young guys will do this with their cloths on while making out with a someone who really stimulates them.

A pal of mine who is married had the problem, and he solved it to some degree by withdrawing and griping it very tightly for a few seconds.

But face it: studies show that most males finish in three to four minutes of insertion. Women average 15 to 20 minutes with alternate stimulation. A painful disparity, eh?
if masturbation when sex cannot work for you, I think it is dam serious case, seek a doctor advise.
ejaculation after a Minute is fast......NOT.....you just have a good woman that can get you to ejaculate that fast.....just tell her ......-honey, I-m sorry i -finish- fast, but ...you are so good...and so hot, I can-t help it- ...if a man last longer than 1 to 3 minutes,,,the woman is doing nothing for the guy....my wife gets a chuckle when i -finish- fast....she says.....-DAMN, I-M GOOD-....then she giggles......(by the way..she is 45 and I am 48)
stick it in the fridge for awhile

or just keep having sex the seccond time will be slower ,the third time and she will become happy
P.E. is predominantly a psychological issue but not always.
Try a physical fix first.
Get a cream or gel from a pharmacist that numbs you (checking that its suitable for use in this way), perhaps baby teething gel.
Apply to penis and let it take effect.
You should last longer and as you do last longer and longer you can wean yourself off the anaesthetic.
If your case is psychological it would be best to seek professional help as the cause can be complex and multi-antecedent.
But mostly don-t obsess about it, these things come and go
Try kegel exercises!
Have you tried a cock ring?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cock-ring

I was suprised at how much it slowed down my husband. This is the one we have.
http://www.pureromance.com/EC_ProductVie…
He likes it because he lasts longer. I like it because he lasts longer and the vibe is extra fun.

Apparently Yahoo is censoring my answer. Insert a 4 letter word for a male rooster to know what I-m talking about and to see the link. Gheesh!

There are also products that decrease the sensation of the skin. Check out this one:
http://www.pureromance.com/EC_ProductVie…
i believe there is a cream with a numbing agent used for that purpose. ask a G.P. or your druggist or chemist
You can stop premature ejaculation by natural exercise easily , read , Christian Gudnasons- book, The Ejaculation Master book,
http://www.ejaculationmaster.co.nr
, this guy grantees you ways that will help you have much longer sex , its just basically a few professional exercises that strengthen you ejaculation system in a few days
Hope this helps
a thick condom probably works, other than that, stop and start and stop and start. before you have sex, when your naked with your wife, stop and clear your mind of any thoughts. then put it in, and thrust and have a clear mind as you do so.
2% topical lidocaine jelly. Apply to the head of the penis and let it stay there for a minimum of 10 minutes. Be sure to wipe it off before you have intercourse.
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Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Does this really work to stop ejaculation? Is it safe? -

Does this really work to stop ejaculation? Is it safe? -

I read somewhere that by putting a healthy amount of pressure on the area between your scrotum and anus, sperm will not be able to travel up to your penis. It said that by doing this, you can have an orgasm without ejaculating, and continue to do so as many times as you want until you are ready to ejaculate, at which time you would orgasm without pressing on this area. So I need to ask 2 questions: Does this work? and Is it safe? The thought of being able to orgasm several times in one setting without having to ejaculate until the last time is very enticing, but I don-t want to try it if it-s going to harm my body in any way. Can anyone offer any information or advice?
...
1)its safe

2) its never worked for me...
sometimes it makes me hornier and makes me *** faster

What really works for me is the technique where you cut off ejaculation while you orgasm so that you last longer, it doesn-t require you to touch anything, here read this:
http://mistermanpower.net/Multiple_Male_��
NOT SAFE AT ALL, can cause your internal plumbing to rupture. Not fun. Don-t try it. Just go for a second or third round of the whole deal--ejac plus orgasm
it works. BUT it isnt recommended.
Why would you want to orgasm without ejaculating? Getting wet is the best part ;)
I doubt it works and if it does, it probably doesn-t work for everyone. Try it.
it works.but there is a risk of stuff backing up into your bladder or prostate
Does this really work to stop ejaculation? Is it safe? -

If you sneeze during ejaculation do you create a wormhole ? -

If you sneeze during ejaculation do you create a wormhole ? -

LMAO!

I don-t think it is possible to do both at the same time. It would feel pretty damn good though I would think.

YES! Doing so would rip open the very fabric of the time-space continuum causing multiple realities to blur into one and as a result matter may fuse with anti-matter ending in the complete annihilation of the entire known universe!
Or, and this is WAY more likely, your partner would need to wipe a loogie off of their face and would probably be rather upset! LOL
Of course you do. Everyone knows that sneezing while ejaculating opens a secret wormhole.
With all due respect, where did you hear that from?

And of course not!

Rofl.
idk. i-ve never thought of it. but now i-m going to make it my life-s work to find out.


lmao
lol, wormhole? i Think you just spray mucus all over you parner.
how old are u?? yeah like if you sneezeit makes a tiny little hole in your head then a wormhole appears
Hey thanks for the laughs
No.
yeah, duh! you didnt know that?
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Sunday, April 13, 2008

I seem to have an ejaculation problem. When Im with my partner, I cant seem to ejaculate. Any ideas? -

I seem to have an ejaculation problem. When Im with my partner, I cant seem to ejaculate. Any ideas? -

I-m 20 y.o. and I-m able to do it by myself, but whenever I-m with my partner, I can-t seem to do it. It bothers me greatly, but they always say not to worry about it. I have thought about maybe being too aroused could be a problem, or nerves, etc...

A common cause of anorgasmia in younger males is an atypical masturbatory style, particularly masturbating in the prone (face-down) position. This is a troublesome condition called Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome, or TMS. It causes severe sexual dysfunction in most males who practice it. The web site HealthyStrokes.com has information about TMS and how to cure it.

Other causes of anorgasmia include antidepressant use and use of alcohol and other drugs.
well my husband is like this. Not during sex but when i perform oral or give him a hand job he can-t ejaculate but masterbates he can do it himself. You might just be nervous. Try clearing your thoughts, and maybe even doing it with someone you-re comfortable with. Like someone you know
Its not a problem, at all , you need to be more relax and try to re-create the same atmosphere that you have when you do your self-aid climax, as the old cliche goes, no one knows your body better than you , you need to teach your friend how to help you.
Your feeling a little too pressured? Ur maybe not thinking about the amazing feeling and just more one i hope i bust. Stop thinking about it and just on the feeling of pussy.
are you gay? You reffered to your sex bud as your partner...But I think the ejaculation problem is from over-masturbation
Maybe you **** too much and you cant get off on a chick because it will never match how you do it to yourself..
porn and beer. Make sure your partner helps pick the dvd or website.
When you get to my age (60) you will find the problem is quite the opposite. Enjoy.
Then you don-t have too clean up afterwards. Lucky.
I seem to have an ejaculation problem. When Im with my partner, I cant seem to ejaculate. Any ideas? -

Woman ejaculation...? -

Woman ejaculation...? -

How long do woman take to ejaculate? Is it necessary for happiness?

it all depends. if you want to make her come fast insert your middle and ring finger inside of her. the heel of your palm should be by her clitoris/pubic bone. then start moving your hand up and down. varying speed and intensity as needed.
well u definetly gotta find her G-Spot to make her ejaculate and definetly oral will get her chemicals going......**** her, lick her, and finger her, these will prolong YOUR orgasm and help her feel stronger orgasms
I like the answers below so go boys! As a girl I suggest that u ask her what makes her happy/turned on/etc. Offer to try new things together and be giving to a woman and TRUST me she will LOVE IT. Amen!
Sometimes it depends on how horny she is but ya if you hit that g spot... bam!!!
Woman ejaculation...? -

Help on premature ejaculation? -

Help on premature ejaculation? -

okay can anybody give me advice on what to do, or is there anything to take before sex...like any herbs at a herb store or just anything
cause i can only last a good 10 mins sometimes less then that...i have tried the -stop - go-, the taken it out for a few mins, the thinking about other stuff.- of course the masterbating before sex! its very annoying to me - to my girlfriend.

so if anyone can help me, to last longer in bed i would appericate it

hmm its probably all in your head and practice might make perfect for this one, what actually made me give this answer is there are people who practice tantric sex or something where they end up being able to go for hours
The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation

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Problems with Ejaculation? -

Problems with Ejaculation? -

I-m 13 and Earlier tonight I ejaculated for the first time, But now I can-t seem to do it again, It-s as though It never happened it-s just not allowing me to reach orgasm, I tried for about 5 mins and nothing happened It-s been over 2 hours since I ejaculated, I-m afraid I might never get the hang of it. How can I do it once and then I can-t seem to get the same feelings or the same result?
well your still doing throw puberty so you might have to wait till later or tomorrow but as u get older it wont take as long for u to get erect and ejaculate again
Try again tomorrow.
take it easy dude! it only comes a lil at a time! i know! trust me! i just did it a lil while back in the summer! its is amazing and u want to do it over and over again cause it feels good. but it takes a while to like refil or w/e. just slow down. do it like 1 or 2 times a day!
just wait till tomorrow, and try again. im 14, and first did it when i was maybe 12.
if you want to talk more, IM or email me.
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it happened to me when i was 12 im 15 now. theres nothing wrong with u. when u ejaculate once it takes a little longer or maybe alot longer to ejaculate right after you just did it
Well... practice makes perfect!
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You-ll get the hang of it, trust me.
It-s normal. Don-t worry about it, and wait until tomorrow night.
just stop it baaaaaaaaaaaaaad
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Thursday, April 10, 2008

Premature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation? -

what really is it? Is it when u ejaculate the minute your touched? Its it a disease or sumtin? can anyone get do it and if so how do u stop it

its when you ejaculate faster than you and your sex partner (or hand/toy) is ready for...not getting full enjoyment of your expirience
its mainly caused by masturbating too fast and getting used too cumming fast or your glans of your penis being too sensitive.
if with a partner you have to communicate when getting close to blowing your load...and back off, even squeezing the head of your cock to stop ejaculation(gets soft if you squeeze the head only). same thing works if you are masturbating too.
its all a matter of reconditioning yourself to last. it works but takes a little time for most dudes. good luck...the longer you take the better the load feels.
Don-t call names....

Premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration, with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes.

Not a disease... a condition.

In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs
pre-ejaculation is semen that is ejaculated before that actually semen comes oout. usually happens when your arroused. it is perfectly normal
hahaha your penis is defective.....LOL defund

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Different types of ejaculations? -

Different types of ejaculations? -

I got another question here guys, i don-t masturbate like every day or anything but i still masturbate. Ever since i masturbated i usually get the usually get the same sensation, but there has been times when my ejaculation gets a kinda the same feeling but way way better sensation. I like how the 2nd sensation feels but i dont get it all the time, i dont know how to get it either, it just happens all of a sudden at a random time. Has anyone else experienced this?
Alright man first of all don-t listen to the guy who said to squirt it on your face! He-s either gay and likes the juice or he-s about 45 and never had a girl.. The thing to really make it better is to hold off for a while and don-t do it as much. The more u do it the less intense it is so just wait a week or maybe a couple of days and see what happens
This will be difficult but as an experiment refrain from all sexual activities includng masturbation for 1 week. After the week is over you can crack the head off it and then im sure it will be the best ever! I am sure it has something to do with time. You probably dont get this feeling often now because of your addiction but try and cut down before the addiction gets out of control.
Ejaculations are different all depending on how excited your are! The more excited you get then you will have a more intense orgasm. Try to go without masturbating for a week or so, then give it a whirl and you-ll see! Have fun!
Yes it has. The best ones are the ones when u point it at urself. Then shoot on ur face. Trust me. It feels f*ckin great! Trust me!
not me
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Wednesday, April 9, 2008

How long does it take for an erection to subside after ejaculation/orgasm? -

How long does it take for an erection to subside after ejaculation/orgasm? -

I noticed when I masturbate and have an orgasm my erection is still there for at least 3-5 minutes. It-s just as hard. One time I just kept going after the initial orgasm and eventually had another and another and another. Does this happen to everyone? Also if I let it go down I can easily get it back up within a couple of minutes. Is this normal? Now I can pretty much do it all the time. I haven-t tried this when I have sex but I don-t see why the same wouldn-t happen. Would it happen during intercourse? I think I will try though because my arms are getting a bit tired. Does it have to do with my age? I-m 21

Thanks
I-m 34 and I can still do that...just depends on the motivation I have in front of me. I haven-t tried in a long time but I bet I could get 2 or 3 out of one erection still.
No, it doesn-t happen to everyone. You are very, very fortunate to have it happen to you. It probably will happen during sex too -- and you will make anyone (female or male) that you have sex with VERY, VERY happy. It is not your age, it is your genetics, enjoy them.

Kind thoughts,

Hermes
i am 21 too. when i beat, it will last for like 4 or 5 minutes. the orgasm. Get a girl, it will last for like hours. Trust me, i know i have a girlfriend.
I-d go with the keeping going bit. it really impressed me the first time a guy did it with me. Also its all the more pleasure for you :D
normaly after a man c####s his penis will go soft in bout 3mins ,ive found ??? all men are differant thoug xxxx
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Friday, April 4, 2008

Why voiding and ejaculation NOT happen simultaneously? -

Why voiding and ejaculation NOT happen simultaneously? -

there-s a valve, sorta like a swing gate, between the bladder tube and vas desi(something) that makes sure that doesn-t happen.

Essentially, guys have a sort of valve that only allows one channel to be open at a time. Sexual arousal takes precedence, so while the guy has an erection, he can-t urinate. Howerver, it-s apparantly possible for some guys to ejaculate while they-re urinating, or so they claim.
Why would you want to pee and shoot at the same time?!

To answer your ?, different valves.
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Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Ejaculation? -

Ejaculation? -

my ejaculation dosent have any force it just drips out how can i get it to shoot out is it weird that mine drips?

It is normal too drip.Just do some kegel exercises.Its the muscle you use to stop yourself from peeing.It feels strange when you do the exercises
Just do it for a few days and bend your penis when your about to shoot
When you masturbate hold the sensation back right before you ejaculate (come) Hold it back for about 10 times. So yes... this will take about 30 minutes or even more. But when you finally shoot, it will squirt out hard and you-ll have a very intense orgasm. Enjoy :-)


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First, if you masturbate less often, you-ll build up more semen so you have more to shoot. Then, try flexing that muscle that kind of moves your penis a bit. It-s the one you use to get out the last few drops of urine. By doing this you can strengthen the ejaculatory muscles and thus allow yourself to shoot farther. Also, it-s not very weird to -drip-. Mine does sometimes. In fact, most guys don-t really -shoot- at all. It usually has a pretty good amount of force, but there-s no explosion.
Try the stop and go while you are masturbating.
Kegel exercises - they strengthen your pubococcygeal muscle, which can allow you to squirt further. Some guys have also told me to disrupt your urinary flow by holding it back with the muscles in pelvic region, then letting it flow again, and repeating the process several times.

Both take a long time to see results.
different people have different genes

it is not weird at all

you can try to squeeze the muscles between your balls and the anus area, see if you feel it , when you pee, try to hold it, and that is the same muslce, if you keep exercising that particular muscle, you should see some result
Aging can be part of it. As long as it still feels like a good climax, why worry about it? If you are not on meds, eat right, sleep enough, don-t drink a lot or often, you are probably ok and can-t do much about it except maybe kegel exercises.
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Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Has anyone been cured of premature ejaculation? if so how? -

Has anyone been cured of premature ejaculation? if so how? -

i was just wondering cos all the stuff on the internet seems rather strange.

My husband tried the standard techniques: keggel exercises, meditation, masturbating right before, but he just found them boring to do and ineffective (maybe because he got bored and gave up before seeing results).
This Worked for my husband... by worked I mean -cured- as you put it:
buy yourself a realistic vagina (I recommend the Mimi at www.Passion8Girls.com--online shopping--just for him), lube it up and you-ll have a much more intense experience than using your hand. This will allow you to practice your control and get used to the feeling of a vagina without embarrassing yourself. Don-t worry, you-ll overcome it (sorry, no pun intended it). You can also try desensitizing cream or lotion like Stay Hard (it-s also in the just for him section)... it-s even flavored strawberry.
Hope that helps. :)
Most premature ejaculation is caused by being over anxious and excited. Best thing to do is calm your nerves anyway you know how. Some men think about their grandmothers. Stupid but if it works......

You-ll find the more you have sex esp. with the same woman, premature ejaculation is less of a concern.

Best thing to do is start reading some books on sex and learn more about your body. Most guys learn about sex from their friends and they have no clue what they are talking about.
Ejaculation is a process completely controlled by the mind.If you can control your thoughts,you can stop this problem completely.

Natural treatments are best to cure premature ejaculation


http://www.prejaculationcure.info
i wouldnt trust the internet i dont think it can be cured
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There a problem when i ejaculation? -

There a problem when i ejaculation? -

When i ejaculation 4 month ago my nut always hurt after it is. Now it like when i ejaculation i complete fine and nut and never hurt.

that does ocur sometimes
glad it is better now
how old are you? if its your first few months to masturbate its normal, I also experience the same thing before, as u age u may not feel the pain anymore but sensation instead, if u masturbate so much u will surely feel pain when u ejaculate and if u urinate too after masturbating, do it gently and not too tight, If u need further instruction come and ill show u how, lol
i hope that doesn-t happen again
There a problem when i ejaculation? -

My new bf has a problem with premature ejaculation...is it because of me? -

My new bf has a problem with premature ejaculation...is it because of me? -

I just started having sex with my bf. He is having a problem with premature ejaculation. He said he-s sorry and he-s really embarrassed but this has never happened to him with another girl. Is it something I-m doing wrong? Is there something wrong with me?

No babe... it-s got nothing to do with you unless you are so hot that he just can-t help himself.

Just keep trying different sex positions until you find some that are good for you and a little less stimulating for him.

For example... I find that if I am on top I c#m more quickly than when she is on top. So... if I need to slow down and let her catch up she goes on top for a while.

Hope that-s not too much info ;)
Here-s a tip: When a guy has ejaculated within a few hours before his next ejaculation, chances are he will last a lot longer the second time around, about 20 min+. So, if he masturbates ahead of time, he-ll definitely last longer. Also, when you do sexual stuff (masturbation / some form of sex) often, you-ll eventually last WAY longer than before.
Wrong with you? Not a chance. Two thoughts come to mind. One, that-s about the most embarrassing thing a guy can admit. I could see myself lying and saying that it-s the first time it-s ever happened to try and salvage a little pride.

Two, a guy ejaculates when he feels so good he can-t control it. Maybe you just make him feel that much better than anyone else he-s been with. He might just be nervous, give him time.
Don-t assume that its never happened before; guys always say that it has never happened before.

No, it doesn-t have anything to do with you. He doesn-t have the control developed to handle the stimulation. There are some exercises and/or cremes he can try. But its all him, its not you.
Don-t worry, this tends to be a psychological issue for the guy, and nothing to do with the girl. In fact, P.E. is often inherited through genes. Does he rush? Tell him to slow down and relax.
There is a coupe of methods you can have him try. Stop and Start Method
Squeeze Methods - You can read about them here.
http://www.bluepillalternative.com/premature_ejaculation.php

It near the bottom of thepage
You-re too good, if anything.
u r to good for him, he can-t contain himself, lol
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