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Sunday, November 27, 2016

How can i avoid premature ejaculation...i come in less than a minute always? -

Two sex therapy techniques, known as the ?squeeze technique? and the ?stop-start technique,? have been used effectively for more than 20 years. These are behavioral methods that help to eliminate bad habits and substitute them with new learning. Typically, the behavioral methods require a series of weekly sessions with a sex therapist for the couple plus some ?homework.? The results of these treatments can be long-lasting.

Sexual therapy
In some cases, sexual therapy may involve simple steps such as masturbating an hour or two before intercourse so that you-re able to delay ejaculation during sex. Your doctor also may recommend avoiding intercourse for a period of time and focusing on other types of sexual play so that pressure is removed from your sexual encounters.

Your doctor may instruct you and your partner in the use of a method called the squeeze technique. This method works as follows:

Step 1. Begin sexual activity as usual, including stimulation of the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejaculate.
Step 2. Have your partner squeeze the end of your penis, at the point where the head (glans) joins the shaft, and maintain the squeeze for several seconds, until the urge to ejaculate passes.
Step 3. After the squeeze is released, wait for about half a minute, then go back to foreplay. You may notice that squeezing the penis causes it to become less erect, but when sexual stimulation is resumed, it soon regains full erection.
Step 4. If you again feel you-re about to ejaculate, have your partner repeat the squeeze process.
By repeating this as many times as necessary, you can reach the point of entering your partner without ejaculating. After a few practice sessions, the feeling of knowing how to delay ejaculation may become a habit that no longer requires the squeeze technique.

First wear a condom, which unless you are in a monogamous relationship with someone you know is healthy and want to have children with you should be doing anyway. It will make prevent you from feeling as much, and as a result you will be stimulated less, you will take longer to reach orgasm, and will last longer.

The second is to do what Adam Collrolla refers to as “taking a bullet out of the chamber.” Masturbate, or Give yourself a bit of that good loving a few hours before you intend to be with your girlfriend, it takes the pressure off, and makes things last longer and makes it more enjoyable for both of you.

If you are talking about something else – you will need to be more specific.

Well, first I would seek a doctor.

Second, you can practice by masturbating and when you start to feel like ejaculating, stop...This will build resistance. Do this three times a day and you will slowly build up time. In no time you will be lasting 30 minutes or more...:)

Good luck!!

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Focus on your wife-s feelings and pleasing her not your own fellings during sex.

i always just keep on going,multiple times,cant you?

Masterbate often and you will take longer to orgasm have your gril masterbate you before you have sex this works well

How can i avoid premature ejaculation...i come in less than a minute always? -

Prior to ejaculation sperm is stored in the ____? -

is it the epididymis, or the ejaculatory ducts?

Sperm in the epididymis.
Semen in the seminal vesicles

epidydimis

Prior to ejaculation sperm is stored in the ____? -

How can i prolong ejaculation? -

The best thing to do is to practice with yourself. Practice starting and stopping and don-t let yourself go all the way. I believe they call this -edging-. Once you get more proficient at this by yourself it will become easier when you are with someone else.

Try masterbating before intercourse. But, don-t let your partner know it. Take a shower first, do it in the shower. If that doesn-t work. You are hopeless.

pinch the tip of your dick

its all mental, try to think of something else whilst you are doing it. if you think too much of what you are doing your emotions will trigger the bit in your mind that makes u *** too quick. it takes time to learn but surely works

Change positions frequently

keep stopping and starting. when you think its coming, stop and give a bit of oral, and so on.........

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you have to workout your PC muscle. trying- to stop while you are urinating is a basic but good exercise.

How can i prolong ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation problems:(? -

im 18 and everytime i have sex its like super short:(ive tried creams and some ork for a whle ...i waas wondering if penis rings or pills for premature ejaculation are more effective...ijm not trying to sound perverted but i wanna satisfy my partner and i get frustrated..ive been having sex for a while now and can not find a solution to my problem i last like wow sometimes not even a minute because i am so aroused before intercourse please help...pills any good?

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What is premature ejaculation? Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems, and is most often described as being an inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. The definition of when ejaculation is premature is subjective. While some men have trouble controlling their orgasm upon entry, others consider 5-10 minutes of copulation too little time. How long a man is able to last is not the important factor in diagnosing premature ejaculation. The crucial issue is if a man is satisfied with the length of coitus. Premature ejaculation is a problem which plagues up to 36 million men!

As with many sexual dysfunctions, different degrees of premature ejaculation exist. Some men are so severely afflicted that they cannot last long enough to penetrate a woman for intercourse. Some men can easily climax in their pants with the slightest mention of possible sex. Again, what is important is that even if a man cannot last five minutes past the point he wants to, he will fall under the diagnosis of a premature ejaculator. It is important to note that you do not have a premature ejaculation problem unless you FREQUENTLY ejaculate before or shortly after beginning intercourse. Therefore, a one-time episode is not reason to panic or seek medical treatment.

There are a great number of misconceptions and myths about premature ejaculation. The following are NOT typically causes of premature ejaculation:

Men are too excited to focus on bodily sensation.
Some men-s first experience with intercourse was in a tense situation where hurrying was beneficial, like in a car, and then learned a bad habit.
Being so concerned about performance they didn-t pay attention to their own sensations.
Guilt about enjoying sex or pleasure of any kind.
Worrying about maintaining erections.
Unresolved relationship issues.
General life stress.

When most males ejaculate they tend to quickly lose a usable erection for the simple reason that their discharge has temporarily released a state of elevated sexual tension. The average male in his twenties takes less than three minutes from the time of insertion till he comes. This cheats him of a lot of fun and satisfaction and doubly cheats the unfortunate female he prematurely has an orgasm into.

The first thing a male must keep in mind is that good sex is unhurried sex. The longer he spends in foreplay prior to his first orgasm, the stronger and more enjoyable that first orgasm will be. The compacting of blood in the sex organs builds slowly, inflating the tissues and sensitizing the millions of nerve endings in and around the genitals. Think of an orgasm like a balloon: the longer you blow air into it, the bigger it gets and the louder the bang when it pops.

Orgasm consists of two stages. One begins when the prostate gland, which encircles the urethra like a tiny donut above the base of the penis, contracts and releases its fluids, along with the contents of the seminal vesicle, into the urethra. To most males this feels like you are going to start a good sneeze, but it-s too late to stop. Stage two is similar to the sneeze itself. The pelvic muscle contracts strongly around the bulb, forcing the fluid out under considerable pressure. Orgasm is what a man feels when all this is happening. He has probably learned for himself that it is possible to ejaculate without having an orgasm, but he may not yet realize that he can also have an orgasm without ejaculating. That-s exactly what you want to learn to do.

How is premature ejaculation caused?
It seems logical that our prehistoric male ancestors were all rapid ejaculators. The Homo erectus who could couple quickly with his mate and rapidly reach ejaculation was then free to deal with enemy tribesman and predatory saber-toothed tigers. The slowpoke got clubbed or eaten. Therefore, only rapid ejaculators survived long enough to sire descendants. Thus, if speed of ejaculation were hereditary, we all should have fast ejaculatory reflexes.

Obviously, the above theory cannot be proven; however, it does contain an element of truth. It is probably -natural- for healthy males to ejaculate quickly. Lasting longer serves no genetic function that we know of.

Lasting is a learned behavior, like learning to dance. It can prolong and intensify pleasure for a man. Also, many women like to experience orgasm - or have been socially conditioned to enjoy orgasm - when the erect penis is inside them. To reach orgasm this way often requires periods of more or less continuous stimulation by the penis.

Most men have experienced this problem at some time in their life. Premature ejaculation was once thought to be caused by drugs or certain infections such as urethritis, but popular wisdom suggests it is more psychological in nature. The exact cause of the condition, however, still remains a mystery. In the early 1990-s, research indicated that the pelvic muscles, specifically the muscles that surround the erectile bodies in the penis, are in a hyperactive state in men with premature ejaculation.
Further, it is known that during the ejaculation process there is increased activity of these same muscle groups. Consequently, it is likely that men who have premature ejaculation have hyperactive muscles that are already on their way toward the threshold to producing ejaculations.

Premature ejaculation often occurs during the first experiences with sex, and in this case is most commonly attributed to anxiety. What horse isn’t nervous the first time out of the gate? The majority of men gradually learn to control their orgasm, and have no lasting effect. However, some men will develop a longer-term anxiety toward sex, which can cause a prolonged experience with premature ejaculation.

Sexual behavior is also a factor. The longer the period since last ejaculating, the quicker young men typically reach orgasm. Younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older men, as experience seems to be associated with ejaculatory control.

Some sex therapists feel that whether a man has been circumcised or not makes a difference. The feeling being that those who have not been circumcised might “***” a bit quicker, while others totally disagree. Men can learn how to prolong their climax whether or not he is circumcised.

So if this is a problem for you, now what? Well, the first advice I can offer is to seek help. This is not like asking for directions. =) You could keep circling the block looking for the final destination, but why not tackle the problem as soon as possible?? As with many problems, there are variances in solving them. So what might work for Bob, might not work for Dick or Harry.

Methods for Helping
The Masters and Johnson Method: The best way to fighting premature ejaculation is learning how to identify and control the sensations leading up to orgasm. The Masters and Johnson method does just that. The Masters and Johnson method requires a great deal of patience and practice, but is very effective. Follow the steps below.

You may want to start with masturbation. Begin by bringing yourself to a point relatively close to climax, and stop, allowing yourself to relax before starting again. Each time you do this; bring yourself closer and closer to orgasm until you cannot control it any longer. You may want to practice with the aid of a lubricant. Repeating this procedure a number of times on different occasions will help you learn where your point of climax is. Once you have an idea about your -point of no return- you should be able to direct stimulation from your partner leading up to orgasm. The best way to practice this method is with a caring lover, although you can try to prepare by yourself. With your partner, engage in non-coital stimulation (like masturbation or oral sex) and gradually allow yourself to reach that point just before ejaculation. At that point, signal your partner to stop (often this is done with a light squeeze or sound) and allow yourself to partially lose your erection. Repeat these steps several times to get the hang of it. You should practice these steps for several days before you attempt intercourse. Once you are ready to try intercourse, lie on your back, and direct your partner to slowly allow you to penetrate. As soon as you feel that you are about to climax, signal to your partner or give a gentle push upward. Relax for a bit, and then begin again. You should soon be able to control your ejaculation and enjoy having sex.

Both partners must sit down and outline a careful plan that requires dedication, patience and commitment. It necessarily begins by prohibiting intercourse for an extended period of time -- at least a week, often a month. This is very important to the man because -performance anxiety- is the greatest enemy of performance. If he knows he cannot have intercourse he is able to relax and focus on the exercises. The first stage is called -sensate focus- and involves his concentration on the process of sexual arousal and climax. He should learn to recognize each step in the process, most particularly the moment just before the -point of no return.- Ideally, this stage of treatment requires the man-s partner to be devoted to his sensations. In order to regain equality, he should in turn spend separate time stimulating and pleasing his mate, without intercourse.

Although the method is extremely effective, it could take weeks before you get it just right. Remember, be patient, and try not to put too much pressure on the situation. If you do not get it the first time, shrug it off and remember that you are working towards something that takes time. If you still have trouble, do not hesitate to contact a sex therapist for guidance.

2. The Squeeze Technique: The squeeze technique is really just a variation of the Masters and Johnson method, except that the assisting partner squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of climax to essentially cancel the orgasm. The -squeeze- forces blood out of the penis and reduces the erection. You may want to use the squeeze technique if the Masters and Johnson method alone is not working. This technique progresses from manual stimulation to motionless intercourse to intercourse with both moving. Masters and Johnson reported that 98 percent of couples who learned and used these techniques had success treating premature ejaculation.

3. Stop Start Method: Stop-start involves the partner stimulating the man-s penis, except that when the man instructs, the partner stops stimulating the man-s penis before ejaculation becomes inevitable. Then as he feels he regains control, he instructs the partner to begin stimulating his penis again. This procedure is repeated three times before allowing the man to ejaculate on the fourth time. The couple repeats this exercise three times a week, until the man has good control, then they progress to stop-start with lubrication, and then intercourse with the woman on top and the man not moving. He again instructs her to stop moving when he senses he is losing control. The couple progresses over subsequent times to the having the man move, then side-by-side intercourse. Instead of stopping and starting, the couple may progress to merely slowing down to enable the man to regain control of his urge to ejaculate. The therapists counseling patients using this stop-start technique report a 90 percent success rate in delaying ejaculation.

4. Other Techniques include the following:
Desensitizing creams are products which purport to lessen the sensations felt by men during intercourse so that they can last longer. The limitation that many men feel these creams have is that they make intercourse less pleasurable by decreasing stimulation. Many of these creams are found on condoms. Unfortunately, sometimes these creams may also numb the partner, thus decreasing the partner-s sensation.
Masturbation is a technique used by many young men to increase their level of control. It is thought that masturbation before sexual activity will lessen the amount of desire a man feels thereby increasing control. This technique is not very effective, however, as level of arousal is only part of what contributes to the condition.

Condoms are an effective means of reducing the amount of stimulation experienced during sex. Some men find that a condom helps them prevent premature ejaculation by lowering their arousal. If one condom does not decrease the stimulation enough, then put on one more. Condoms provide excellent protection against STDs and pregnancy, so they are certainly worth a try.
Sexual positions can affect a man-s ability to control his ejaculation. The typical -missionary- position (on top of your partner) is not the best position while attempting to control ejaculation. Try lying on your back, allowing the partner to control copulation. In this position, you are more relaxed, and can guide your partner easily. Some men report side-lying positions work best for them.

Ensuring you have strong, well developed pelvic muscles will allow you better control and make you more aware of what is happening in your nether regions . Pelvic floor muscles are the ones used to stop and start urination. Hold the muscles for three seconds, relax for three seconds, and repeat ten times. You can do this at anytime and in any place. Eventually, you should be able to work your way up to 100 ten-second contractions per day. More on the “male kegels” can be found HERE.
Self-injection therapy is often used as the core treatment in premature ejaculation, and may be used together with sexual counseling. This therapy ensures a prolonged erection, regardless of whether the man ejaculates or not, thus providing a sense of control. Sexual tension diminishes, as the pressure to perform is no longer -in the way.- Men develop improved self-esteem and confidence, allowing full attention to penile sensation, which is essential in controlling ejaculation. As the man develops control of his body, dependence on medication is reduced and eventually eliminated. For some men it may take a few weeks, and for others it may take a few months.

Biofeedback treatment enables a man to become aware of the muscles that control ejaculation and relax them. Monitoring and the use of a rectal plug-like device are used. While men were able to delay ejaculation with this technique, male patients were reluctant to stimulate themselves with something in the rectum. No surprise.

Counseling: Although premature ejaculation is a common and frustrating problem, counseling has proved to be a great success in treating the problem. Frequently, marital and relationship issues may be an underlying cause of premature ejaculation. These issues should also be addressed to improve the success of the therapy.

Drug Therapy: Recently there have been reports in the urology literature of successful treatment of premature ejaculation through the use of low dose antidepressants including Anafronil, Prozac, and Zoloft.

One of the known side effects of these medications when used for depression is significantly delayed ejaculation. In the studies, extremely low doses of the antidepressant medication have prolonged ejaculation by at least 5-10 minutes with very few side effects.

Currently these medications are the most popular treatment alternative selected by our patients. The medication is given approximately four hours before intercourse and will result in a significant delay of ejaculation.

Few patients have described any side effects with this treatment. On certain occasions, the medication is given on a daily basis. It should be pointed out that these medications have not approved by the FDA for treatment of premature ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is a common problem, so you are not alone out there. Learning to exercise control is not easy, or the world would be filled with skinny nonsmokers. =) If this problem has been going on for some time, it is going to take some effort on your part to reverse the problem. However, many men are truly successful in reversing the problem! Premature ejaculation can be easily countered with patience, effort, and knowledge. Informing yourself is the first step, and once you know about the problem, you are halfway there. Overcoming the mental and physical aspects of this problems are also much easier if both partners are involved, aware of the situation and open to discuss it. Good luck!

I came across this blog on premature ejaculation control:

http://mens-health-blog.blogspot.com/

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Wear a rubber. That will make it last longer.
Pull it a couple hours before you know you are
going to get lucky. That should make it last longer too.

They have some gels or condoms with a numbing agent in them to help the man contain himself longer. Try going to lifestyles website, or try your local pharmacy. Also lots and lots of foreplay and rubbing, teasing...so your body can kinda train itself. During sex, try pulling out and trying several different positions to maintain your erection longer.

Too much to write........read this, it may help!

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/60/…

tantra

Practace masturbating, by doing the stop and go method

men always seemt o forget that you have other tactics to pleasing a partner. Some tips are oral stimulation, learn to use your hands well too, mot girls cant orgasm from justinitial sex. They have condoms that are meant to make you last longer because the feeling is numbed a little. Or, if you try to masturbate earlier in the day, you may be calmer and more collective later on.

Maybe you will get satisfaction if you wait for an orgasm.

Unfortunately, I can-t give you a solution. Alcohol works for me, but you are under age. I think many guys have this problem. Stay away from pills. Use a prophylactic, this will reduce sensativity, as well as protect the both of you.

Premature ejaculation problems:(? -

Ok.. for that pre ejaculation question? -

i jus got my period not too long ago..should i wait to take a pregnancy test

Well if you had it before you had sex you should wait until you actually miss your next period!

Ok.. for that pre ejaculation question? -

Saturday, November 26, 2016

Are there any foods or perscriptions that stop or delay ejaculation? -

I had success w/ the condoms that say extended pleasure.... they have a numbing agent in them that makes you less sensitive along w/ the obvious partial lack of sensation due to condoms. Age and practice also contibute to longer intercourse sessions. As well as having intercourse as the second ejaculation (test run before sex.) If a male is 18-25, he may just be too sensitive to try to last for longer than a minute or two without these.

I believe the anticipation (mental anticipation) leads to -premature ejaculation- which at a younger age is hard to overcome.

Yes. Wedding cake.

Are there any foods or perscriptions that stop or delay ejaculation? -

Is quick ejaculation good? -

is quick ejaculation good and if not what can i do ,, cause i release before 10minute in intercourse and my penis dropped without any erection ,,,,pls what can i do

Don-t give yourself a complex, if your worried about pleasing your partner. Here-s news for you females often prefer petting, caressing, or oral stimulation to penatration. Take you time and explore your partner, have fun with each other. Rabbit sex is for middle school kids that think hey may get caught. If all you can give is 7min then make it the best 7min that she-s ever experienced, then finish by..... partner communication is th key ! G-luck

Try watching porn all day without touching yourself!

When you feel you-re about to climax, trying stopping for a second and tightening your kegel muscles. Those muscles are the same ones you use to stop peeing midstream. Hopefully the ejaculation will pass and you can continue for longer.

If you know you-re going to have sex, masturbate about an hour before. It-ll give you more staying power and it will prevent early ejaculation.

practice makes perfect

Is quick ejaculation good? -

Semen gets stuck during ejaculation? -

When I reach orgasm, and I begin to ejaculate, some semen comes out, but much more than I believe would be considered normal gets stuck. I feel the orgasm, and can feel the muscles contracting to release the semen, but not much semen comes out, and then afterwards I squeeze my penis in an upward direction and a large amount of semen was -stuck- and comes out. I don-t believe I used to have this problem; it came on all at once (during a wetdream, oddly). Any idea what this is? Or how I could treat it? Thanks!!
PS, I-m a 19 year old uncircumsized male. And while I-ve been told on Yahoo!Answers this could be normal, I believe it is more than a normal amount getting stuck. Again, thank you for any input!

Maybe your urethra or the orifice of penis(or Meatus) is too small, to be more secure visit a urologist - and drink more water.

I think its normal. you could expect after orgasm, some amount of semen is still there. you can just have a second orgasm to spill them out completely. Im doing it.

its normal, of course some semen its going to get stuck on the urethra, but when your blood preasure goes to normal stage it kinda comes out....

Maybe it is too thick and you are not getting enough pressure from the contractions. I would think if you are not feeling pain, then you are fine. It may just be too thick and too much surface friction in your urethra for it all to come out.

May want to see a doctor and get a professional opinion. I would think a urologist would know what to do.

oh my god! your dick is uncircumcised? we, in the philippines, circumcise every male. you know, feels great in sex!

I have not been circumcised either. I have never had that problem.

Where is it getting -stuck- at? In your foreskin? The only place I can think of is if you do reach orgasam, and you have your foreskin pulled over the head and held it there, trapping all of the semen. Trick is to make sure your foreskin is pulled back.

Semen gets stuck during ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation solution ? -

I am a 26 year old male and I have a problem of super pre mature ejaculation, it sometimes happens in the less than a minute. Is there a solution to this problem ?

Some herbs and homeopathic medicines can help you permanently, read article about the herbs or homeopathic mother tinctures like, Muira puama, Damina, Lycopodium, China, Ginseng, yohibinium, Phosphoric acid, Gelsimum, Avena sativa..Think what you have to use or try a herbalist or homeo doctor

Have you tried to -clear the pipes- before you have sex?

It-s usually due to anxiety. Or if you are new to sexual activities it could be just the anxiety of -performing well.- You should just try and take it easy and not worry about it.

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Thursday, November 24, 2016

Premature ejaculation!! ????? HELP? -

OK. so my friends are having a problem. She wants to get off and he cant stop his premature ejaculation prob.... what can they do to fix this???/ GOOD ADVICE PLEASE..... hE WILL NOT TAKE PILLS.

The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.

http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…

There are also nasal sprays that claim to help with this problem.

However, a good way to improve the situation is through a change in technique.

Your gf should try to get her bf to slow down, and not get over-excited so early. He needs to be excited enough to be able to perform, but not so excited that he finishes the show just after the curtain goes up!

If the girl is on top, she can control the rhythm and timing better, moving more slowly and deliberately.

The guy has the incentive to get in and out quickly - it-s an animal instinct - so let the girl slow that down, making sure that the movement lasts until she is ready to finish.

It-s more natural than pills or sprays and more fun too.

Dear In severe cases of PE where anxiety level is high NO SELF HELP method works. In these cases only those treatment works which gives the patient a sure shot time framed result picture so that patient can work towards it. As in PE patient there is a lack of patinece so he mostly discontinue any adopted measure to self treat PE. At this point of time he definately needs medical advice to treat his PE so that he can work under the guidence and supervission

Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com

Tell them not to worry, there are tried and guaranteed ways to stop PE.
I don-t have enough space to write detailed answers here, but tell them to visit
http://PrematureEjaculationsHelp.com

have him masturbate right before sex, wait 15 minutes, then have sex. he will last longer

kama sutra

Premature ejaculation!! ????? HELP? -

Wednesday, November 23, 2016

What is premature ejaculation? -

its when you ejaculate before you want to or are ready

It-s when the gun goes off before you pulled the trigger!
You were hoping for a long ride but you shot your wad too soon.

What is premature ejaculation? -

Depressive Episode after Ejaculation? -

Anyone else feel like this? Before and up to the ejaculation its all happy and great and then right afterwards you feel like complete sh*t?
Like suddenly depressed/suicidal and suddenly all the bad things in your life pop into your mind?

For most of us the refractory period (the period you indicate) is one of peace and satisfaction. For it to be the negative that you are describing, I-m fairly certain indicates that you have been brainwashed to hate/oppose sex or to hate your own organ. Some extremist religions that have anti-sexual or anti-pleasure agendas have such effects on people they interact with as children. So do some adults who berate children for touching their penises, and related unhealthy things. I-m not sure exactly what is causing your particular reaction, but I strongly suggest a sex therapist, or psychologist, probably the latter.

You are wonderful just as you are, and you can be well!!!

Kindest thoughts,

Hermes

Most people feel a relaxed, warm glow after orgasm. Perhaps you have some repressed guilt about masturbating, or you have some mild depression that strikes when your mind isn-t occupied with something. I urge you to contact a psychological counselor to uncover the source of this problem. Seeing such a person does not mean you-re crazy, it means you-re getting some expert assistance with looking inside yourself.

It could be something as simple as a chemical imbalance. When you have an orgasm, all sorts of hormones and endorphins are being released in your brain, it could be that the receptors in your brain are not picking up these chemical -messages- correctly. Visit your doctor and discuss this with him, he can help!

That-s not a normal response but may indicate underlying feelings of guilt, shame, and other problems. Do yourself a favor and see a psychologist or a psychiatrist to sort this out.

seek therypy NOW!

yeah once or twice but never felt suicidal just wanted a girlfriend the solution get laid worked for me

See a pshyciatrist.

you obviously have background issues... you need to see a psychologist... I am not kidding you should get help...

Depressive Episode after Ejaculation? -

Friday, November 18, 2016

Question about Ejaculation? -

My ex-s ejaculation was really acidic (like burnt my hand a lil bit whenever i touched it) and it was really really gritty. I thought it was normal (hey.. i-m a girl i don-t know these things) until i recently hooked up with a guy who has normal ejaculation that isn-t acidic and gritty. What does acidic,gritty ejaculation mean?

It-s all about diet.What they eat makes what they send out.Alot of spices can make acidic sperm. as far as the grit thats a new one I cant explain that at all.

Hi,
You can stop premature ejaculation by natural exercise easily , read , Christian Gudnasons- book, The Ejaculation Master book,
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, this guy grantees you ways that will help you have much longer sex , its just basically a few professional exercises that strengthen you ejaculation system in a few days
Hope this helps

Has a lot to do with diet and water intake.

It means that you made the right decision to leave your ex and move on to a normal guy.

~I-ve never heard of this, nor have I ever come across it before. Maybe he has a STD?~

normally ejaculate is more of alkaline than acidic. acidity might be related to many things, such as Infection any where in the tract, mixing urine due to deficient valve, trauma in the testicles... infection in the semen... sometimes high acidity might also be joined with high viscosity

Not enough fruits, water, vegetables. Prolly ate too much junk food.

Question about Ejaculation? -

After ejaculation.....? -

after u ejaculate can u carry on wit ur intercourse???

yea, but youll just go a little weak there, then not, then take a long *** time to orgasm again, which will then be slightly less pleasurable to a first one.

If you-re up for it, give it a shot.

sure, if you want, what will stop you.

Yeah you can. Just depends on the person really.
As for me and my gf.. I *** 2-3 times during intercourse, and still continue. But thats just me.
*prolly 30-1h between ejaculations*

Its just really depends on how you feel.

Personally I can and the girls love it. Most guys need time to recover, usually about an hour. After ejaculation some guys get really soft, whereas some of us still stay hard.

If your thing is not limpy, why not?

It depends on the man. Every guy is different.

After ejaculation.....? -

Premature Ejaculation in teen? -

Hey I-m 13 years old and when i jack off, i *** way too fast, I-m worried this will affect me later in life. I want to last longer and when i jack off it only takes about 1-3 minutes. Is this normal for kids? My penis is about 5 inches erect. Please help?!

Jacking off is completely different from sex, speaking from personal expereince I often jack off quickly but sex can last as long as I want it to. Its perfectly normal...well if it isnt then there is two of us at least

It is suggested that this can be a problem; that you -train- yourself to come quickly, and then it does the same in intercourse.

Bear in mind that in Real Life, three minutes is the average time to ejaculation in intercourse anyway.

The thing is, when you masturbate, you really have total control - no-one is compelling you at any stage to keep stroking, or indeed to keep stroking fast. Generally when you masturbate, you stroke quite fast - much faster than you would be able to thrust in intercourse, so in fact it is not entirely uncommon for guys to have difficulty coming in intercourse because they only -get off- with the faster stroking.

So it can work either way because of course, intercourse is way more exciting than (solo) masturbation so that may cause you to ejaculate quickly, even when you are not doing much (this is of course, -premature ejaculation-).

So there is really *no* reason you cannot slow down when masturbating. And if you slow down, you will not feel your arm so tired, so you will not need to feel you need to hurry in order to get off before your arm becomes too tired!

And then there is -edging- - playing the game where you stop stroking when you feel you are going to come, then start up slower when that feeling fades, then go back to full stroking until you feel it again and repeat.

Normal size.

i know what you mean

Premature Ejaculation in teen? -

Bad effects of stoping ejaculation? -

Sometimes when i masturbate and
i-m near to climax i stop to prevent ejaculation. Is there any bad effects? Do some men do it? Why?

Some men to it to learn how to control both orgasm and ejaculation. Now, do you pull short of orgasmic inevitability or do you physically suppress it?

The technique Dylan is referring to is ok so long as you do actually masturbate to complete ejaculation at the end of your session. Otherwise, if you do not ejaculate at all, you may cause complications with build up of seminal fluids that are partially discharged.

You do need to remember that masturbation is designed to culminate in ejaculation. Ejaculation gets rid of surplus seminal fluids (including sperm) and helps prevent testicular cancer and prostate cancer. If you do not let the ejaculation happen it can ultimately affect your health.

Masturbation is a good and healthy activity practiced by at least 95% of the males on earth. It is good for your physical and mental wellbeing. It relieves stress and frustration and will help you to concentrate on other aspects of your life.

Most men masturbate 2 or 3 times every day and many do it much more than that. It is not detrimental to your health or lifestyle. It will not cause negative side effects.

Alot of men do this to reach a greater orgasm.
When u feel like u are going to ejaculate, stop
and then resume a little after that it will intensify the
orgasm and feel much greater if more time is spent
on it.

no bad effects
it-s a good way to practice control

you could get BLUE BALLS it hurts makes your stomach hurt

it can cause vein damaga ..and u dont want that in ur special area ..do u

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Thursday, November 17, 2016

If a guy has epilepsy will that keep him fro ejaculation? -

Epilepsy in and of itself should not prevent a man from ejaculating.

However, the medications that are used to control epilepsy may cause side effects such as ED.

Depakote ER caused problems for me and my wife until the dosage was trimmed back a bit. I am still seizure free and have had no problems since.

No, this has no effects on it...........

According to the information I located on the link I-ve listed below there are a number of antiseizure drugs which may cause ED in some men who are taking them. Rather than listing all of them here I suggest that you go to the website below and look up the drug you are curious about. Of course always listen first and foremost to your doctor-s advice.

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Tuesday, November 15, 2016

Ejaculation? -

I-m 13 (male) and when I masturbate I only ejacualte something like a teaspoon full of sperm. Is this normal?

* The average age a man starts producing sperm is 12 1/2
* Actual amount of semen per ejaculation: 1 to 2 Tsp full
* Number of calories per Tsp of semen: 7
* Percent of ejaculate made up of sperm: 5 %
* Average number of sperm per ejaculation: 100 million
* Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime 7,200
* Average number of times he will ejaculate from masterbation: 2,000
* Average total amount of lifetime ejaculate: Approximately 14 gallons
* Average speed of ejaculation: 28 mph
* Average length from base of pelvis to tip of penis flaccid:
3.5 inches
* Average length when erect: 5.1 inches
* Average girth measured at the base of the shaft when
flaccid: 3.9 inches
* Average girth when erect: 4.9 inches
* Smallest natural (functional) penis recorded on a man : 5/8 inch
* Largest natural (functional) penis recorded on a man: 11 inches
* Largest penis in the Animal Kindom belongs to the Blue Whale: 11 Feet
* With penile enlargement surgery, average gain in size
when flaccid: 3 inches
* Average gain when erect: 1 inch
* Cost of enlargement surgery: Between $6,000 and $20,000
* Percent of U.S. men who are circumsized: 60
* Amount of blood in a flaccid penis: 1/3 oz
* Amount of blood in penis when erect: 3 oz
* Other organs that can increase their capacity by as much: None
* Number of penile implants currently in use in the U.S. :
About 22,500
* Number of women who have breast implants in the U.S. : About 1.5 million
* Percent of men that say they climax too early: 30
* Most arousing time of day for a man: Early morning
hormone levels peak)
* Most arousing season for a man: Fall (hormone levels
peak)
* Percent of men who say that there has ever been a
moment in their lives when they weren-t interested in sex:
13
* Best ways to improve sexual function: quit smoking, start exercising, lose weight
* Foods that are believed to be aphrodisiacs: Oysters, lean meats, seafood, whole grains, wheat germ
* Average age at which a man has his first sexual
experience: 17
* Percent of men that have been with more than 20 sex
partners since the age of 18: 17
* Percent of women with the same: 3
* Percent of men who say they masterbate: 60
* Percent of men that say they masterbate at least once a day: 54
* Percent of men that say they feel guilty from masterbating that often: 41
* Amount of time needed for a man to regain erection after orgasm: from 2 minutes to 2 weeks
* Average number of erections per day for a man: 11
* Average number of erections that occur while he is
sleeping: 9
* Distance sperm travels to fertilize an egg: 3 to 4 inches
* Time it takes sperm to fertilize an egg: 2.5 seconds
* Sperm life: 2 1/2 months (from development to ejaculation)
* Number of men who have vasectomies each year : 500,000
* Cost of a vasectomey: About $750.00
* Percent reimbursed by insurance: Nearly 100%
* Average cost of a reversal: $8,500
* Percent of cost of reversals covered by insurance: 0
* Cost for a year-s supply of condoms for the average
sexually active man: About $100.00
* Percent of women involved in the purchase decision of
condoms: 60
* Thickness of the average condom: .07mm
* Thickness of super-thin condoms: .05mm
* Content of Semen: Ascorbic acid, blood-group antigens, calcium, cholesterol, chotine, citric acid, creatine, DNA, fructose glutathione, hyaluronidase, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, purine, pyrimidine, pyruvic acid, sodium, sorbitol, spermadine, spermine, urea, uric acid, vitamin B 12 and Zinc

Absolutely Normal, that is a healthy amount, sometimes it may less or more.
You are just fine! Don-t worry
You may want to look at this site for more understanding of yourself.
www.jackinworld.com

It-s perfectly normal at your age, but if you really want more sperm to produce in in your testicles you should stop masturbating for a few days

Ejaculating any amount would be normal for a 13yo. As you go through puberty that might increase.

yeah its 100% normal. its normall 1 -2 tsp

Normal

a teaspoon is pretty much the average for any guy.

normal

Normal. That is why it-s called a -loving spoonful.-

It sounds okay. A full grown male ejacs a tablespoon.

yea i would u r normal for ur age

hope this helped u/email me i u have any other questions

Ejaculation? -

Is Ejaculation dangerous and what harm can it do to me? -

???

NO! :D

Well if you step in it on the bathroom floor you could slip and fall but that is about it.

Really, if was dangerous all men would walk around injured most of the time. The biological reason for ejaculation is reproduction of the species, not for the decimation of the males.

NO masterbatin feels so nice when u touch urself

No and maybe you will feel good while it-s happening

hey bud !

- no it ain-t dangerous - no harm will happen 2 U if U do.

nope

Um, no not dangerous at all. You do know what sex is, don-t you?

OMG LOL!

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Monday, November 14, 2016

Does too much masturbation(years) cause premeture ejaculation?and how can i know i have premeture ejaculation? -

how can i know i have p. e. ?

~No, getting too excited causes PE. You-ll know if you ejaculate too soon when having intercourse. A real woman, that-s what you need now.~

It can cause PE if you make a habit of hurrying up to get done. It is the hurry factor, not the masturbation itself that can cause this problem.

It is also a method of preventing PE... Some people have PE because they are overly sensitive, masturbation decreases your sensitivity, so it extends the average time of intercourse, if you use it that way.

At 20 men ejaculate in an average of 5 minutes after beginning active thrusting.

at 30 it is 12 min

no,

There is never too much masturbation. Every person is different, it all depends on you. You know that you have premature ejaculation if you ejaculate in less than 30 seconds (from start to finish) and it takes less than 7 strokes (up and down count as 1). Hope it helps.

Re-read Gina-s answer, she is right on. She obviously is knowledgeable about male masturbation. You won-t know you have PE until you disappoint some one.

I don-t think it does.

you wont know till you have sex with a woman

Does too much masturbation(years) cause premeture ejaculation?and how can i know i have premeture ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation or pre ***!? -

hello everyone, please only answer if you are serious in helping someone. don-t wast your and my time for juct getting points.

Q) does anyone know a authentic medicine or any other solution for premature ejaculation?

Q) my penis doesn-t get very hard as its used to get a couple of years back. i am 30 yrs old now!

any yea, i have no STDs or any other diseases. i am all clean!
Thanks in advance for your helping answers

Being 30 will slow you down in that area.. As far as medications helping with the pre-ej. , I have never heard of any .. however, they do sell both condoms and / or a lubrication that you place around the edge of the penis head that dulls the feelings for a while . so you can go longer. There are also other techniques that couples use to help with this problem. If you squeeze the rim of the head for about 20 seconds or so .. before intercourse .. that is also known to help. Also, don-t focus on the sex itself .. then you just worry and add to the problem.. make it an -over-all- experience of just enjoying each others bodies and presence with each other. Good Luck ! :)

what is happening is that you are working yourself up, try less foreplay, and maybe the problem of not staying hard is that when having sex it is getting old, i mean the way you are having sex, try new positions, ways experiment with toys or one even better have your girlfriend or wife be aggressive let the ladie in your life show you some new things, this worked for me...alan

relax

As for the medicine, I don-t know of any, but a glass of wine helps. A beer helps too but then you have beer breath. Alchohol hinders the release of the chemical in you body that causes/triggers ejaculation.

As for the other...I think it-s just age. Maybe try more foreplay and get really wound up.

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Sunday, November 13, 2016

How can you stop premature ejaculation? -

The most common cause for premature ejaculation is increased sexual excitement/arousal and/or increased sensations of the glans penis. Less frequent causes are infection in the prostate/urethra or presenting symptom of diabetes. Most people benefit by taking a tablet of Paroxetine (20 mg.), four hours prior to the anticipated sexual intercourse. Often, application of local anaesthetic on the glans penis like Xylocaine (5%), just five minutes prior to the penetration can help delay the climax. However, care should be taken that one needs to wash the glans penis with soap and water, prior to penetration to avoid the numbness of vagina in your partner.

Enjoy Life

Dr.Mojo

Last-Longer is the only male sexual performance formula that, not only stops premature ejaculation, but actually -cures- it
To learn ejaculatory control:

* Don-t use drugs or alcohol. They-re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the -relaxation- involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It-s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn-t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
* Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you-re ready for the couples program -- if you-re in a couple. The couple approach is called the -Stop-Start Technique.- First, arrange -stop- and -start- signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the -stop- signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you-re feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the -start- signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He-s the one learning the new skill. But don-t forget the woman-s sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

Once you-ve gained good ejaculatory control with your lover-s hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

Once you-ve gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You-re making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

Here are some other suggestions for lasting longer:

* The man-on-top (missionary) position can be fun, but it-s harder for most men to control their ejaculatory timing, because they have to hold themselves up. Try making love with the woman on top. This position is more relaxing for men, and it often helps ejaculatory control.
* Make some noise. Love moans help men (and women) relax, and they often help men last longer.
* It-s important to understand that learning ejaculatory control takes time and practice. You may feel a little awkward along the way. Try to maintain a sense of humor about any accidental spills.
* Some penile skin creams advertise that they help a man last longer. These products contain topical anesthetics that dull sensation in the penis. If you like to play with penile sensation, there-s no harm in using them. But they-re not a good idea for learning to last longer. They dull sensation. But the key to lasting longer is for the man to become more familiar with what he feels so he can back off from his point of no return while still remaining highly aroused.

blow it before you go for it!

How can you stop premature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation or pre ***!? -

relax

Premature ejaculation or pre ***!? -

Where to go and which doctor in delhi for premature ejaculation problem? -

Request anyone to advise , where in Delhi can i find an expert doctor for the above mentioned problem and if anybody you know has been cured .

Well Amit Urologist is the best option,but i can also suggest u to do some excercises that is (1)when u go pee dont do it at once do it in few sessions pee stop pee stop pee stop and then finish.
(2)and when having sex when u r at the climax stop and then think of something else divert ur mind on something else.
(3)if u masterbate u can do the same thing when u r about to come stop masterbating and after few minutes do it and continue the process try this for few times it may help a alot.try not to *** when masterbating atleast for 5 to 7 sessions.
pee excercise and masterbation excercise helps u.
it helped me a lot.have more questions u can contact me @ desinyc26@yahoo.com

Your urologist.

Where to go and which doctor in delhi for premature ejaculation problem? -

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

I have pre mature ejaculation my sperm is kinda clear and does not have the white coloring? -

can someone tell me why

The color and how watery it is will change from ejaculation to ejaculation.

Becuase that-s just the way it is. I dont know the scientific reason, but I know it happens and thats how is looks.

idk y
dont worry atleast ur still livin

It doesn-t sound like anything to worry about. The color of your sperm depends on what your drink and how much you drink. There have been many times my sperm has been clear and other times it has not been as clear. That is normal.

the clear fluid is pre-ejaculatory from the cowper-s glands...it cleans and lubricates the urinary tract just proir to ejaculation...semen should be slightly milky and its color does not depend on what you eat....

it your precum, not really premature ejaculation
how old are you?

.....okay

I have pre mature ejaculation my sperm is kinda clear and does not have the white coloring? -

Pain between legs , testicles and anus after ejaculation/Masturbation... Please answer plz? -

I am 20 years old , and its been around 2 years that I feel pain between my legs and testicles after masturbation, (not during it, usually after half an hour), and recently after ejaculation i have been experiencing all these pain plus a pain in anus which started to swell a lot and just after one week of using some tablets it tended to finish , but yesterday after 2 times ejaculation again i felt all these pain and after hours i saw swelling in my anus area again,
I cant understand what is the problem?? many says it relates to prostate, but i don wanna disclose it with a doctor except my swelling in my anus which i did,.............. and is it normal for this age?
please answer my question

mmmm sounds like prostate territory right there...

i know you-re embarrassed but honestly doctors see genitals all the time, surely its worth it to give yourself peice of mind and a possible relief from the pain? especially if it is something serious you want to get it sorted out as quickly as possible

hi
bcz u do so many times masturbation
this is varicose that mean u have varicose vein in ur testicles mostly lt side
u have to stop do that if u cant u have to do it with cream and not to closed ur hand tightly around ur penis
and if u feel pain set down in cold water
but u have to do an operation to remove that
good luck

This could be prostate cancer, the swelling could be irratation to a tumour, you need to see a doctor immediately, a prostate exam is 100% required, if your embarassed, simply state you were having sex, same deal, if it involves further investigation come clean

Gerbil Gerbil Gerbil! Get it out quick before it gnaws its way out!!!! A.S.A.P!

(yes, I said A.S.A.P!!!!)

(Stop reading this! Im serious!)

You really need to seek a sexual health specialist.

This could be due to something harmless, or it could be something very bad.

Please see a doctor.

please see a doctor that is not normal, good luck.

see a doctor.

a times it happens but if it persists go dont ask here we all r quacks go seek medical help

Pain between legs , testicles and anus after ejaculation/Masturbation... Please answer plz? -

early ejaculation caused by boobs? -

i ejaculate as my woman removes her bra. how do i stop that?

Dear it appears that you have severe PE so when you get a sexual impulse you are bound to ejaculate. This happens when your control over the ejaculatory process is weak. So its a misunderstanding that you are ejaculated by vision on breasts its simply that you are not able to handle sexual impulse.
For treatment of such cases we prescribe series of counselling session which lower down their hypersensitivity and teach them Screw technique massage. By daily practice of Screw Technique person is able to locate his orgasmic point and is able to hold his ejaculation by his will. In fact we generally get nearly 200% of improvements right in the first week of the start of practice. If the case is severe then a short course of specific medicines is prescribed

Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com

early ejaculation caused by boobs? -

How can i overcome from quick ejaculation? -

I am facing this problem of early ejaculation when doing sex

While you are laying the pipe, keep thinking -Dead puppies, dead puppies, naked grandma, naked grandma-. That will take your mind off of the ol- hair trigger

Thinking of something other that sex works for some people, also try changing rhythm or speed. Adjust your position slightly so that it rubs a different spot may also help. Stopping for a few moments will help or changing positions completely but if you have to do this often it could cause problems with your partner. There are some over the counter medication that claim to help. But desynthesizing agents that you apply to yourself could cause your partner to also become numb.

By taking things a bit slower you do not come that quick.
And try the start and stop technique,When you feel you come stop and wait a bit then go on again You can last way longer that way
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How can i overcome from quick ejaculation? -

Guys, can u hold ur ejaculation long enough? -

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easily erect, can-t hold it long at all, really embarrassed, 16 years old, worried about a future with this problem, what can i do to stop it now or information that will help??

Take a couple of Vicadins before blowing your load.

I would suggest trying Fleshlight-s Stamina Training Unit. It helped me in the past:

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i can say you are highly hormonal... your hormones as a teen are raging... just practice self-control...

Dude, it-s all self-control.

If you were crossing a street, and saw an oncoming car, would you continue crossing?

You must teach yourself to hold on to your erection for long periods of time.

I suggest you talk with you doctor. I-ve heard that there is something that can be done about it but I do not know what the treatment is. I empathize with you.

Dear Kicks44,
What is your mother-s e-mail address? You shouldn-t be asking questions like this.
Go to your room and study to get straight A-s so you can get a scholarship, then worry about your wee-wee.
Give me break!
The Dinosaur Lady

Sounds like you need to practice the -Edging Technique-......this is done by jerking it to almost climax and then stopping and leaving it go back down somewhat and then doing it again over and over again without c umming.............then when you can-t stand it any longer blow your load and do this over and over again and this will strengthen your penis and you will be able to control your erection longer......and oh the pleasure that this creates............

Good Luck and Have Fun.........

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Im 16. I think I suffer from premature ejaculation yet have full control over my PC muscles. What do i do? -

I have a steady girlfriend and we have sex semi-regularly, always using a condom. I know my PC muscles, use Kegels to strengthen them, and can recognize the sensation of an orgasm, which I then halt using the stop-start method. However, most of the time it takes only a minute or two before I need to use the stop-start method, which doesn-t make for very good sex. Can anyone help me last longer by being less sensitive so that I don-t have to stop as often or as soon? Thanks

You can buy condoms that have a sort of numbing affect, which thus decreases sensitivity

I assume you can buy them from pharmacies etc

Btw it-s normal at your age to come early, it-s just how it is coz of hormones etc
Least you have control over it :)

Practising kegels is one thing. Having full control is yet another, altogether. Sorry but keep practising; you don-t have full control by any means.

masturbate like hell before having sex. 7 times during the day should help out. you wont have any semen to ***.

one thing that i do that helps me go longer is to masturbate 5-10 Min-s before having sex

Im 16. I think I suffer from premature ejaculation yet have full control over my PC muscles. What do i do? -

Monday, November 7, 2016

14 and retrograde ejaculation? Please Help! I am panicking!!? -

I am extremely concerned right now. Usually when i masturbate/ejaculate my sperm shoots out. Today i got a liquid sperm accompnying burning with barely any pleasure. Right now my urine is burning and barely any comes out. It is also cloudy. Please help because i am really scared. Is this a major concern or should i brush it off. Should I tell my parents??

This could actually be a multitude of things.

1.) STI- Since you are 14, I highly doubt that this is anything sexually related, but if you have had sex recently, then you should consider going to a doctors office immediately!

2.) UTI- This could also be a simple urinary tract infection. If you have been swimming in a pond/lake or in a whirlpool or swimming pool, then it is possible that you could have got something in your penis. There are some over the counter medications for this, but you should probably consult a doctor anyway. (also, there are many other ways to get a UTI other than swimming)

3.) Dehydration- This is what I think that it probably is. When you are dehydrated, urine becomes very dark and cloudy and very hot. Also, your semen is not very viscous because of your lack of liquids. Drink a lot of water and see if that helps. If not, then go see a doctor immediately!

It can be a major concern if it does not go away in a couple of days with drinking water. If it remains the same or gets worse, then definitely tell your parents and get to a doctor.

Good luck!

You probably should tell your parents about the urine part of that, and ask them if you need medical attention.

If you don-t feel comfortable telling your parents about the other aspect of it, you might want to talk to a doctor about it alone - but that could be equally weird.

try researching on mayoclinic.com for more info on your issue.

You have an infection which you can get without having sex. Tell your parents because it is not going to go away on its own

Personally I-d give it another try and see if I could get me pipes clean. It could just be a one time thing.

If it persists for more than a day then I-d go see a doctor.

God bless.

it could be an std im blanking on the name right now but we learned about this back in like 8th grade health, but seriously get your self chaecked

Tell your parents and go see a Urologist.

you should go see your doctor, cause that burning could be an infection

it could be a std tell your parents

you could have been born with an std

u prolly have a bladder infection
and your only 14?
geez u shouldnt even be doing that yet

14 and retrograde ejaculation? Please Help! I am panicking!!? -

Saturday, November 5, 2016

How can stop premature ejaculation? -

1. Wear a condom, less sensation means you-ll last longer, the thicker the condom, the better.
2. Masturbate before sex, but long enough before that you can still get it up. It-s difficult to have another orgasm after you-ve just had one. Excuse yourself to the bathroom before you think you-re going to have sex (say you have to pee) which brings us to #3
3. Pee before sex. If your bladder is full, it will press against the prostate, making you have an orgasm quicker.
4. Focus on your breathing during sex, take big, slow breaths. Lack of oxygen makes sensations feel greater, which is why you-ll notice you hold your breath during orgasm. Focusing on it will also take you somewhat out of the moment.
5. Find a position that makes it easy for you. Woman on top usually does that for me.
6. Change positions when you feel soon.
7. Give the woman lots of foreplay and pleasure before you engage in sex, so she won-t feel disappointed.

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There is no unambiguous answer. There are several reasons of premature ejaculation:

1.

psychological factors (depression, stress, feeling of guilt, low self-rating, excessive nervousness owing to sex)
2.

diseases (problems with thyroid gland, prostate infective diseases, changing of level of particular hormones and substances produced by brain).

How it can be treated?

The main method of treatment is psychological, sexual, pharmacological therapy. In some cases helps the only one way of treatment, in other cases it necessary to use them in complex.

Psychological therapy.

Speaking with psychologist often can be very useful. Patient can come to consult the doctor along with his partner. Specialist will help to release stress and to improve quality of sexual life.

Sexual therapy.

There are some exercises that help to learn to delay ejaculation, that can be done alone or with the partner.

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Compression method. Partner stimulates your penis with her hand until his erection. When she feels that ejaculation is coming she compresses penis head for several seconds. Erection is coming down partially. In 30 seconds partner stimulates penis again. It should be repeated several times and finally ends with ejaculation.
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Interrupter method. Partner stimulates penis until ejaculation. At this moment she stops stimulation and waits until the man cools down. Then again she starts to eat penis with her hands. It repeats until ejaculation.

Pharmacological therapy.

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Antidepressants. Drug side effect of some medicines belonging to that group (paroxetine, flouxetine) is orgasm delay. That is why they can be used on doctor’s orders to treat premature ejaculation. If those medicines do not help then doctor prescribes another type of antidepressant called clomipramine.
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Creams containing local anesthetic (for example, lidocaine) are used for many years to treat premature ejaculation. Cream application on head of penis opiates sensation and delays ejaculation. Before sex cream should be washed off to avoid its contact with woman’s genital organs.

What is it?

Premature ejaculation (PE) means coming too quickly, and it-s one of the commonest of all sexual problems.

Treatment for mild cases
Treatment for more severe cases

i-m pretty sure you can-t. wear a raincoat or tell your ***** to get on the damn pill

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Hello, I was just wondering if I could ask you a question in regards me ejaculating.

I was just wondering HOW to use all my semen that are stored in me. For example I can get myself very aroused, and ejaculate quite alot. However if I ejaculate around 15mins later I can squirt some more again. This dies out (eg on a small bit) on the third ejaculation.

Is there anyway to increase the amount I ejaculate? Also, my orgasms are quite short eg only a few seconds. Is this norma?

thanks

That is 100% normal! You will ejaculate a little less each time you masturbate if you do it pretty frequently like you are. If you want to ejaculate a lot dont masturbate for a couple of days.

Normal, you ejaculate your capacity, and replenish the supply of semen. Several times in a row will use it up but spread that out over the day and you will be fine. Most guys can ejaculate average loads 3-5 times a day every day with no problem. Doing them in one hour taxes your system-- kinda like running out of spit in a spitting contest.

Please tell me this isn-t a brilliant birth control idea.. getting rid of it all in the first round and firing safely on the next go? Bad idea pal. When a man gets a vasectomy he is not considered sperm free for several weeks while the pipes clear. You can not clean out your system in one shot.

All this sounds perfectly normal.
Of course when you ejaculate their will be less semen left inside for the next time, and so on and so forth, until stocks replenish.
Orgasms vary in length but a few seconds sounds normal.
Don-t worry! everyone is different.

Basically, you have to abstain for a while but at the same time, have moments of arousal in that abstinence leading up to the next time.

Well, the group 10cc had the answer - that is the average amount that a man ejaculates.

the mans body is always producing sperm in the testies! orgasims last for around 3 seconds dont worry its normal!! :)

It-s very normal, not to worry practice makes perfect.

Try eating oatmeal 3x per day for 6 months, the results will be great.

sounsds good to me...keep on c*mming

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That is 100% normal! You will ejaculate a little less each time you masturbate if you do it pretty frequently like you are. If you want to ejaculate a lot dont masturbate for a couple of days.

Basically, you have to abstain for a while but at the same time, have moments of arousal in that abstinence leading up to the next time.

Well, the group 10cc had the answer - that is the average amount that a man ejaculates.

the mans body is always producing sperm in the testies! orgasims last for around 3 seconds dont worry its normal!! :)

It-s very normal, not to worry practice makes perfect.

Try eating oatmeal 3x per day for 6 months, the results will be great.

sounsds good to me...keep on c*mming

Amount of ejaculation....? -

That is 100% normal! You will ejaculate a little less each time you masturbate if you do it pretty frequently like you are. If you want to ejaculate a lot dont masturbate for a couple of days.

Basically, you have to abstain for a while but at the same time, have moments of arousal in that abstinence leading up to the next time.

Well, the group 10cc had the answer - that is the average amount that a man ejaculates.

the mans body is always producing sperm in the testies! orgasims last for around 3 seconds dont worry its normal!! :)

It-s very normal, not to worry practice makes perfect.

Try eating oatmeal 3x per day for 6 months, the results will be great.

sounsds good to me...keep on c*mming

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my fiancé ejaculates within a few minutes of penetration which i find frustrating. i don-t know how to talk to him about it without making the situation worse. he has told me his past relationships ended without any rational reason and I suspect this might be why and his exes couldn-t be bothered to do something about it but we love each other and I want to do something about it. is there a way to help him with this problem without actually having to discuss it with him per se? If this isn-t possible, how can i solve this problem without making him feel bad? Someone please help.

Almost every man will experience a problem with premature ejaculation at some point in his life. Premature ejaculation occurs when a man reaches orgasm before he intends to. About 30 percent of American men reach orgasm before they would like. Some people believe that this issue is caused by excessive working out or extreme, routine physical exercise.

Premature ejaculation can be prevented.

Misconceptions
Many men and women believe that premature ejaculation can be caused by extreme habitual fitness routines. However, this is simply untrue. In fact, many doctors recommend a fitness regimen in order to prevent premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is hardly ever a physical issue, and is nearly always caused by anxiety or overexcitement. In the rare event that it is a physical disorder, you actually can train your body out of the habit with special techniques.

Identification
Premature ejaculation is a confusing subject because everyone-s definition is different. As long as you and your partner are happy with your sex life, then you probably do not have an issue with premature ejaculation regardless of how long or short a period of time it takes you to reach orgasm. However, if your partner routinely fails to climax before or with you, then you may have a premature ejaculation problem.

Function
If you want to try and treat your premature ejaculation by working out, you will need to address several different areas. Since the issue is often caused by anxiety, starting to work out can build your confidence in the bedroom and alleviate or eliminate the problem. In addition, work out your ejaculation instincts during masturbation by starting and stopping or squeezing the head of the penis to slow yourself down.

Significance
Generally, premature ejaculation indicates over excitement or stress. Since these two conditions are quite similar, you may have trouble determining which is the cause for you. Working out can definitely eliminate and ease stress, so implementing a workout regimen will likely solve your problem.

Prevention/Solution
If you try working out your entire body and your sexual organs- habits, yet you still have problems with premature ejaculation, you may need to visit a therapist and a physician. Go alone first so that you can get a physical, then incorporate your partner into the equation. Work together to determine how to improve your sex lives so that you are both satisfied.

Warning
If your problems with premature ejaculation persists, then you may have a clinical psychological disorder. Work closely with your therapist to determine how to treat the problem. If left untreated, you can spiral into serious clinical depression and some people even become suicidal. Also, premature ejaculation can be associated with future developments of erectile dysfunction, so do not delay visiting a doctor if the condition persists.

Premature ejaculation happens to all men at one time or another. It-s a perfectly normal part of the male sexual experience. Sometimes performance anxiety is the cause and simply learning to relax takes care of the problem. Men who are exploring their sexuality for the first time almost always experience a season of premature ejaculation. Usually time and experience takes care of the issue naturally. In the meantime, here are a few tips to help you prevent premature ejaculation and have a more satisfying sex life.

Increase the amount of foreplay. Use foreplay to stimulate your partner so that you can orgasm around the same time. Your mate should be very aroused before you engage in intercourse or any personal genital stimulation.

Step2
Think about something else. If you feel you are about to climax prematurely, think about something non-sexual if possible. Visualize an image or situation that will briefly take your mind off your sexual encounter.

Step3
Start and stop sexual activity. If you are about to ejaculate prematurely, withdraw your penis from your partner for a few seconds. Give yourself enough time to gain control, and then start again. Repeat as necessary
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Step4
Squeeze the tip of your penis. When ejaculation is imminent, squeeze the tip of your penis firmly for about 10 to 15 seconds. Avoid genital stimulation for about 20 seconds, then resume.

Step5
Use desensitizing creams and condoms. Desensitizing creams act like a topical anesthetic. Place a small amount on the tip of your penis before sex. Thicker condoms can also desensitize the penis and help to prevent premature ejaculation.

Step6
Develop your relationship. Having a good relationship with your partner promotes an atmosphere of trust which helps to remove anxiety from your sex life. Communicating honestly about your concerns before sex is one of the most effective ways to prevent premature ejaculation.

Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles: Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.

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try men kegel exercise. It means to squeeze the same muscles he does when he tries to stop pissing. tell him to try squeezing that muscle about 3 sets of holding for 10-15 seconds about 4 times a day. then ask him to try to stop his pee after about a week. if he can stop it he is ready to stop the premature ejac.

suck his dick and make him *** before you start to have intercourse. this way it will take him longer to have a second orgasm. or you could just break up with him and find someone that isnt a wuss.

Try using two condoms to ease the sensitivity. He can try getting one off before sex and then try. It might help him last longer.

clothespin the end of it it stops the premature ejaculation and deeper pennetration

Ask him to masturbate a few hours pryor or in the morning, so it-ll last longer.

Get him to go have a **** before he has sex, then he’ll be able to go all night long!

when will ye learn. ye have to have sex more often hes not getting enough.

If he wore a condom he could last longer but thats no fun

*** again?...

I agree with Mr. Perkins.

I agree with Mr Perkins.

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im 17 premature ejaculator, with practicle experience and knowledge about PE techniques but no real beneficial improvements?I last about 3 to 5 minutes sometimes even about a minute in conclusion, when i clean up, it seems to me as i have no control to havin a hard on, whenever i want to have one; How can i have better erections, last longer and have complete control of my penis??

Stop watching porn.

3 to 5 minutes is a normal period of time, and you will finish quickly at your age because you are all revved up but don-t have a good outlet. If you were married and slamming it every day, it would increase in time.

About the other, it-s because your all nervous about being impressive, not finishing too quickly, and everything else. YOu-re stressing yourself out, and Stan can-t spring into action.

Wait until you have a partner you-ve known a long time and are comfortable with, you-ll see these things go away.

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I do not really think you have P.E.- I knew this guy who shot just as he was going in. Now THAT is P.E. He would have been thrilled to last a minut, 3-5 and he (and his woman) would have been thrilled. Relax...as you get older, you will -gain control-.

At 17 it is much too soon to assume you have PE. Everyone at 17 does this, you are absolutely normal. You might try thinking of other things during the act to sustain a little longer.

If you smoke quit it can cause this or help to cause this, also your-e very young and it-s quite normal to be this way at 17, if it continues to the point of embarrasment go and see a doctor for a recommendation there are exercises you can do to help last longer as your dr. Good luck

man that sucks im sorry i always have a hard on they just will never go away it seems

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when i masturbate it takes 5 mins.so i was wondering if i will *** strait awat coz if it only takes 5 mins i cant imagion how quick i will *** when having intercoarse with a women... so wat shall i do to prevent this from happening??? cheers xxx

You need to learn to relax as it-s all in the mind. It gets easier the older you get.

there are quite a few ways, the first way is to masturbate right up to the point of no return, then stop until you have calmed down, then start again. By conditioning your body this way, you-ll increase your endurance.