Tuesday, June 28, 2011

What can i do to last longer before ejaculation? -

What can i do to last longer before ejaculation? -

Think about your Mom.


First of all - how old are you? The younger you are (obviously down to a certain point) the more common this is. This is very common in younger men and in almost all cases disappears with time. However I am sure this is not the answer you are looking for!

How premature are we talking? Do you mean you go for 1-2 minutes and find it very hard to delay ejaculating at this stage, or do you mean you go in your boxers at the sight of her boobs? If it is the former and you are young, you will be happy to know that this is a (fairly) easy problem to fix. If it is the latter however - I cannot help you.

Premature ejaculatory condoms DO help. My first two sexual experiences (with ultra-thin) I ejaculated within 3 minutes or so. The 3rd and 4th, only on demand (after about 45 minutes). And this is all down to Durex Performa condoms. They work on the simple principle that they have a mild anaesthetic on the inside of the condom which dulls the sensation on your glans delaying ejaculation. However, you have to still play it safe - enter and go for a few minutes very slowly (you can kiss her/his neck and face to make it seem more loving while you are doing this). The anaesthetic is in solid form and only turns liquid with the body heat between you, so you need to give it time to turn to liquid. These condoms will also greatly improve your orgasm as your body is yearning for it so much more.

However, these condoms do have their faults. You need to wash your glans and penis to remove traces of the anaesthetic after sex to prevent problems. This is a little annoying as the last thing you want to do after intercourse is going to the bathroom and cleaning all around.
They can also have too much effect - and make it hard for you to sustain an erection. You can meat an equilibrium however if you swap from a performa (or similar condom) to a standard one or none (only if she is on some other form of contraceptive of course!) midway through sex when you feel that you are under control.
The anaesthetic can actually be pushed down your urethra inside your penis (this actually happened to me) and emerges a few days later VERY painfully with the feeling that you need to constantly go to the toilet; much like cistitis. You can avoid this by making sure the anaesthetic is not directly above your urethra- but this is even more of a hassle!

So that is a temporary solution, which will hopefully help you partially but it is a huge hassle.

Again, if you can go for a little bit without ejaculating, then the simple alternate task trick will help you a great deal. Basically all you have to do to elongate your sexual intercourse time (there is a specific word for this, but I have forgotten it) just think of anything but sex. Think of your maths homework, try and work out how many letters are similar between rhythm and rinosaurus (spelling?) or something equally random. If you can think of someone good to occupy yourself you-ll be surprised at how well it works!

A side-effect of antidepressants such as Prozac is also to delay ejaculation and some antidepressants actually have been prescribed for this reason. However, this is mostly used for older men who have had the problem for years and tried everything else to fix it.

It has also been proved that some foods help. There is a reason for this, but I have long-forgotten it. Some foods (which I use to eat in particular) which are rich in the correct vitamins/minerals/chemicals to help are papaya and bananas.

Also, if you make foreplay last longer than usual, she will be wetter and thus less tight on your penis.

EDIT:
What actually worked for me was to have either short sex first, a masturbate or oral sex prior to actual proper intercourse, so you don-t feel the need to ejaculate quite so much when you actually have sex.
You can also do the stop start masturbation method where you masturbate to just beneath ejaculation (start with a dry hand, then try with a wet hand later - it will feel more like a vagina) and then stop, wait a few minutes, then repeat. I never found this to work too well as I couldn-t help myself ejaculating when I got this close. Others have said it works though.

So in summary;
Use a performa condom,
Distract yourself during sex (but don-t neglect her!),
Elongate foreplay,
Ejaculate just prior to sex,
Stop-start method,
and eat bananas and papaya during sex! :)

Hope I helped. Email me if you feel the need to (anyone with similar problems feel free to email as well) I have had a lot of personal experience in this.
Actually -stop wanking- is incorrect! The regular use will help you.

There are many methods out there including Kegel exercises, stopping and starting, thinking about something else (rather than enjoying the moment), or using desensitizing creams (which will reduce your pleasure and, unless you wear protection, her-s too). None of these methods actually helps you to have sex for as long, and as hard, as possible.

Your Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS) is the main controlling factor over your penis. Here is the bad news for you. The Parasympathetic Nervous System deals with reactions that you can-t control. Whether it be pupil dilation in your eyes, erection hardness or the ejaculation reflex, it-s all an uncontrollable reflex.

The good news is that the PNS is itself controlled by certain biochemicals that are in your body. There is a chemical that, if lacking, leaves you with an impotent, or soft penis. There is a biochemical which controls ejaculation. If you have lots of either of these in your body then you-ll have rock-hard erections and supreme ejaculation control.

Try:

Breathe deeply before sex to get lots of oxygen into your body. This relaxes you. Ensure that a window is open to keep the oxygen supply fresh.

Allow your partner to touch your penis before you enter her. This may sound strange but you-ll ejaculate quickly if you go from no stimulation to intense pleasure.

During sex breathe slightly less deeply, but take measured breaths.

Eating healthy, fresh food over food contaminated with chemicals makes a huge difference.

Also exercise is vital; not only to sex, but sleep, moods and life in general.

Believe that you-re not going to ejaculate in any moment. Belief is actually very important.
ohh go slow then eventually speed up a bit.. a few -half digs- than go deep once every while.. :) you really need to control the desire to shoot and prolong the period.. i have learnt quite a few techniques myself from one book.. hehe..
remember there-s a saying -it isn-t the size of that matters, it-s how long and how many times you can make it stand- :)

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you can always go to the dr and tell them of your problem and see if they have any meds you can take or try using a thicker condom.
...drink a -little- bit of Vodka before going out -bOiNkInG-... it will help -dull- the nerve-ending a bit.
the stop and start method helps alot!

1. start w*nkin til ur bout 2 c*m
2. stop 4 1min
3. start w*nkin agen
Take up Ashtanga Yoga - i can go for hours n hours :)
-stop wanking
-use a thicker condom
What can i do to last longer before ejaculation? -

Monday, June 27, 2011

Ejaculation problems? -

Ejaculation problems? -

Im a sexually active 18 year old with a great partner.
We didn-t have sex for about 2 weeks , before this i could last for roughly 15 mins until ejaculation thus going us both great pleasure.
But this past week , we was at it again but at first i only lasted about 5 mins till i reached the -point of no return-.
I thought this could be because of mentally i only lasted a bit so we left it about two days.
We did it again earlier but instead of ejaculation , i lasted about 10mins yet when i did reach it , i didn-t even feel anything although my partner said she did?

What is wrong with me?

Please help , its ruining my sexual relationship
Thanks all
First of all relax, there is nothing wrong with you !!! Sometimes I last 5 minutes and sometimes I can go so long I get sore and give up trying. It all depends on your level of arousal.

One thing that worked well for us was something I read in a book called -She Comes First- by Ian Kerner. What you do is bring her to orgasm first (orally,manually etc.) and then you do not have to stress about how long you last. Most guys finish in under 5 minutes (despite what we see in porn) and most women need more time than that and more stimulation than intercourse can provide so it can be pretty stressful for the guy and frustrating for the woman. Also there is a product called Zestra that I got and my wife swears by it, she orgasms in half the time and with much more intensity.
It changes Bud depending on how horny you are... how tired you are... how -into it- you are.

Get used to knowing when you are about to c#m and learn to control it by -backing off- or changing position etc.

I doubt you have a problem.
Focus more on pleasing HER than on what you think your problems are. That way you are less -in your head- (i.e. worrying, which only makes it worse), and more in your heart, which is where you should be during sex.
Ejaculation problems? -

Is there a good way to prevent pre-mature ejaculation?excluding expensive drugs,old wives tales and xxx answer -

Is there a good way to prevent pre-mature ejaculation?excluding expensive drugs,old wives tales and xxx answer -

practice...............................


Think about sports... works every time
First wear a condom, which unless you are in a monogamous relationship with someone you know is healthy and want to have children with you should be doing anyway. It will make prevent you from feeling as much, and as a result you will be stimulated less, you will take longer to reach orgasm, and will last longer.

The second is to do what Adam Collrolla refers to as “taking a bullet out of the chamber.” Masturbate, or Give yourself a bit of that good loving a few hours before you intend to be with your girlfriend, it takes the pressure off, and makes things last longer and makes it more enjoyable for both of you.
Is there a good way to prevent pre-mature ejaculation?excluding expensive drugs,old wives tales and xxx answer -

Saturday, June 25, 2011

What causes Premature ejaculation? A friend of mine has it...? -

What causes Premature ejaculation? A friend of mine has it...? -

and does not know what to do about it-?


Squeeze the penis near the tip when the feeling of coming arrives. This squeezing can take away the erection too if you keep squeezing, so just do it long enough for the urge to come go away. My husband had that and it will go away if you have sex a lot and use this technique. Also the second time you have sex in a day he might not come so fast.
Tell him to check out Mistermanpower.com, it has a guide for him to overcome the mental and physical reasons.
tell your friend to check
http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
, it-s probably one of the best resources online about premature ejaculation.
What causes Premature ejaculation? A friend of mine has it...? -

Friday, June 24, 2011

Ejaculation question? -

Ejaculation question? -

Last time I masturbated, I noticed that my semen did not really eject when I reached climax. It just sort of came out without launching. Is there something wrong with that? I never noticed this before and It did this suddenly what is wrong?


If you-re still ejaculating, there-s nothing to worry about. At times, the semen shoots out, and sometimes it just glops out. If you get to the point where you-re not able to emit semen from the tip, then you-ll have an issue, but right now, it-s not a problem at all.
This is perfectly natural. There are a number of causes for this:

1. You masturbated fairly recently. You will find that if you masturbate 2 or more times in succession, the ejaculate volume and the distance it travels will decrease every time. Give your body time to produce more semen and it should go further again.

2. The contractions in your penis when your orgasm help to -ejaculate- the semen. You can make it go further by clenching your muscles at the right time, this needs practice though.

3. Sometimes it just happens, what can i say. Obviously it will happen at the worst possible time - like if you-re trying to impress your girlfriend, but hey, life sucks.

4. If you want more powerful ejaculations in terms of distance, it helps to exercise your PC muscles. You can do this at any time, simply clench and unclench your -peeing- muscle. You-ll strengthen the muscle and this should aid ejaculation.

5. Just to reiterate number 3, you-re not always going to shoot like a porn star. Sometimes it is just going to dribble out and you-ll feel disappointed, but rest assured there-s nothing wrong with you.

IT-S PERFECTLY NORMAL, DON-T WORRY ABOUT IT.
How far you -launch- depends on the level of stimulation just before ejaculation. If you are very simulated, you could get it going over your shoulder, if not, it doesn-t even get any -air.-
how many times did u do it that day? it depends on how much u do it b4 u over load and ur dick will fill dead and it will be hard to get a ***** afterwards. This feeling well go away overnite. Just im me if u have any problems
Nah, don-t worry. Nothin- wrong here, dude. Just normal. Sometimes it-ll shoot across the room, and other times it just plops out. You-re okay.
sorry it didnt launch
but you sould just fin to me bucko
Ejaculation question? -

Problem with consecutive ejaculation? -

Problem with consecutive ejaculation? -

Every time I finish ejaculating, my penis starts to get flaccid quickly. Even if I-m overly aroused, that-s what happens. I wonder if there-s something I can do?


It-s normal. Don-t worry about it.
getting flaccid after a big *** is normal. get your lady to help. it-s a team sport you know. ..


try and withdraw before ejaculation to make it last. you-ll become more of a stayer with age anyway. most chicks really like seeing you *** cos it-s evidence that they make you happy, don-t get too concerned eh
That-s a normal reaction for most men. About the only exceptions that I can think of are: Guys between the ages of 13 and 16 -or- guys taking a pill to solve the problem in the first place.

It-s also normal to need to urinate soon after sex.
Check out
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:)
you probly have a small penis
This is very normal.
Problem with consecutive ejaculation? -

How do u stop premature ejaculation? -

How do u stop premature ejaculation? -

In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.


Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

if its by yourself your probly in a bit of trouble. but if its a girl masturbate just before you see her. use the stop start method. think about someone and or something grose when your with her (or him) maybe even if your desperate get* your prostate checked. its not hard to get prostate fixed nowadays.
With a razor, applied to your scrotum.
When you are engage in sex, don-t move.
How do u stop premature ejaculation? -

Ejaculation question? -

Ejaculation question? -

im 13 yrs old. and i can ejaculate. i was wondering if it is normal if after you ejaculate, your done. for example: when im watching something or looking at something that will make me aroused, i ejaculate, but then after, i cant do it anymore for a little bit, nor do i want to. im finished for a while. so i was wondering if when i get olderr there will be a problem with me and sex. HELP?


No, this is perfectly normal, for ejaculation is the male orgasm, which is the sexual peak for masturbation and sex. The reason you don-t feel like masturbating anymore and you can-t is because your testosterone level has decreased and your body needs a rest. Hope this helps.
Haha dude id be scared if you said you wanted to keep going after you ejaculate. Yeah I was about your age when I started that but yeah after you jack it you dont want to do it anymore. It-s called having an orgasim, and if you already know a girl can get one...when a guy ejaculates thats an orgasim too. Unlike girls, when guys orgasim we dont feel the need to have sex any longer (or in other words pleasure ourself).

Completely normal dude....
It-s called a refractory period. It becomes painful or hard to be aroused and be stimulated again. It-s basically the cool-down
I Think u are at a noRmal growth level to start CeRTAIN BODY functions and Even tho u might want your body to stop Certain stuff it is made to happen LOL
its alright its normal
no you gotta wait a while. its perfectly normal for a 13 year old. i would know, i am one :]
its normal bro guys go down in a sec for girls it takes 20 mins that-s how guys are your fine
same with me after i ejaculate im done for like 5 minutes and i can do it again. your all right it normal
No your fine! That happens to everyone.
it should be a hose spraying -your man gravy- all day son!
you-re all right dude! don-t worry
You are ok, just fine.
Ejaculation question? -

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Pre-mature ejaculation and erectile disfuctions? -

Pre-mature ejaculation and erectile disfuctions? -

im 17 premature ejaculator, with practicle experience and knowledge about PE techniques but no real beneficial improvements?I last about 3 to 5 minutes sometimes even about a minute in conclusion, when i clean up, it seems to me as i have no control to havin a hard on, whenever i want to have one; How can i have better erections, last longer and have complete control of my penis??
Stop watching porn.

3 to 5 minutes is a normal period of time, and you will finish quickly at your age because you are all revved up but don-t have a good outlet. If you were married and slamming it every day, it would increase in time.

About the other, it-s because your all nervous about being impressive, not finishing too quickly, and everything else. YOu-re stressing yourself out, and Stan can-t spring into action.

Wait until you have a partner you-ve known a long time and are comfortable with, you-ll see these things go away.
Try this site. It have many method to cure premature ejaculation


http://www.treatment-premature-ejaculati…

I do not really think you have P.E.- I knew this guy who shot just as he was going in. Now THAT is P.E. He would have been thrilled to last a minut, 3-5 and he (and his woman) would have been thrilled. Relax...as you get older, you will -gain control-.
At 17 it is much too soon to assume you have PE. Everyone at 17 does this, you are absolutely normal. You might try thinking of other things during the act to sustain a little longer.
If you smoke quit it can cause this or help to cause this, also your-e very young and it-s quite normal to be this way at 17, if it continues to the point of embarrasment go and see a doctor for a recommendation there are exercises you can do to help last longer as your dr. Good luck
man that sucks im sorry i always have a hard on they just will never go away it seems
Pre-mature ejaculation and erectile disfuctions? -

Does pre ejaculate fluid that comes from erection count as ejaculation??10 points!? -

Does pre ejaculate fluid that comes from erection count as ejaculation??10 points!? -

no its pre

Does pre ejaculate fluid that comes from erection count as ejaculation??10 points!? -

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Have i get any tecnic for sexual dyfunction and premature ejaculation/? -

Have i get any tecnic for sexual dyfunction and premature ejaculation/? -

Exercise to Cure Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…


More info such as things like age would be helpful in giving advice. These things are actually common in younger males and usually tend to adjust their selves as one ages.
Have i get any tecnic for sexual dyfunction and premature ejaculation/? -

Weird ejaculation problem? -

Weird ejaculation problem? -

I have been doing a lot of push ups and today i pushed myself really hard and did a set of 150. At about 130 i started to ejaculate. Wtf? Is this normal? I also did it while doing pull ups later on


I don-t know why people use the word normal in the context you did BUT, yes this can happen. It is dependent on the level of sexual desire you have had before you start. The rubbing of you pants or the floor can aggravate the situation and cause full arousal. This happens easier when you have not engaged in sexual activity for some time. I find it quite strange that it happened to you a second time. I am just wondering; were you dressed when this occurred?
yeah thats actually my favorite sex position
Were there guys around? Sometimes when I see sweaty guys when I work out it gets me off.
really wierd when u did the pushups did u do it on a soft surface maybe ur penis was rubbing on the carpet or somethin
Uh... What the f***
your not f(youce)king enough

get laid...
ALOTT
Weird ejaculation problem? -

Urination instad of male ejaculation? -

Urination instad of male ejaculation? -

My boyfriend and I are both in our early twenties. We were having sex for about an hr and a half and as he hadnt come and I had got too tight to be comfortable for him (im not trying to be explicit i just dont know what details make a difference to know - i.e whether him feeling uncomfortable might change things for him) I went down on him to give him an orgasm instead. As he came close I carried on as normal and this time instead of ejaculating I got a mouthful of urine instead. This has never happened before to either of us, he was still hard and nothing else seemed to be different. He said he thought he had just come as usual, said it felt a little different but didnt realise until I spat it out and told him. Ive done various google searches but have come up with no answers really. Im aware of what pre-c*m is and no there is absolutely no way I got mixed up. Please help if you can. We are both pretty freaked out.
Well, he must have had a very full bladder. Quite possible if you were working for an hour and a half. The odd thing is that he didn-t have the sensation that he wanted to go, but if his bladder was very full any slight loss of control around the bladder sphincter area would result in a loss of urine. Less beer before you start or a gentle reminder about the bathroom might be in order, or a -comfort break- every hour ;-))
whats happened is you-ve carried on exciting him and his been wanting to *** along time and he-s produced more seminal fluid than normal so it-s not urine
LOL

I hope you washed out your teeth after.
tell him to see a doctor
Urination instad of male ejaculation? -

How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual dysfunction in men and exact cause of PE is unknown. Premature ejaculation can be cured by practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods can also help you in delaying ejaculation. You may practice techniques like Masters and Johnson Method, Simulation Technique or Squeeze Technique to exercise greater control over your performance. In addition, keeping a check over the alcohol intake and illegal drug usage is also helpful.


The best thing I can recommend is practice. The more familiar you are with your body, the more likely you-ll know when it-s coming. (no pun intended, seriously)

If it-s really a problem, you can find condoms and lube that have desensitizing agents in them that will numb you to the point where it-ll take a lot more motion to get the job done.
1. Have sex/masturb**** to ejaculation beforehand. By the second time around, you should last longer.

2. Condoms reduce sensitivity.

3. Slow down or stop, wait, then continue.

4. Distract yourself. Think football, countdown from 100 to 1, recite the alphabet from Z to A. E = Mc2. Discuss

5. Stop. Squeeze the penis where the head meets the shaft for 30secs. Continue

6. Stop.Press firmly just behind the testicles for 30 secs. Continue

7. Certain drugs, alcohol included, may prolong you.

Visit your physician for advice.
When you know you-re about to have an orgasm just stop your movement. A small amount of semen will come out but your erection will stay and you will be able to continue on.
How to prevent pre mature ejaculation? -

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Do masturbation cause Premature ejaculation ? -

Do masturbation cause Premature ejaculation ? -

actually masturbation during your teens can teach you how to control when you ejaculate
sure lots of boys jack off quickly as young teens because they don-t want to get caught, i know i could shoot in less than a minute if i needed to
but with practice boys can learn to recognize the feeling just before shooting off is inevitable and then slow down so they don-t shoot
also i don-t see where wiki say masturbation causes it in any related article
as you know wiki can be edited by anyone and often people add incorrect information


no, but it might cause you to ejaculate sooner than you hoped
no. if anything, quite the opposite.
I don-t know. Do it?
Come again?
No it should make you last longer if you masturbate say 1 hour before having sex. What you should do is just keep having sex after you ejaculate and go twice.
no it dont cause premature ejaculation
Simply, no.
all i know is that masturbation is actually healthy and has no negative side effects... although i dont -practice- masturbation, Search for it on Google. They have many sites concerning masturbation.
Yes if you do it before she is undressed

It does kind of kills it form being so fast to the draw

It takes a little more work to get to do its thing if you do it to your self first with out her knowing about it

That way she will think you are really a good one not an quick to the draw before the game begins
ok...dude who awnsered before me...your so full of **** lol
well I am not sure about that it may, ask your doctor, or go to a health website.
Do masturbation cause Premature ejaculation ? -

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Premature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation? -

i can only last 2-3minutes (without condom)

do i have PE?

how long does it normally take for a guy if he does not use condom?

thanks


Seems normal to me.
try to masterbate an hour before sex, take your time, once youve learned to control yourself you can go on and off all night long, have her sit on your lap riding facing you or away , youll last long on your back letting her riding slow and easy just enough to pleasure herself, giving you a little too, til your both getting tired, then finshing in a giagantic climax
Someone further up answered this as cumming before you start... that-s not it. P.E. in my eyes is finishing anytime before you want to. What you need to do is figure out your -point of no return- where you-re going to finish no matter what you do. When you-re right before that point, just stop.

Take it as a chance to slow things down. Kiss your girl, change position, pull out and go down on her. If she-s a girlfriend and not a one night stand she-ll no doubt be totally cool with stopping for a moment. After a little bit you-ll notice that you-re not right on the edge of finishing and you can keep going, it-s like a fresh new start. You can also learn to squeeze when you stop just a little too late, and actually be able to physically stop yourself.

Eventually you get really good at controlling yourself, and you-ll be able to go as long as you want. It-s not about just humping non-stop until you-re done, something nobody seems to understand. It-s about control. You can practice the technique alone too.
You-re just Speedy Gonzalez
You should try holding it in, the reason you release so quickly is because your body is so used to releasing quickly (uh... when you played with yourself)
premature ejaculation is ejaculating before you have sex, hence you do not have it. Look on a tantric sex website, they will give you exercises to help you last longer. Practice will also help.
you can endure longer with the proper exercises, i know this sounds stupid but its true
ya normal...quite normal
There are pills taht are supposed to help, not sure how well they work, the science seems good, here is a link

http://www.sexpositionadvice.com/climax.…

Sorry to hear that.
lets just say the national average is a bit higher
You are definently normal. Sorry for answering this being a girl lol. I have been with 3 partners, but with each for a very long time..not a tramp by any means. All 3 have been the same. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and we have tried a few things one that we found to work pretty good are Trojan brand condoms. They are the extended pleasure ones. It has a climax control lubricant. Well anyway, you should put it on a minute or two before you have intercourse, it doesn-t really numb your penis, but it makes it feel a bit -wierd- as my boyfriend puts it. It really takes alot of the sensitivity out of it. You can still have an orgasm, but it takes quite a bit longer. Yeah, we like em- :P Hope I was able to help a bit. You can get them anywhere, we get ours from Wal-mart.
That depends. How often can you go? What I mean is this...after you-ve -done it,- how long do you have to wait before you can go again? If your answer is roughly 30 minutes or less, then I wouldn-t worry about it too much. However, if it-s more like an hour or more, yeah, probably.

Whether you-re circumsized or not also affects this. There are rumors that size has to do with this as well, but I think those are nothing but. Also remember, better that you-re able to come quickly than not at all...or hours after your partner is way too tired to continue.

I know a dude that can only go after a number of hours. Me personally, my record is 5 minutes for a quickie and 10 hours for a marathon.
One way to treat premature ejaculation is to do PC muscle exercises. Your PC (pubococcygeus) muscle is the primary “sexual muscle” that forms part of the pelvis. The PC muscle is largely involved with sexual functions such as ejaculation and orgasm. With regular exercise, you can delay ejaculation and achieve firmer and larger erections, powerful ejaculations and more intense climaxes.

For more information, please check the following source
Hi,
You need read , Christian Gudnasons- book, The Ejaculation Master book,
http://www.ejaculationmaster.co.nr
, this guy grantees you ways that will help you have much longer sex , using exercise that strengths your ejaculation muscles
Hope this helps
Premature ejaculation? -

How can u control premature ejaculation ? how can i delay it ? -

How can u control premature ejaculation ? how can i delay it ? -

a doctor or practice relaxing the muscles,drink as much water as you can then drink some more,wait to urinate until you are about to bust,master stopping it in midstream and you will learn how to control your muscles


Practice practice practice practice. bring it up... slow it down... bring it up... slow it down...
think about eating doody
When it is just about time, think of something gross...like road kill or some fat, ugly, nasty looking nekkid person.

Don-t be too gross or it will kill the mood altogether.

Thanks for the 2 points.
Ah! think about baseball.
Just when you are about to c**, have your partner squeeze your testicles real hard. The pain will stop you from reaching an orgasm. Do this three or four times and then stop squeezing and just let yourself have the most intense orgasm of your life. If you are masturbating, do the same thing and it will stop the premature ejaculation thing.
You can ask a doctor for help if you dont want to experience this.
Thats called Tantrick Sex, not sure if thats how you spell it, but supposedly you can *** from the inside and still have an erectoion. Takes lots of practice, I-ve done it only twice
Think about something else while doing it-math problem,work,favorite restaurant,,,etc
How can u control premature ejaculation ? how can i delay it ? -

My first ejaculation occurs is fast (2-3 mts) But the 2nd one after 30 mts lasts for 15 mts. Why is this? -

My first ejaculation occurs is fast (2-3 mts) But the 2nd one after 30 mts lasts for 15 mts. Why is this? -

if u already ejaculate once 30 mins ago... u need time to get the energy to ejaculate the second time... in other words the second ejaculation will sure take a longer time...


Please! 15 minute orgasm?! You-d be dead! Are you a girl? Or guy?
because you have to -re-gain- the streghth and since u cummed on ur first one it needs to rebuild too.
My first ejaculation occurs is fast (2-3 mts) But the 2nd one after 30 mts lasts for 15 mts. Why is this? -

Ejaculation and stomach pains? -

Ejaculation and stomach pains? -

Hi, im a teenager. I masturbate 1-2 times a week to release stress. At times (like 2-3 days after ejaculating), I get stomach pains and get ending up in the bathroom excreting liquid like waste. Well, i-m not sure if the reason is ejaculating, but i usually don-t get full with my breakfast leading to hunger and to stomach pains. What do you think is the reason for my stomach pains? I-ve been having them once a week for about a month and a half already.
From the sounds of things, your masturbation habits have absolutely no correlation with your stomach issues. Once or twice a week is hardly anything to even worry about in any regard. Your stomach however, sounds like it is responding to your diet, or lack thereof. Teens are notorious for poor eating habits, especially junk food binges and fast food dependancies in america. Are your stomach issues usually on saturday or sunday after vegging on junk food on the weekend? Then there-s your answer, if not, simply pay attention to what you are eating around the time you have your stomach issues. Maybe its a food allergy. Does it cause indigestion going down, or going out? All of these things are questions you need to ask yourself. Listen to your body and it will let you know what you need to eat. If nothing seems to work try eating just fruits and veggies for a week, or try fasting with lemon water for short periods. That will help your body clean it-s system and renew its processes. Otherwise, talk with your doctor or family about what might be causing it. But I-d get the masturbation theory out of your head, it-s seems pretty far fetched.
See your doctor!
you need to go and speak to your doctor
I don-t think the two are connected. If you are convinced they are connected, stop masturbating for a week or two and see if the stomach pains cease. If not, you know that problem has nothing to do with masturbation.
I don-t think it has anything to do with masturbation. Most likely it would be stomach ulcer from hunger.

Try to spend a month eating well and bring some almonds in case you-re hungry. Don-t let yourself starve even a bit and see if it happens.
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Monday, June 13, 2011

Problem with Premature ejaculation? -

Problem with Premature ejaculation? -

sumtimes i can have great sex but sumtimes i just cant do it... i get EXTREMELY nervous and it just doesnt happen... i find it really hard to concentrate.. i kno ppl.. u have to think of sumthing else... OR only focus on what ur doing.. tried them both but i just cant... whats wrong with me help? and i am 19 years old


Dude...Totally normal...I-ve been married for 10 years now it happens to everyone male and female if they admit it or not, It-s happened. Being comfortable with yourself and your partner is the key...Not every-time is going to be a mind blowing orgasm for you or your partner...sometimes even masturbating feels better than sex..you know why!? Because your not pressured to perform..or thinking is it good for her?...You-d be surprised how foreplay (kissing, touching,rubbing etc...) helps to increase sex drive and climax for you and your partner... Spontaneous sex can be fun and exciting but just take your time and make love...it doesn-t always happen like the Porno-s... and making Love will be much more satisfying in the end.
It will sort itself out. Try not to get anxious.
be relaxed or drug will help??
Ok. I was married to a guy just like you. He would *** in no time flat, sometimes before we even got started. We finally went a doctor. He suggested he masterbates more often, and aducate himself with some sexual movie.(porn) the more masterbating he did, the longer he would last.
and by watching a few movies (with me ) he learned what I liked and didn-t. Not only did our sex life improve, but so did his pre ejaculation problem.
You either have to reduce the anxiety yourself or seek the advice of a doctor/therapist.
Problem with Premature ejaculation? -

Do I have premature ejaculation? And if so, how do I fix it? -

Do I have premature ejaculation? And if so, how do I fix it? -

I-ve been having trouble recently during intercourse, and finally decided to look up some information on it. I think I may have premature ejaculation, but I-m not 100% positive.

Sometimes I *** fairly early on, even before penetration, and sometimes I function completely normal. But way more often than not, I-ll go way too early.

I read that sometimes this happens simply due to inexperience. I don-t know what constitutes -inexperience- exactly, but I have had more than several sexual -encounters- (oral, handjobs, etc; around 20 or so total).

If receiving oral stimulation, sometimes I can last for a very long time without even cumming at all. Others, I-ll *** right away. Which leaves me pretty confused about the whole situation.

I don-t know if it-s relevant, but during masturbation this has never occurred, and I can always go for a long time before climax.

I was wondering if this is a level of premature ejaculation, and if so, what can be done to fix it? I-m looking for a non-medicated solution (no pills or anything like that) if at all possible.
The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation

Ejaculation master is the web-s most popular ejaculation control program


http://www.EjaculationSecret.com

put a cork in your peehole. If this doesn-t work tie floss around it so tight it starts to go numb and then hold the floss in your teeth, and then when you want to *** let go. then beat your girlfriend with your peener.
Before doing it with a girl masturbate - ejaculate. Then do it with her. You-ll see the difference. You will last a lot longer. It seems you are very young, that-s why you ejaculate so fast. It-s all normal.
Pretty sure there isn-t any medicated solution for premature ejaculation anyway. Don-t worry, it-ll happen less once you get older and more experienced.
If you want to last longer you jsut gotta keep doing it and build up how long you last or before hand ejaculate before intercourse
i had to do it...im sorry:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZ��

masterbate two times before you have sex
you probably just get excited
wen masturbating try to hold in your c u m for a while
that should help
good luck
she just knew how to give really good head.. keep her lol they hard to come by!!
Have sex more often or call a plumber
You need to use your mind
Strengthen your kegel muscles (sp?). Check that out online......it will probably give you a description and tell you just what you need to do to strengthen them...
Lots of guys worry about this so don-t worry.

What most guys don-t know is that masturbation tends to worsen the problem.

Now hold on I-m not say to not masturbate so you can keep reading.

The problem is that masturbation tends to be -get of as soon as possible- You pleasure yourself with the goal of getting off. You-ve trained your body to react to pleasure with -OMG C*% NOW!-

You can break this training by masturbating for pleasure, not climax.

In any case, you say that its sporadic, sometimes you do, sometimes you don-t.

Sounds perfectly normal to me. Everyone has they-re moments, boys and girls. You can get overly excited every once in a while. It might have been a while, or something. If you really don-t want to come thine, then its a matter of self control, stopping yourself or the girl for a while while you calm down enough to continue, moving on to something else, like her, while you wait.
-man this girl is so hot i wanna bang her so bad- mentality will make you *** faster than expected, and when you want her so bad will probably make you *** fast. otherwise, some guys *** fast and it is just the way they are, experiences dont make you last longer, by experiences usually it mean for someone at older age, that when they lose most of sensitivity therefore last longer than when they were young. learn to hold when you feel like it stimulating a lot. think about something else during the activitiy
Premature ejaculation (PE) is the most common sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40 years. Most professionals who treat premature ejaculation define this condition as the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners. This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax, which is variable and depends on many factors specific to the individuals engaging in intimate relations. An occasional instance of premature ejaculation might not be cause for concern, but, if the problem occurs with more than 50% of attempted sexual relations, a dysfunctional pattern usually exists for which treatment may be appropriate.

To clarify, a male may reach climax after 8 minutes of sexual intercourse, but this is not premature ejaculation if his partner regularly climaxes in 5 minutes and both are satisfied with the timing. Another male might delay his ejaculation for a maximum of 20 minutes, yet he may consider this premature if his partner, even with foreplay, requires 35 minutes of stimulation before reaching climax. If intercourse is the method of sexual stimulation for the second example and the male climaxes after 20 minutes of intercourse and then loses his erection, satisfying his partner (at least with intercourse), who needs 35 minutes to climax, is impossible.

Because many females are unable to reach climax at all with vaginal intercourse (no matter how prolonged), this situation may actually represent delayed orgasm for the female partner rather than premature ejaculation for the male; the problem can be either or both, depending on the point of view.

Take care,
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Sunday, June 12, 2011

Help ! How to overcome pre ejaculation ? -

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I want to stop premature ejaculation, how do i train myself? any drugs to stop it and what are these drugs? -

I want to stop premature ejaculation, how do i train myself? any drugs to stop it and what are these drugs? -

i don-t know, you might be able to strengthen the muscles involved through repeatedly contracting the muscles that stop you from urinating. During sex, can-t you just stop and wait a few seconds before you get too close to orgasm, and then start again, until you get past the initial sensitivity?

you might try ginseng pills. ginseng can affect those systems in the body.


Premature Ejaculation is a side effect of depression, if it-s bothering you that bad you need to go invest in medical insurance and establish a doctor then fight to urge to lie and be completely honest with him or her.


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I had a friend tell me if u control your breathing u last longer.
Okay ! You ask for it ! Get some pointed like a pen or pencil. U known where your as* is? No ! I don-t want you to shaft that into your as* hole! Poke it just right above your as* hole where there like a slight depression,where your tial supose to be. It will go to sleep right away! That-s the acupuncture point.You DON-T have to do it that hard till it bleed! Drink BEER, That can slow it down!
try masturbating slowly, relax, take your time.use lube,stroke yourself slowly and when you start feeling like you-re going to ***, slow down or stop for a bit then start again. keep this up as long as you can, then enjoy it. try taking longer - longer as time goes on. relax. go slow. remember to breathe.
Medical Care: Medical treatment for premature ejaculation includes several options. Any serious primary medical condition (eg, angina) should be treated; for the purpose of the following discussion, the male is assumed to be healthy and premature ejaculation is assumed to be his only problem. In addition, any accompanying erection problem can be treated with various methods with excellent success (see Erectile Dysfunction) and thus, only passing reference is made to treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED) that may accompany the premature ejaculation problem.

Including the female partner as much as possible in the treatment and counseling sessions is important to achieve the best outcome.

The first step for treatment of premature ejaculation is to relieve any underlying performance pressure on the male.

Assuming that premature ejaculation occurs when intercourse is attempted, instruct the couple that intercourse should not be attempted until premature ejaculation is treated. The male may use manual stimulation, oral sex, or other means to satisfy the female partner in the meantime.

If the male always experiences ejaculation with initial sexual excitement or early foreplay, this is a serious problem and probably indicates primary premature ejaculation (the history should reveal this), which then most likely requires treatment in conjunction with a mental health care professional. These more difficult cases should be screened out.
The couple should then be instructed on sexual therapy, such as the stop-start or squeeze-pause technique popularized by Masters and Johnson.

The female partner should slowly begin stimulation of the male and should stop as soon as he senses a feeling of excessive excitement that may lead to ejaculatory inevitability.

Then, she should administer a firm compression of the penis just behind the glans, pressing mainly under the penis. This should be uncomfortable but not painful.

Stimulation then should begin again after the male has a feeling that the ejaculation is no longer imminent.

The process should be repeated and practiced at least 10 or more times.

Gradually, most males find this technique helps decrease the impending inevitable need to ejaculate.

After a period of practicing this method, the couple can sit facing each other, with the woman-s legs crossing on top of the male-s legs. She can stimulate him by manipulating his penis close to, then with friction against, her vulval area. Each time he senses excessive excitement, she can apply the squeeze and stop all stimulation until he calms down enough for the process to be repeated.

Finally, coitus may be attempted, with the female partner in the superior position so that she may withdraw immediately and again apply a squeeze to remove his urge to climax.

Most couples find this technique to be highly successful. It can also help the female partner to be more aroused and can shorten her time to climax because it constitutes a form of extended foreplay in many cases.
Another therapeutic modality is the use of desensitizing cream for the male.
In Korea and other areas of the Far East, SS Cream (a combination of 9 ingredients, mainly herbal) has been shown to desensitize the penis, decrease the vibratory threshold, and help men with premature ejaculation to significantly delay their ejaculatory response.

Unfortunately, SS Cream is not yet approved by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA), but simple combinations of lidocaine cream or related topical anesthetic agents can be used with similar effects and they are safe as long as the patient has no history of allergy to the substance.
If the male is relatively young and he can achieve another erection in a few minutes following an episode of premature ejaculation, he may find that his control is much better the second time.

Some therapists advise young men to masturbate (or have their partner stimulate them rapidly to climax) 1-2 hours before sexual relations are planned.

The interval for achieving a second climax often includes a much longer period of latency, and the male can usually exert better control in this setting.

In an older man, such a strategy may be less effective because the older man may have difficulty achieving a second erection after his first rapid sexual release. If this occurs, it can damage his confidence and may result in secondary impotence.
The most effective pharmacologic modality found to aid men with premature ejaculation is a drug from the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) class, drugs which are used normally as antidepressants in the clinical setting.

Some tricyclic antidepressants with SSRI-like activity also achieve the same result.

Many of these agents have been found to have, as a side effect, a tendency to cause both male and female patients to experience a significant delay in reaching orgasm.

For this reason, medications with SSRI side effects have been used in men who experience premature ejaculation.
Surgical Care: No recommended surgical treatment exists for premature ejaculation.

Consultations:

Consultation with a sex therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist may prove helpful if the primary care physician or urologist cannot provide successful treatment or does not have the time to explore psychological issues and implement behavioral techniques (eg, squeeze-pause). If the primary care physician or urologist is not experienced in treating premature ejaculation or is uncomfortable with treatment, then early referral should take place (to a sex therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist). Some physicians are comfortable implementing medication therapy but not behavioral therapy. The patient should be offered all treatment options as with any medical condition, and the physician should proceed with referral for those option(s) considered to require more specialized help than the physician can provide.
For men who may be experiencing a severe emotional disturbance that is an underlying factor to premature ejaculation, referral to a mental health professional is most appropriate. Diagnosis and treatment of the various psychological factors that manifest partly as premature ejaculation are beyond the scope of this discussion.
Do opiates for a while, you-ll never get off easy, unless your dope sick.
Dapoxetine is the International Nonproprietary Name of a short-acting SSRI drug currently being considered for approval by the FDA for the treatment of premature ejaculation in men, which would make it the first drug approved for such treatment. It is currently in Phase III of the approval process. This would make it join the ranks of sildenafil (Viagra?), tadalafil (Cialis?), and vardenafil (Levitra?), the erectile dysfunction drugs and cabergoline (Dostinex?) (off-label), as a drug invented to improve male sexual health.

Dapoxetine, submitted to the FDA in the form of dapoxetine hydrochloride, was developed by ALZA Corporation and its parent company, Johnson - Johnson.

You can try any of the following drugs, stay on the drug for 3 months to know the result. These drugs work in 70% of men and they belong to a class called SSRIs, a type of antidepressants.

Many drugs in this class are familiar in the USA through advertising, including the following:
(Trade names in parentheses)

citalopram (Celexa, Cipramil, Emocal, Sepram, Seropram)
escitalopram oxalate (Lexapro, Cipralex, Esertia)
fluoxetine (Prozac, Fontex, Seromex, Seronil, Sarafem, Fluctin (EUR))
fluvoxamine maleate (Luvox, Faverin)
paroxetine (Paxil, Seroxat, Aropax, Deroxat, Paroxat)
sertraline (Zoloft, Lustral, Serlain)
dapoxetine (no known trade name)

Start from the lowest dose and increase if necessary
There are special drugs but I don-t know them .you can go to a doctor (a general physician or something) he might help you .
Why dont u do it slowly?
I want to stop premature ejaculation, how do i train myself? any drugs to stop it and what are these drugs? -

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Full bladder during sleep causes ejaculation. Is this a sign of weak prostate? -

Full bladder during sleep causes ejaculation. Is this a sign of weak prostate? -

no, it sounds like your making this question up.

Full bladder during sleep causes ejaculation. Is this a sign of weak prostate? -

Monday, June 6, 2011

Ejaculation problem? -

Ejaculation problem? -

I-ve noticed for about the last year, when I reach orgasm not as much semen is released as expected. And then afterwards, if I sort of squeeze my penis in an upwards direction, semen comes out that was -stuck.- My question is, what could be causing this? How could I treat this? Is this actually normal (but I at least think it-s more than what would be normal to get stuck)?
Also, I-m 19 and uncircumsized if this helps. Thank you.


try kegal excercizes
I think it-s a sticky check valve. Better take it in for servicing before your warranty runs out!
ur still young. u may take time to fully develop ur semen prodcution. ejacualtion dsynfunction happen when there is too much of estrogen in men (yes men have it too!) its called ED. usually affects men ln late 40s to 50s
Im 14 and this happens to me sometimes too. Ive found that if you look at porn first and have a long masterbation session then itll shoot out a lot. Try it. it really does work
It gizz takes time for you to reload. Give your hand a rest. Then get your measuring cup out again.
its quite normal dont worry na done thing more dont spend too muc htime before relasing. too much delay in ejacualtiao ncuases this but this has no side effect...
Its normal.
is the orgasm as strong?
U spent too much time jacking off.
Ejaculation problem? -

Sperm recovery after ejaculation? -

Sperm recovery after ejaculation? -

How long would it take for me to recover sperm and testosterone after ejaculation because I would like to go to the gym but there is no point if I have no testosterone left?


24 hours to completely restore. Testesterone longer. I suggest not Masturbating.
Ejaculating does not lower your testosterone level. Testosterone is produced at a continual rate, and doesnt decline due to orgasms. Your body produces over 100 million sperm a day, and an average ejaculation uses 30 million. After your first ejaculation in a 24 hour period, the amount of sperm ejacualted will decline in each successive ejaculation, as will the semen. (they are not the same thing. Sperm mixes with fluid produced in the prostate, and becomes semen).
Mmmmmm k.... This is new, I-m pretty sure the testosterone level that is lost with spilling some baby gravy won-t affect your workout, in fact, a recent study, published in a Men-s Health article said that sex or masturbation before an event increased an athelets performance due to increased relaxation. Just pull the pud and don-t worry about it. If you are worried about it use a supplement.
This is a good question, If you-ve only ejaculated once well I wouldn-t worry too much. But if you ejaculated multiple times until you could not do it any more, well then you-ll have to wait about 24 hrs for supply to be replaced. As for testosterone levels intercourse doesn-t decrease your testosterone levels, if you masturbate you actually cause an increase in testosterone levels (about a week later though).
dont wack before you lift...it takes more than 24 hours to rejuvenate...as sperm goes...u have an unlimited supply and you can literally beat it all day and wont run out but u migh t get kinda sore fast lol
About a whole day. Don-t bother ejaculating until you-re done with your workouts.
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Friday, June 3, 2011

What is the cause of fast ejaculation? -

What is the cause of fast ejaculation? -

lots and lots of sticky sperm


OTTH. Or over-the-top-hornieness
Stop jacking off.
lol!
Prostate Stimulation.......
youth. Have a nice day.
Rapid stimulation...

Relax and take a breath here and there and see what happens
Masturbating at a fast pace, or if your getting laid, jackhammering the lady will make you ejaculate fast.
You can train yourself to not ejaculate so fast. When you are masturbating, and about to finish, just stop. Then once the feeling goes away, start at it again. Do this until you just cant take it. And stroke slowly.
What is the cause of fast ejaculation? -

My ejaculation problem? -

My ejaculation problem? -

Whenever I think about horses or see one I get a major erection. When I ride one I sometimes blow my load inside my pants. Is this normal? Are there ways to conceal the fact I have ejaculated in my pants?


Maybe you should put this in the mental health section...
Oh, I think, actually I-m 99% sure, that you have Equinoerotica is a common disorder where a person is sexually attracted to horses. It happened it the play -Equus-. The person who had it took psychology training to turn his sexual desires from horses to people. I suggest you try it.Good luck.
Wouldnt have thought it was normal, except for those guys for whom this -fetish- occurs. How to conceal? double undies or thicker variety. Maybe the colour of pants?
Equinoerotica is a common disorder among farmers. I would recommend you try to direct your energies toward your own species. Zoophilia is a crime and I would be careful how you proceed.
you can werar 2 pairs of pants
or extra undies
or wear a condom
Stop riding horses.
That is strange.
not to be mean, but i honestly hope you-re kidding.
My ejaculation problem? -

The quantity of my ejaculations has decreased.? -

The quantity of my ejaculations has decreased.? -

Is this normal as men age or does it have something to do with my vasectomy, diet, fluid intake? Can I do anything to increase it?
have you been counting your swimmers?
vasectomy wont cause reduction in quantity is semen, it just cuts off the sperms from semen. you never mentioned how old are you? If you are -50 yrs then you must check yourself for diabetes or any prostatic illnesses.
its better that you meet a doctor when you get time. And of course, if the cause of reduced semen is due to correctible causes (like diabates) it can be cured.
This depends on what time frame you are thinking of.

Generally �C when you ejaculate, you use a portion of the quantity of available ejaculate that your body has produced up to that time.

If you want to ejaculate more on a regular basis, then you need to ejaculate more often, and your body will produce more ejaculate on a regular basis, because your body produces what it needs; this is sort of like keeping a larger supply on hand to meet a larger demand. Our bodies are wonderfully adaptive that way. It is sort of like working out �C the more you lift, the more you are able to lift, and the same is true for your ejaculate �C the more you ejaculate, the more you will be able to.

If, for some reason, you just want to ejaculate a large quantity at one specific time, or over a short duration, then you can simply ��save up�� or not ejaculate for a period of days prior to the event where you wish to be able to provide a large quantity all at once.

This is why girls like myself, who really enjoy semen, and being coated, will often ask guys to not ejaculate for the few days before they plan on seeing us �C we want them to save up a lot of semen for us.
It definitely decreases with age! I am 65 and speak from experience...and I-ve read about it too so I know we are normal! Certain foods (I-m can-t even recall what they are) and more liquids may help but I-m not sure there is evidence of that. I think it-s just another sign of getting older (sigh) but at least the climaxes still feel as good as they always did!
Go visit your family Dr.
See your doctor. And don-t stress over it.
Perhaps for this type of question u should mention ur age...as the age ladder increases the ejaculations decreases..which is normal phenonmenon..and what do you think that u become older and older and remain the same as young with respect to organ which absurd.so it sure that your health may be fit and fine but the machine u r carrying is becoming old so older machines perform less.
The quantity of my ejaculations has decreased.? -

Opposite of premature ejaculation? -

Opposite of premature ejaculation? -

Just curious. I-m being 100% serious here. I just lost my virginity at age 21. Been with the same girl over the past few weeks. I am having exactly the opposite of what I feared. Instead of ejaculating within the first minute, I can-t seem to at all.. Please know I-m being serious. The girl-s self esteem is getting lower because of it I think. I-m worried if this is an actual problem that people deal with?


Yes, this is an actual problem,
You may need to change positions to offer more direct stimulation
No big deal dude, if ya wanna hav real fun in the bed, stop rehersals, atleast a week before, n when the time comes, dont get nervous, let things work normally, ask her to gently massage it first (from the outside), then take it out, rub the dick n give gentle strokes..........i-ll change my name if it doesnt work (but u gotta follow the whole process exactly)..........
It-s all in your head buddy... The more you worry / think about it the worse it will get. I know that-s really difficult not to worry about when you can see your girl friend is upset, but when you try to do it too hard, it WONT happen.

Try more fore-play, warming lubricant, and just be loose an relaxed. That should help you out!

BEST OF LUCK!!!
Yeah, it-s cuz you are used to your hand which changes it-s tightness according to what you think feels good.

Don-t masturbate for a while and it-ll all be good.
I would say it-s probably related to lack of interest on your part. Maybe you don-t really want to have sex with her for one reason or another? Maybe your partner is uptight. Don-t worry practice makes perfect :)
A lot of medications can cause this, particularly anti-depressants. Also some injuries. See a doctor.

Is this a problem when you-re alone?
Sometimes the organ can lose sensitivity through frequent m/b. (not saying this is the issue) - Try some KY sensations or wintergreen altoids with oral.
it-s not a problem, maybe your thinking to hard, let go and just enjoy the feeling
Fake it. It will save her self-esteem and women do it all the time.
excessive nerve damage from circumcision maybe
Opposite of premature ejaculation? -

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Fiance has premature ejaculation? -

Fiance has premature ejaculation? -

We-ve been sexually active for about 2 ? months now. Usually we have sex for like 30-40 mins... we lose track of time. But lately he ejaculates about 2 mins after we start. What could be affecting this, how could we stop it from happening?


Hi, you asked a serious question and so far there have only been smartass answers. My wife and I had been married several years when the same thing started happening to me. My wife and I talked about the problem and together we were able to work it out. For us, it was as simple as slowing down or even stopping (briefly) when it was about to happen. Surprisingly, stopping allowed time to do other things and as a result, our sex life improved dramatically. I hope this helps.

One other thing, make sure to talk to him and let him know that you are happy, but that you would like to make it better for the both of you...

Good luck...
May be some stress. Spend more time in foreplay. Try in the later part of night after a good rest. If the problem persists, see a doctor.
Let me get this straight.......you agreed to marry a guy you-ve only been schtupping for 2.5 months?

And it-s only half an hour each time???!?!!

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Not trying to be gross, but he-s probably not snapping the lizard as much as he used to since he-s now with you. That-ll reduce his endurance in that respect.
Maybe its just because you-ve only been sexually active for a short period of time. You said that is only recently a problem, right? Not sure what could be causing this.
But here-s some things you could try:
You could try using the squeeze technique. Before he ejaculates withdraw his penis and apply firm but light pressure with your index finger on the top his penis head and thumb underneath and hold for 30 seconds or until he loses the wind in his sails, sort of speak. then resume having sex again. This will prolong intercourse.
I-ve also heard that penis rings might work too to prolong things. Just look online.
Good luck.
He needs more practise. Your guide for knowledge,
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Sounds like you-re turning him on more. Maybe you need to do it twice. I-m sure he-ll be slower the second time. It doesn-t sound like classic premature ejaculation.
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If he cums that fast, you must be way HOT!!!!!!

Try way more fore-play. Have him use toys to bring you to pleasure and climax first; then he can get his 2 minutes of intercourse.
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what about doing it agian
you know more than once
i would get it up twice or even 3 times
i wouldnt quit
Anxiety or stress may be the reason. I think it-s a passing phase. U both will be OK, good luck!
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. Maybe he has a serotonin deficiency. That is one of the major causes of premature ejaculation.
The better the quality of a womans vagina..wet hot and tight...the faster a man will climax every time..unless he is under the influence of something that will delay his ejaculation and orgasm...it is possible for a man to ejaculate and not have a true extasy..but if he ejaculating very quickly then you have a good quality of vaginal walls and fluids...and its not big and sloppy and dry...now you have to not let him do full insertions and prolong the forplay to help you reach the climax too.
You are right to address it early before it becomes an habbit. Things to look at maybe would include -are you exciting him overly before you start (oral, hands, visual etc)-, -are there any perceived risks or time pressures that may be making him want to get it done quickly?-, or -have you stopped doing something that slowed him down such as stopping using a condom?- If things don-t improve quickly see a therapist.
it happens to all guys to be quicky sometimes. Maybe he-s stress out. give him a relaxing and conducive scenario. You can tackle it and plan for a more enjoyable sex next time. goodluck to both of you.
tell him to train his pc muscle its what stop you from peeing half way through tell him to go to ask men.com they have loads of premature sorta stuff don-t listen to most of the pricks on here

and if that doesnt work im always here ;)
Fiance has premature ejaculation? -